White guys, would you date a white girl after she dated a black guy?

[Anonymous]

As a white man myself, I don't have any problem in dating white girls who dated black guys before.

These white girls are looking for stability and, although it's not I look for in a relationship, I'm fine with that.

But under certain unspoken conditions as relationships are about making sacrifices... I make an effort not to get offended when people say behind my back that "she has a thing for black guys, but landed a white guy," and I don't refuse to offer stability and support to my girlfriend.

In return, I expect her to forgive me every time I cheat on her. Just forgive, forget and life goes on.

If she ends up finding out that I'm f*cking around or even seeing videos of me with other women on Reddit, she just has to pretend she never saw it. I expect gratitude.

Everything comes with a price, right?

I'm not racist, so white women don't need to ne concerned, I don't turn them down just because they dated a black guy before.

[wankiam]

not a racist but still mentioning ''that'' stereotype? why do i say this? because i dated many women that have had previous black boyfriends and really dont care about that or what others have to say about it and i certainly wouldn't feel the need to post this question on here.

[Asker]

What stereotype? Do you think I'm a 15 yo that watched porn and believes that black guys are "bigger"?

No, I'm not that kind of guy.

[wankiam]

i dont know what you are but im not seeing why you would even ask this... maybe just read it back and see if you can see why i might think you are maybe somehow virtue signalling which in itself re enforces the stereotype you are now saying you dont recognize... its not even a criticism by the way... more a way of communicating how deep racism can run even with those that believe they aren't

[Asker]

The point is, those white women are known for trash talking white men and then going for a white man to get into a relationship with.

I'm fine about dating them, but I already explained what are my conditions... Unfortunately, they seem not to like it when I do it in real life...

[wankiam]

can i ask are you American? its just this shit was done with around 30 years ago here in the uk but i do recognize america is a very different animal when it comes to this kind of thing... anyway my advice is still the same, ignore what others think... we get past shit like this by not rising to those that want you to make something out of it

[Asker]

Yes, I'm from NYC. As you seem to know, race relations are shitty in here. I don't know how it is in the UK.

[wankiam]

not like that at all thankfully... yes there is racism bust the majority of people just dont give a shit about race when it comes to who dated who anymore

[Asker]

The problem with Americans is that we're too disrespectful and inconsequent. To be honest with you, I started hating white women for that reason.

We're dating a white girl, everything is going to be nice, then we find old videos or posts of her saying SHIT about white men to praise black men.

I don't care about morals anymore, if they can do it, then I can spam the internet with videos of me f... Latinas and Asian girls while taking crap of white women. But, curiously enough, white women don't like it.

[wankiam]

not so sure any of that will ultimately help but you have to live as you wish... for me though the best way to get past something is to no longer make an issue of it

[mikehawke]

The stereotype is bullshit. C’mon guys.

[WesBrewer]

I don't care who or how many she used to be with as long as I am the last one, but I wouldn't reject a girl just because of her exes look.

[Asker]

Me too. I just do it under certain conditions and I explained in in my question details.

[WesBrewer]

I read what you said, I don't get why you rejected her, unless you were saying you don't want a stable relationship.

[Asker]

I don't reject women like that, at least not if they're attractive. I just said that I can offer support and stability, but in return if she gets to know that I'm fucking around, she has to forgive and forget it.

[WesBrewer]

oh, that is what you meant

[bamesjond0069]

Usually if a girl dated a black guy they have mental issues. Im white but i got that big dick alpha swag most of these girls look for so i get a lot of them. They are all fucked in the head. Haven't met one who wasn't actually.

[Asker]

I see them as cheating material, LMFAO!

[Scholastic]

Sounds reasonable to me, in a way.
In another, maybe she wanted to put a guy like that into his place - but women doing that, which then goes over white male backs - it's yuk.
I have only ever seen one, and not a black guy but a refugee (in Europe) - I _think_ I would date her, but I'd have to first ask 'what the hell were you thinking with that disaster'

[DesolateRain]

I've seen this particular question being asked too many times.

[Asker]

I think this is an intetesting question, and it's interesting to see other guys's perspectives on it.

[Asker]

Guys'*

[DesolateRain]

But it sucks because I can't even answer it.

[DesolateRain]

But yeah, it's pretty intresting nonetheless.

[Asker]

But you're allowed to share your thoughts on it too. My question is not intended to be exclusively answered by other white men.

[boggboss]

Lol so who shebslept with before justifies u cheating 😅

[Asker]

As I said, relationships are about making sacrifices.

[boggboss]

But I dont see how thats a sacrifice worth taking

[Asker]

Why not?

They want stability and support. I can give it to them. But under certain conditions as I've told in my question details...

[boggboss]

Yet by definition you are not providing stability just a false sense of it

[Asker]

Oh...

Ot can be a stable relationship. That's what I said, "Just forgive, forget and life goes on."

If I give her stability, financial support, emotional support, if I we have kids and I raise them properly... Why focusing on what I do for fun with other women sometimes? How does it affect her at the end of the day.

And no, I'm not being cynical nor sarcastic.

