She is interested for sure. But i would not overreact. I think it sounds like she thinks that you are cute. Nothing more, nothing less. It is possible she might even have a boyfriend and felt guilty for leading you on.
I actually dated a girl that was a receptionist at my gym. It was the same situation like yours. She liked me but wanted to be professional at work. We would joke around and flirt with one another but held back in certain ways too. I didn't give her my number until her very last day at the gym. So I knew her for months without asking her out because I didn't want drama at the gym I go to. She took my number and never called me until a few months later out of the blue. Then she asked me out on a date. She was a skinny black girl with amazing tits and lips. She was actually a really nice gal.
What you should do
Your strongest play at this point is to give her your card or write down your phone number and give it to her. Say, "Hey, I have really like your vibe and you are someone I want to get to know. We should go on a date. Here is my number. Text me after work and I will let you know what I have in mind."
Most Helpful Opinions
I’m a former gym/spa receptionist, and would like to offer some perspective. So, not to completely douse your hopes, but it is quite possible that her actions are coincidental. I only say this as someone who is incredibly nice and could get especially busy at work. When busy, we are typically motoring back and forth to random ass places and doing random things to get something done. I promise, I have walked by/squeezed through/ went around such odd shit for different reasons. It could be I was heading to certain machines to get their numbers, headed to Maintenance room, babysitting, laundry, or sauna, and I was in a huge rush Bc I’d be the only one working the front desk. Sometimes I simply just wanted to be inconspicuous because I didn’t always like being stared at when moving about the gym floors. HOWEVER, none of this means specifically that she isn’t interested. She could very much be, and just waiting to see if you’ll make a move since she can’t (especially if her job has cameras). I think your best bet would be striking up small conversation, IE make a move. If you don’t, you’ll be stuck on this site getting all of our assumptions with no factual answers, and that isn’t helpful. So go for it. The worst she can say is no and that’s not gonna kill you. I’d also like to add that if you do approach, be sure she isn’t busy, or has anyone with her!
I think she probably got a bit annoyed after showing you signs that she wants you to approach her yet you haven’t and now she thinks you’re uninterested or unavailable. Try to strike up a convo with her and ask her if she’d be comfortable sharing her social media/phone number with you Bc you’d like to get to know her better !
Let's be honest she wasn't exactly acting warm to begin with, you barely interacted with her. My advice would be to just find an excuse to talk to her, then ask her out so you can get to know her better away from that setting.
The worst thing that can happen is she says no, in which case you haven't lost anything. At least you'll know for sure.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
2Opinion
- u
ask her out how many dumbbell hammer curls do you do how many pounds?
You like her
The only opinion from girls was selected the Most Helpful Opinion, but you can still contribute by sharing an opinion!
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!