Why do people pretend that "looks dont matter" ?

[Anonymous]

i am not saying that "only" looks matter and personality means shit.

I am saying looks are just as important as personality. It is an important factor and yet when you ask people , 99% take the moral highground by saying "oh , i dont care about looks blah blah"

You can'r fuck with personality. The other person has to be attractive enough for you to desire to have sex with them.

What piss me off is that if you give options to people , they will always date the one who is most attractive but they never admit to it. They say something and do something else.
If this isn't hypocrisy , what is?

[Anonymous]

Because looks don’t matter for everyone. For majority of people you ask, they’ll be blunt and say looks matter. Then you have those who lie and say they don’t matter as not to appear shallow, or to get judged. But there are definitely individuals out there who don’t care, crazy as it apparently seems for you. I only say this because myself and a few other women in my family are this way. At one point yes, I was very shallow, but I was also a lot younger and cared what people thought. I soon realize that it doesn’t matter what someone looks like, they can hurt you regardless, and it’s all about intentions. Some of the best people are “ugly”, but so are some of the worst. I’d rather be open to love from wherever the universe sends it, than overlooking potential because the dude isn’t Brad Pitt.

[Anonymous]

To men looks definitely matter. Men are attracted to beautiful women naturally.
To women. A woman can decide to date you or have sex with you in the first interaction if you had celebrity looks, rich and highly confident.
That's why there is dating books. This dating books help men who don't have celebrity looks to get any woman they want.
The whole seduction system was built specifically for this type of men. They came with methods on how to seduce women without being naturally attractive or rich.
Some of them work. Nowadays being attractive is good but not the important thing. Average looking can get any hot womanThe underground seduction community has been studying women for decades. This is a sure factor they have level up their game. Looks sometimes matter but if you don't have it you gotta find a way.

[RyzaStout]

Some people will genuinely not care about looks. I find people attractive but they're attractiveness isn't what makes me want to have sex with them. I get sexually attracted to someone if we get on well, if they have a good personality, and have some kind of emotional connection with. Plus what one person finds attractive may not be what another classes as attractive. I've met many people who think the people I find attractive aren't attractive to them.

[helloilikeflowers]

I think everyone has something attractive about them if you look hard enough. Besides, looks don't last, so I don't think you should worry about it that much. My parents have drilled that into me so now I really just want to find someone with a personality that I love. Also, I wouldn't want guys to turn me down because of my looks so it would be rude of me if I did that. Maybe I'm being hypercritical but that's just my opinion. 😂

[harmon]

Yeah, you're totally right. Looks do matter a lot. I don't wanna fall in love with someone I don't consider as attractive. So first the look, and then the personality