How do you get know girls were you have nothing in common with her?

[Anonymous]

I've been thinking and I've noticed that I don't have much in common with most girls. Is there anyway to get to know them and bridge the gap or am I just screwed. Most of my interests seem to be mostly guy thing. Not like masculine guy things, more nerdy and tech guy things.

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There's also the problem figuring out where to go to find someone if things ever actually open up.

I'm also having a problem getting how to do small talk. It seems to go nowhere with me.

[Shubhamgupta]

This is the feelings of loniless person, and I think you are introvert that's why unable to judge your own thoughts, give some time to yourself , roam new places and meet new persons. Slowly you will realise it is just the small thought which you have overthinked.

[Gedaria]

I use to do life modelling, years ago.
But some women approached me for private sittings.
Some of them I would not have thought they were into it.

[Bee-Hatch]

Just talk to women. Offer a few compliments. Showing interest is often enough to get interest.


Just plan a few topics that don't come across as creepy and you'll be fine. (Ask a woman you know to check what you're planning to chat about.