Get your shit and go. Why waste your time on a guy who doesn't pay attention to you when many other guys would? If you are unhappy, dump him and leave. Yeah, break ups suck. But they are a part of life, so suck it up and stand up for yourself.
If you don't stand up for you, who else will? He's not going to change, you're either happy with him or not. You're not, so move on.
It's okay to leave a relationship if you aren't getting what you need out of it. It doesn't sound like he's ready for the responsibility of a relationship, and if he's unwilling to alter his behaviour after you've told him it upsets you, then it's time to leave and find someone who values you more
Tell him how you feel, it might be the only way he'll know how he's making you feel, as it seems like he can't see it for himself. Once he know he might lose you he'll hopefully give you loads more attention. Good luck!
You are Not a First Priority, He uses you Just to Have you Around when he Wants you. Break it Off, Lovely. xx
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I'll give you the hard truth about this. Guys will pursue a girl if he finds her attractive but once he gets her he will stop being as attentive if he only liked her for her looks.
So it sounds like your boyfriend just likes your looks, not you.
I would move on. But remember this because it's likely other guys will do the same thing. Just keep moving on until you find a guy that genuinely enjoys your company and conversation.
just break up with him, m brother is the same way, works then plays videogames, that is all he does, he needs to learn someday he can't treat people that way and you might be the way he learns, so just leave him and then got talking to those other boys you were talking about. of he is a Gopnik you should probably stay away in general.
He should be giving you the attention you require or at least more than this. My dream is to stop gaming and spend that time with a girl.
Who cares about him, if you aren't happy, leave him. As you said loads of guys will give you their full attention. You're a good looking girl, it's easy for you
If both are not spending enough time together then what is the point of being in a relationship in the first place.
Just make him play with you rather than playing a game and the case will be closed. Boys like games but less than women. Just seduce him Again, lol.
From what you've written, video games are more important to your boyfriend than you are. Time to kick him to the curb, move on, and find a guy that will appreciate you. This relationship is going nowhere, except down.
This is so stupid. Why does he have to break up with you? If YOU are unhappy what is stopping you breaking up with him?
Ask him if he's willing to set aside time between just both of you, relationships are about compromise and understanding. If he loves you then he will do it for you. Perhaps suggest a dinner date, or spend a day at the park.
Dump him, and tell him exactly why you are dumping him.
Time for a meet boyfriends. Never make someone a priority when you are only an option.
Please tell him how you feel. Communication is very important and you are not doing anything wrong by doing so. Holding this in would just make you suffer.
I think you need to have a serious conversation with him about both of your needs
Draw the lines to him tell him if he's willing to set dates with you or go to movies with you or you'll dump him if he dosent take a face of action just leave him
Talk about it with him.
If he doesn't change his behaviour towards you, then get yourself another boyfriend😂
Dont. Its his fault. You should be the most important thing to him. He will regret it one day!
suck his dick while he's gaming. it's your duty to please him anyway, and he will get hard and cum into your mouth. that's attention, right?
Have you talked to him about how you feel
So why are you with him then?
may be he had enough of you!
Leave.
He's not there to entertain you
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