If a guy invites you to his pool without you going on a date beforehand, is he looking just to hookup with you?

[Anonymous]

He did say I owe him a date if he doesn't like the restaurant I suggested. But he didn't ask me to dinner right away

[JPrez]

Hard to say for sure but I would look at his intentions as genuine for just swimming unless there is something else that we don't know about.

[Asker]

Hmm ok, thanks for the input

[JPrez]

Sure. You bet. I would add, though, be prepared in case he's not genuine. Have a response ready or a plan.

[Asker]

Got it, appreciate the suggestion

[JPrez]

Glad to help. I hope it works out the way you want it to work out.

[Asker]

You're too kind, thanks

[Davidstarboy]

Not necessarily because he might just wanna have your company as a friend to buildup next level relationship.

[Anonymous]

If a guy asks you to do anything l, ever... he is looking to hook up with you.

[Jmmmfi4]

It amuses me these are the connections you drew

[Asker]

He suggested I show up in a bikini after I said I'd wear a hazmat suit

[Jmmmfi4]

It's funny this the first thing every girl just automatically assumes about pretty much anything a guy says or does

[Asker]

Ok yes, I admit a lot of us do. what do you think about the guy?