Are “party” girls a turn off or a turn on? (Page 2)

Question

So, I’m not impressed with party people. People who obsessed with alcohol, drinking games, dirty dancing in front of a group of people, etc. I have a dirty side... but I don’t do it with everyone I meet. What are your thoughts on these girls?

JPrez · Answer

Am familiar with these types. Most are bored attention seekers who claim they are going out to have fun and dance but that’s not really the reason.

AlexanderAnttila · Answer

Biggest turn off. And frankly I pity women like that who have to drink themselves to a stupor and prostitute themselves visually and physically just to try and feel good.

TeeBar · Answer

The key word in you question was 'obsessed'. Exclude these people and most party-goers are fun to be with.

dwcl99 · Answer

Turn off for me. I don't drink or do drugs, so I find that whole scene a big turn off for me.

slatyb · Answer

Drinking to excess? A huge turnoff for me. She would be a disaster as a partner, and no fun as a one-night stand.

Mr1derful · Answer

Turn off. I'm quieter and private and that lifestyle does nothing for me. But with that said I'm not opposed to dirty or naughty girls privately. That's def a turn on.

mellowed0uttt · Answer

In my opinion its a turn off, partying is ok but if she has no self respect or self control its an immediate no for me.

AdithyaR · Answer

Party obsessed people just aren't my type of people, irrespective of gender. I wouldn't befriend one, much less date a party obsessed girl.

Anonymous · Answer

If a guy is the type to want t hook up for casual sex with no interest in finding a good partner, then party girls are great. But for guys who are genuinely looking for a serious relationship or marriage material, party girls are of no interest.

jhnny1331 · Answer

Turn off, having fun is one thing but it's hard feel the conversation with somebody who's always drunk or high or distracted with that bullshit you know you never have their undivided attention

na2398 · Answer

I wouldn't prefer girls who drink excessively. Parties shouldn't turn out to be kinda "I'd fuck anyone ". I'm a huge fan of conservative girls who are independent

DamnSam · Answer

Turn off for me If you go out and its boring without alcohol, maybe you're just an alcoholic

bowenw · Answer

These girls are perfect for guys looking for a one night stand.

Miristheiss · Answer

Do not like.  I never dated that type and walked away the instant I got that vibe from them.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

sounds like too much anxiety to me. i suppose i did at one point in life

Hypnos0929 · Answer

Depends on the woman and how you define party tbh. I personally don't care as long as she's loyal and not doing anything worse than smoking weed

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Huge turn off. there's the kind of girl you party with and the kind you marry. They can't be one and the same.

Myk13 · Answer

There was a time when those were the girls that I was looking for. Not for a long term relationship or anything serious. Just for the good times.

Swordnen · Answer

Depends on the man... if guy likes to party why not if he is introvert then there are two possibility -> Guy changes girl to introvert ->Girl changes guy to extrovert

AshrafWest · Answer

Gurl. You’re young. Enjoy yourself. Responsibly! But enjoy yourself!

JSmuve · Answer

These girls are fake and just doing it for attention and approval, which is definitely a turn off.

Dre_808 · Answer

I wouldn't "seriously" date one, mainly because I'm not big into the party scene. So if she's out without me acting like that it's a deal breaker.

Wiredone · Answer

I'm not a big party scene guy so I wouldn't date a woman like that. I drink occasionally but not to get drunk.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

These are the Shrimpos you don’t want to hunt. Not for me. Sorry can’t do that. No. I said no. I do t think so

Xoirwinkan · Answer

I mean, its totally not compatible with me. If she likes to stay at home and read books that sounds better, because thats me.

DWornock · Answer

They are not appealing. However, people can party and have fun without much drinking, sex, and overly sexy dressing and behavior.

okeydoke · Answer

Not my type really. There’s a time and place for it. Once in a blue moon is fine, but I’d rather go blues dancing or something.

pinkFluffyUnicorn69 · Answer

If she's hitting on everyone in the club, huge no. If by party you mean someone that knows what's fun in life, huge yes because she can be independent. Just don't go overboard and it's 👌🏻

WalkingBassist · Answer

I'm kinda like you. If they show off for the public, what's left for the imagination? Plus, isn't restraint and discipline a more powerful expression of love or attraction or whatever?

StrikeJam · Answer

When i was a student - there was a period, when i liked those kind of girls...  But generally - no. Not my type )  Looks like i'm getting old lol

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