Guys, would you date a white girl that used to date a black guy?

Question

I've been on three dates recently, one of the guys said via message after the date which said "Sorry, your ruined", one guy told me he thinks I'll cheat (I've never cheated and how he can tell that from a date I have no idea) and the last guy got up, went to the toilet and never came back!

So yeah, do you white guys have an issue with dating women that have been with black guys for some reason? I personally don't have a preference, I go for personality but it seems white guys don't date black girls or girls that have been with black guys.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

As much as I'd date a black girl that used to date a white guy.

The answer is , yes.

But I would question what the woman found attractive about me. Because one thing dating has taught me about MOST women. Women are typically racist when it comes to dating. White women either want to date black men almost exclusively or the majority, not at all. So if she's dated a black guy before me I'd question whether she was even attracted to me and if I was just filler for the time being.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

It would make no difference to me. People are people, regardless of skin color, race or ethnicity.

Jack122112 · Answer

No way. Here's why

1. Im native American and I've almost exclusively dated white women in the past. White women who have been with black dudes are almost always fetishizing dating another race. Gross

2. They are almost always damaged either physically or emotionally with trauma and baggage that I dont want in my life.

3. Black culture (not race) is why I refrain from dating white girls who date black guys. If he's from nigeria... no problem. Very respectful people and usually very attractive too. Usually in the u. s. its a magumba that looks like he has too many chromosomes. Its never Djimon Honsou, its always "tyrone".

4. Its no different than if I grew up Serbian and refused to date a girl who had been with a Croatian. There is a stigma for a reason. Many cultural reasons in fact. I wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole.

5. White girls who have been with black men are considered "damaged goods" or "spoiled milk" by much of society (even black guys who are into her. She will be "for fun" not an investment.) Pass

6. The ridicule and shame that will be associated to her and by proxy "us" , if/when others find out is not worth my peace of mind when I could just go out and find a girl who hasn't been with a black guy.

That being said, I think its a cultural thing and less a race thing. I would have no issue dating a black girl thats been with black guys. White and black mixes are stigmatized and I am very much a victim of that culture and I willfully admit that I may not agree with it 100%... but it IS A THING and I want nothing to do with it.

She can be a perfect 10, but if I find out she's had a "Tyrone" inside of her... she's a 0

I said what I said.

Kallehalle · Answer

I think you should stick to Black Guys now tbh.

Over half of the White Guys you want will be rejecting you. And quite a few White Guys who will date you won't ever get out of their minds that you used to be DESTROYED like an object by a Black Man. All it will take is a bully to break the guy, ruining the relationship. Black Men are very sexualised. They aren't intimate. That's why most hoes talk about how amazing they are in bed, cuz they are promiscuous women who want to be destroyed.

And also Black Men will bang literally anything, and it's a well known fact that White Women fetishize Black Men. So it screams that you are a hoe. You can have been with 3 men, but if I heard you'd been with a Black Man, I'd assume you'd been with at least 20 men, and majority being Black.

And also, Black Men are low status in society. Meaning you'd sacrifice your dignity to be with a Black Man. You can lie about it, but I wouldn't. There are long-term relationships that have been broken by that. Stick to Black Men sweetheart.

Phaser00 · Answer

I want to be honest with you and not beat around the bush. Of course there will be white men who wouldn’t have a problem with it, but those are white men who are usually playing in a lower league in the male world. A good looking white man who knows that women are into him won’t want anything serious with a woman who slept with black guys.

The white men who would seriously date you look roughly like the ones in the comments here, so you can make up your own mind.

Of course I don’t want to generalize I’m just talking about how it usually is.

Woahdin · Answer

Nope sorry look im in the science field and statistics show more white men are larger then more black men in the penile area so its not that as white men the size difference is daunting its the mentality and attitude and possibility of getting an std as well as the mindset and the culture that comes with white women who've dated black men. They are more unstable that are more masculine in their attitude and frankly we tend to see you as used goods and tainted. I would never date a white woman that has been with a black man cause I dont want to deal with the mentality she's developed in that relationship which most of the time is negative

OneViewpoint · Answer

I don't care who you dated in the past as long as you're not passing along herpes or some other STD. Race has nothing to do with it. Hell, I don't know the guy.

Nirghata_Vrishaghata · Answer

Never had a problem.  Mostly a myth anyway.

Juxtapose · Answer

Sure, why not? Guys need to get it through their heads that women who are experienced are also going to be more realistic and not expect you to be a pornstar in the bedroom.

Bricealan · Answer

I dated a woman from Trinidad for several years.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Why are you sharing this info on a first date? It's fine that you have but slow your roll on this tidbit.

clampfan101 · Answer

I don’t care about who she dated in the past or races in general. All that matters is she’s fully single and wants to date and think about me.

Dongie · Answer

I never gave it any thought. I never asked either. I used to chase girls with my friend Hunter. A black guy.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Most of those Billy Bobs would think a Blossom who had a handsome Brady's #blackboyjoy beyond the pale, pun intended !!!

rebeliouse · Answer

what the hell is the issue who cares if she has had black cock in her or not

noohair · Answer

Well some guys are still in the 19 century. This was tought to them by his parents.

Anonymous · Answer

Eh. I kinda feel like this isn't really a thing.

Anonymous · Answer

Fuck no... PUKE. That bitch is nasty for even considering a black dude.  Yuck x9

SmugBear13 · Answer

DISGUSTING AND THEY NO LONGER EXIST TO ME … like a ghost I don’t see them

LiamJHayden · Answer

I don't care about superficialities.

Titus_of_Ultramar · Answer

I would not give a fuck

woahhh152 · Answer

Does that even matter?

SomeguyinFl · Answer

No I just couldn’t do it.

Anonymous · Answer

Never heard this question

Pterodon · Answer

I have

dougeats · Answer

shitty question wtf

Anonymous · Answer

Nope

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