I bet you're absolutely gorgeous and friendly and smart and kind. I don't think you should be concerned about that kiss at all. You're the type of person that romantic movies and books are written about. The beautiful girl that has never been kissed because guys have been too scared to approach her, or maybe you're clueless when it comes to realizing someone has a crush on you, or maybe you just haven't met Mr. Right yet. But that doesn't matter because it's not a race. If anything it is going to make that kiss extra meaningful and that's awesome. Don't feel rushed or embarrassed. It will happen. And when it does it will be magic.
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If I were to become your boyfriend, it would be very romantic if your first kiss was with me. A lot of guys would feel that way. There is nothing wrong with you. A lot of women haven't had their first kiss. So much depends on the family situation, how you were brought up, what your social contact possibilities happen to be, how shy you are, etc.
Please don't cry, it is relatively normal that you haven't had your first kiss yet, my sister never had one till 21, my brother is 20 and hasn't had one yet, there is only one person in my family who has had a kiss before 20. when you great a boyfriend just ask him for a kiss, or if you already have one, just ask.
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Just takes meeting the right person and then being comfortable in the right situation. With covid it's tougher to socialize but in my experience it works best to meet people through mutual friends... just put yourself out there, try not to be overly shy, initiate conversation with people you find interesting/attractive.
I can feel you exactly. I'm in the same place and people tell me I'm a good looking guy and really nice and all, but I think they just tell me that because I'm down about it and stuff, but it's bs.
I don't think it's embarrassing not to by now, just uncommon these days, but hopefully we both break the milestone with someone we want to rather than getting it over withIt's not uncommon to not have that experience at that age. There's nothing wrong with you. Is your question more about the embarrassment or the frustration? Because there's nothing to be embarrassed about.
If all you want is a kiss to get it out of the way then just find a guy, tap him on the shoulder and say "Wanna kiss?" If he says no, try a different one. I bet you don't get past 5 guys before one says yes and BAM first kiss is done.
Totally normal. Not at all a turn off. You have nothing to worry about.
Why would that be embarrassing? You don't have to wear a sign.
Don't feel embarrassed at all I had my first kiss at age 28
so you got lot time to go yet LOLyou should raise your standards a little more. That will definitely help you.
No, i have 21 and im virgin and only kissed my cousin at kid. You have to save kisses to give to somebody that like and appreciate you.
Be glad that as a girl you are not expected to take action or talk to guys first
When the time is right it will happen
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there is nothing to be embarrassed.No I haven't either
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