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Men, is a woman being a virgin in her midtwenties a turn off? (Page 2)
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My religion is Muslim and we can't have sex until after marriage and most of them probably on their mid twenties so I don't think there is something wrong with it at all. Why we can't have sex before marriage is to not have a baby without a parents.
Only if she were saving for marriage and she's Christian. I'm willing to look 3 years older than my age unless she's super hot then 4, but statistically it's more likely a woman younger than me will be a virgin. My age range is generally +3 or - 3 so women 19 - 25. For any reason other than God, I couldn't date, but if she keeps out of devotion to Christ then her age is irrelevant as long is it is within range.
Absolutely, thats ideal in fact. I don't want a woman who would just give it away to anyone and every one.
It's cool, I'm a virgin at 24. I'm not saving it for anything and in not ugly or gay, I actually like pussy a lot lol. it happens different for everyone doesn't matter why or when it happens.
Its not a turn off I didn't lose mine till I was 23. I do think that society looks down on virgin men much more than virgin women. Its a double standard. If your a virgin guy its usually a turn off to women and people think your a pussy who has no game or maybe even think your gay. If a women is virgin they thinks its admirable or a turn on.
Yes, but only if she was open to being sexual in other ways. She would have to be willing to give me oral sex at least to make up for that. I don't mean that to sound crass, but most men are going to want to be sexual in some way.
No, for me it's a turn on because I've saved myself as well.
I'm still a virgin and I turn 28 this year so that is no problem for me.
That's what I prefer. I'm saving myself for marriage, so it would be a great gift to me if she did the same
Are you a virgin?
O. O he said he is saving himself for marriage so...
Yes I am a virgin. And I'm very content with that. Until marriage that is
Not a turn-off. However, a man would have to be serious about her since she is "saving it for the right person".
No. Not in the slightest bit. It's more of a turn on for me actually; because it means she can control herself and perhaps won't sleep with someone until she loves and trusts him.
there is a lot you're missing out on in life if you're not gonna have sex. And most guys would not want to date without sex. Unless he's just as prude as you.
Prude. That sure gives out a negative connotation. You never know this girl young woman might be the exact opposite of prude. Prude done just mean that she's not had sex I respect her and her decision. I remember is I was going through my 30s and then my forties with each passing year I thought I am now more ready than I was in the past 2 truly handle a sexual relationship. To be honest I think the longer you wait the better. Just my opinion and you're certainly most welcome to share yours. Just saying
@aliali8 "a lot you're missing out on". Like pregnancy? Changing diapers? Paying for childcare while at work?
@jdonhere77 nobody goes through life not ever having sex. If you want to remain a virgin until 60 because you've never gotten married. The only one missing out big in life is YOU. Sex is an amazing experience that you can experience best only when you're young
@jdonhere77 "The longer you wait the better.". I personally disagree with you, sir. I think it's a bell curve that tops out at around age 20.
@Jamie05rhs
""a lot you're missing out on". Like pregnancy? Changing diapers? Paying for childcare while at work?"
Because you've never had great sex. So you have no idea how amazing it is. It takes years of experience to be skilled and good at sex. The most experienced you are, the better the sex will be. Sex will just be about pregnancy, daycare costs if you've never had it.
@Jamie05rhs "The longer you wait the better.". I personally disagree with you, sir. I think it's a bell curve that tops out at around age 20."
Male sexual performance starts declining around the age of 40. For females, sex drives tends to go up in 40s. But if you're 40 and still inexperienced, the sex still won't be amazing. It takes a bit of skill and experience to know how to have amazing sex.
@jdonhere77 Why did you lie about your age?
About my age yes it didn't mean to I did push a wrong number and I have since tried to go back and change it and not had any luck. I will try again sorry. All the other points that you made are extremely valid and I wouldn't try to take away from not only your viewpoints but your experience I do understand where you're coming from. I guess the only point I was trying to make was I think on this life each year that passes we are learn more about relationships even sexuality, so I just personally think waiting can be a bad thing. I mean within reason I don't believe you should wait till your 40 years old. Then you wouldn't be combat compatible with very many people. So yes everything you said has a valid viewpoint.
I'm not sure who you were referring to but I'll tell you this much I have had some mind-blowing sex. Just saying I'm with you on that
@aliali8 My first point went entirely over your head. I was being sarcastic.
I agree with you on the second part, though.
I know I'm old and I don't always get things but could you tell me what part went over my head? I'm clueless tonight this is not my night LOL
@jdonhere77 I was talking to @aliali8.
I did have a typeo. It's supposed to say I don't think waiting can be a bad thing. Instead it says I think waiting can be a bad thing.
@Jamie05rhs is it because you're angry that you're missing out on so much which is why you feel the need to shit on people who have sex? Quit hating people who enjoy sex. You don't see other people hating you on for being a virgin. To each, their own. Respect people and their decisions. I've seen enough of your crap on here
Okay alright Jamie you have a good night
@jdonhere77 You as well, sir.
And roger on the typo.
@aliali8 I didn't know you had a personal problem with me. Thanks for informing me of that.
And no, I'm not angry.
@aliali8 Also, I've never seen you on here before. But it's nice to meet you.