[boggboss]

So u would be equally fine with her having a man on the side and bringing up kids in a situation where your cheating is also stable your just throwing money at her and saying u will support her but this simply sounds like a trophy wife situation but meh difdernt fokes different strokes I guess 👍🏽

[Asker]

Of course I won't tolerate if she does the same. I have stability and an interesting life, I don't need to subject myself to other people's wishes.

[boggboss]

Fair enough by this tho why settle down in the first place

[Asker]

To be honest with you, I'm never really that enthusiastic about settling down, but I'm fine with it in order to fulfill a social expectation.

[boggboss]

At that point what the point ahahahah😅

[Asker]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Browneye57]

Hmmm... seems like you're a fucking retard. [shrug]

[Asker]

Maybe. At least my dick works very fine. Can you say the same, grandpa?

[Browneye57]

Sure can dipshit.

[SavageRenegades]

@Asker YOUR A FRUITY COCK SUCKIN FAGGET ASS LAME ANYHOW HOMIE DROP THAT LOCATION TALKIN DOWN TO A GROWN MAN FOR SPEAKING HIS AND POINTING OUT HIS PENIS WOW YOU MUST BE A FRUITY AHIT EATIN FAGGET DROP THAT LOCATION AND PROVE ME WRONG LETS SEE IF YOU MAN UP YOU FUCKING PUSSY ASS FAGGET

[Browneye57]

@SavageRenegades - Gee, you seemed so intelligent. LOL

[SClassWizzard]

You clearly pressed and got an issue with it or else you wouldn't keep asking this lol

[Asker]

WTF?

Boy, this is the 1st time I asked this question in particular.

You're clearly a passive-aggressive black boy that wants to force your beliefs onto others. I don't play by your rules.

[Barnstormar]

Nor if she dated anyman of any color before
I date only virgins, heart and body
Girls are for one use only

[Asker]

I'm not a virgin since my 16 years, so I can't demand such thing. I'm hypocritical but not at this point.

[Barnstormar]

It's not hypocrisy or double standards It's not even about Technical virginity It's about purity, modesty, morals and ethics, if the girl had been disvirgined in previous marriage not in casual or boyfriend relationships, it's ok.
Girls who are cheap enough to get in bed without marriage contract are to be manhandled for lifetime and maybe end up a lone or at best with a base cuck pragmatic mean dignityless guy one of those allegedly "feminists" but in fact seeking maybe materialistic benefits
While a chaste modest pure untouched girls get the real gallant men
(Note purity and modesty doesn't mean being meek and retiring they can also be sassy smart girls who know why they're doing what they are doing, and could hold their own in an argument as why...
And tainted girls who let's random guys explore and enjoy her flesh
And though I don't want it turn personal, we are discussing values and morals in general terms and myself is strata above this level of decadence..
I'd never touch a girl without a marriage bond
But that doesn't mean that for guys and girls it's the same, doesn't mean that fornication for girls is the same as for guys with the same consequences and shame!
Think of it it's like the difference between stealing and killing
Though killing is greater crime deserving of greater penalty but stealing is associated with lowlands, baseless, disgust, shame, degeneration
While killing is aggression and violation.
Yet both should be frowned upon and condemn
For the greater good of our society for clean happy world
And aside from mean pragmatist vision of the world these values and concepts are hardwired within any righteous person it's innate it's mother nature
Women and men are to Integrate and complte one another, and though they gotta have equal opportunity and justice but justice doesn't necessarily imply parity.
Think these ideas over
Over

[mikehawke]

If the guy was a ghetto hood rat? Absolutely fucking not. If he was a normal dude that didn’t speak broken English, sure.

[Hungdaddy812]

I would not because I could never be as hung as a black man. I wouldn't feel very good about myself if I was not the best lover a girl ever had.

[Anonymous]

No, once she goes black, I turn my back,,,

[Asker]

I can understand why you think like this.

[SavageRenegades]

ABSOLUTELY ONCE SHE GOES African BOOTY SCRATCHER YOU CAN KEEP THE HIV I DONT WANT NONE

[loveslongnails]

It would never occur to me to ask?

[Asker]

People and social media usually end up telling us.

[loveslongnails]

I can't EVER recall dating a new girl and having her tell me " I just want you to know, I've slept with or dated black men"... or any race specific reference for that matter. It wouldn't effect me if they did, but it's never happened.

[Asker]

[Other] People and social media usually end up telling us.

[CapitalismFailed]

Once they go black they never go back.

[Asker]

Lots of them go back.

[Asker]

Uh oh, the 61 wanker is quiet... Maybe watching porn? Or changing his own geriatric diaper?

[CapitalismFailed]

Sorry I got bored. Also I have a life.

[Anonymous]

Why do you keep asking this?

[Asker]

WTF?

This is the first time I asked this question on here.

[Opinion Owner]

Sure.

[Asker]

Believe it or not! But I'm not here to prove anything to you anyway.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay.

[msc545]

Sure, why not?

[msc545]

The real question is "would any woman date a guy that asked this kind of question?"

[Talksik6]

Yes I have