@Jamie05rhs Staying virgin is your own choice. You have no right to impose your own opinions on others. Everyone is entitled to celebrating their own religions. If you want to worship Christianity, i have right to worship Judaism or Islam.
If a guy can’t expect it then they are in a rush lol not everyone is obsessed with sex I’m 18 and I really don’t care about sex or men right now.
@deadroses18 your desire to have sex increases as you age, especially for women. When I was 18-21, I didn't experience a strong desire to have sex either.
@aliali8 does that mean I’m going to get more horny but why?
@aliali8 Yes, it is my choice. And it is also the actor's choice. So don't shame her for that.
@deadroses18 I am in no rush to have sex. I want a relationship first.
@Jamie05rhs yea well other people have right to embrace their own choice to have sex too, without your personal rude comments.
@deadroses18 sex drive is different for everyone. there are many women out there who spend their whole lives with very low sex drives. But generally speaking for overwhelming majority of the population, women get hornier as they get older. Desire for really sex peaks in 40s, for women.
@aliali8 I didn't make any rude comments. I have never been rude to you.
@Jamie05rhs you don't act as if said something wrong when i clearly did not.
@Jamie05rhs your first comment on here wasn't a pleasant one. and it also didn't make any sense for you to argue against it. Because by staying virgin, you ARE missing out.
@aliali8 Maybe it wasn't pleasant. But it was realistic. All of those things are a fact of life for many, many women. They were worth mentioning.
@Jamie05rhs Many of us have sex with contraception. You think birth control and condoms are uncommon? So no, the only one missing out is you. And you find it difficult to accept. So now you are disturbing other people on here.
@aliali8 Did you have a previous account with a different name? I'm sensing a lot of hostility here and it doesn't add up. It seems like you have a personal beef with me for some reason. I don't remember ever interacting with anyone named Ali before, though.
I have nothing against birth control nor condoms. I think they're great.
@Jamie05rhs well you are missing out. so don't come on here to tell me that I'm missing out.
Pregnancy, childcare are also not necessarily bad things if one wants kids. I know I'll want them one day regardless if i can find a husband.
@aliali8 I think you're being very judgmental. But live your life how you wish. Just be aware that if you attack my friends, I will defend them. Nothing personal.
@Jamie05rhs i think you're the one who is suffering under your arrogant religious façade.
Ali, honey, I'm not suffering at all. I think you need to give this a rest.
@Jamie05rhs so why would you be writing rude comments on here?
@aliali8 I'm not. I haven't said anything that was rude.
@Jamie05rhs
"a lot you're missing out on". Like pregnancy? Changing diapers? Paying for childcare while at work?
here's your lame attempt
@aliali8 I have a very high sex drive but every time I’m able to have sex I don’t.
@deadroses18 Well you have many years ahead of you to have sex. Just don't wait till you're old to have sex. The best sex happens when you're young.
@aliali8 What I said was the truth. Take it or leave it.
@Jamie05rhs Its not the truth because condoms and birth controls are very commonly used. You just want it to be true cuz you're butt hurt that you can't have sex.
@aliali8 I think you're projecting. I think you're butthurt because you're not satisfied with the sex that you're having. That's why you're taking your frustration out on people who are celibate.
@Jamie05rhs so what? I've had sex, i don't have kids, or pay for childcare. your statement has no validity at all. Jealous bitch
@aliali8 So now you're calling me names? I never called You a bitch...
Why are you so bitter? You seem like a very unhappy individual.
@Jamie05rhs hmmm... if you weren't, then why would you say something as dumb as that?
@aliali8 I think I'm done talking to you. You're not a reasonable or intelligent person.
@Jamie05rhs of course you're unhappy. Your dating pool is pretty much almost non existent, you're missing out on sex so far already in life, you're not having a family anytime soon. why wouldn't you writing rude comments?
@aliali8 Why do you feel the need to recruit other women to be like you? I think it's because you need company. You need external validation.
@Jamie05rhs I’m a virgin and single and I’m happy with it 😊
@deadroses18 That's cool.
@Jamie05rhs who ever said i was looking to recruit? i don't have to recruit. Overwhelming of the adult population are not virgins.
@deadroses18 Jamie obviously isn't happy which is why he decided to write rude comments
That's right. And yet you purposely took the time out of your day to comment on this girl's post.
@Jamie05rhs because only a non virgin hater would agree with a rude person like you. Nobody else would agree with you
@aliali8 So I'm a "non virgin hater." Okay lol.
@Jamie05rhs well I don’t have kids. So don’t go hating saying that I have to pay for childcare
I would. I would just hope that I'd be the right person. 😂 As long as she is not saving it for marriage then I'd date her.
I would 100% date her, if anything I would like to date her more.
Of course.
"saving it for the right person" doesn't actually mean much because anyone could be that right person. It could be the guy you start dating.
Not at all. I'm entering my 20s and I'm pretty sure I won't lose my virginity until my studies are done so I'll be a virgin as well in my mid 20s, I don't see a problem with it.
That is actually a turn-on for men who want a wife.
I agree with her about saving herself for the right guy
I don't care if she's 30 or older I would still be with her
For me that is a turn ON. I definitely respect women (and men) more who have only had sex in committed relationships. I don't expect a woman to necessarily be a virgin, but it's certainly not a turn off at all.
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