White guys, would you date a girl after she dated a black guy?

Question

So I'm in highschool, and I've recently stared flirting and liking this black guy. I told my parents about it, and not that they disapprove, but theyre worried that if a break up with this black guy, no white guys will date me.  I personaly don't see the problem, but apparently there is one? I don't know if from a guys perspective there's an issue, or not? So guys, would you date a girl after she dated a black guy? And girls what do you think about this? Have you dated a black guy and then a white guy? Thanks guys!

Nat_Aki · Accepted Answer

Absolutely not. One of the first subjects I start to ask a female about is her sexual history. Sluts are out. And interracial daters are out. The primary reason is politics and the prospects of future children. I have ZERO interest in women that will poison my children with liberal cancer. Diversity first propaganda, multiculturalism, open borders are all STATISTS agendas. Mixed raced children have no cultural or racial identity outside of the state. White people invented liberty and freedom FROM the state. Most white women today ARE the state. Which makes them my enemy. And when they socially, politically and sexually ally with people who are of the state like black men, well, they betray the very history and legacy of what it means to be white. Which is not unearned white privilege as the liberal media and university propagandists promote. Rather, millions of white MEN died to secure the liberty that white women today, along with their statist pals are destroying. I would never marry or financially provide for a female that betrays the culture that handed her modern paradise and equality on a silver platter stained with men's blood. Date black men? For some extra dick and dancing? Is that best level white women today can rise to? Eliminate white men and white culture goes with them. Then watch your world crumble. So NO... HELL NO... would I ever marry a girl like that. Screw her yes... marry her... NEVER. She made her bed. Also, if she is dating black she probably has a lot of sexual fetishes and kinks which will make her far more crazy down the road. It would be much safer to avoid women like this for my own personal peace of mind and financial well being. No point in sharing resources with a woman that lacks commons sense. I want smart kids raised by a proud white woman. If you want to place other races above that, be my guest... just don't expect white men to come knocking at your door. Honestly I just don't understand why white women rather suck a black cock than nurse a white baby. Well, no matter, the rich white women will keep the race going. The rest of you will have fewer choices as you make your tastes clear. Brown babies or no babies for the rest of you as more and more white men bail on you. I personally have bailed on 4 relationships with white women who I knew or suspected of dating blacks and I don't regret it. I rather stay single than share my life with a woman that uses me as her beta back up. That I will never be. Not for any woman.

mutualoblivion · Accepted Answer

heres the unadulterated truth. it depends on if the black guy your dating is ghetto. simple and point blank. If your a white chick and dating a ghetto black guy, I wouldn't date you afterward. not because he's black, but because he's ghetto. the same holds true if your dating a white trash guy, you will then be labeled as a girl who dates trashy men. its the trashy aspect that's a huge turn off, not the color. men judge women by the men she dates. you can tell a lot about a girl by the arm she's holding onto. so in closing, is this guy selling drugs and being a generaly nonproductive badboy or does he have a plan in life and want to kick all the butt he needs to get there? this has been a long answer but in closing, poop comes in many different colors, don't step in it and u'll be fine.

laceyz565 · Accepted Answer

Im half black and half white and I can tell you fom being on the inside that your famil is racist. Guyswont even know you dated a black guy before unless you tell them and Iif they care there racist. Not all black men are ganstas living in the ghetto selling cocain for a living. I only dated white guys and usually when guys flirt with me they say dated a black girl before or they like  blacck girls etc. I think its safe to say racism still very much exists still and people pretendthere not racist . If you care so much about what people will think of you I don't think you should date him. He will get over it, I think at the end of the day he would rather  be alone then have a girlfriend that's worrying about what other guys will think of her or ashamedof him, I know I would. I would be gone if I was him. I don't have time to deal with racist imsecurites. I'm proud of who I am amd if someone else doesn't that's their problem not mine

pr3ttybr0wn · Accepted Answer

I have heard this before from white people. Don't know how widespread it is though, but I noticed that a lot of white girls that I've seen who have dated black guys keep dating them. I don't know is that due to preference because they only like black men or because they can't get a white guy? I do know of one white girl I went to school with that used to mess with a lot of black guys that is now engaged to a white guy. I can't imagine that he doesn't know about her past.  I also work with a white woman who has mixed kids by her ex husband who is now remarried to a white dude. So I don't think you are barred from ever dating a white guy again but you might get some comments

bombdotcom · Accepted Answer

White guys have no problem dating interracially, but they do take issue with white women dating interracially.

Most would not date a girl after she has dated a black guy. They view her as tainted trash...

Dating black men/women is dating down to white men, so they think it says something negative about the girl.

Being realistic (in your question), if I was white I probably wouldn't date a black guy. Only because white men are quick to condemn white women who date out.

No, I'm not trolling or being hateful. But there's a reason terms such as mudshark exist.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That would only be an issue for racists or white guys with a superiority complex. My boyfriend is black and I have heard several white guys say they wouldn't date a girl who's been with a black guy. But why would you want to be with those types of guys anyway? Plenty of white guys wouldn't care. Do what you want.

Homebakedcookies · Answer

No I would not. And the reason why is very simple. It's due to instincts.

Most humans are strongly driven by instincts telling us what to desire in a partner. And one of the strongest instincts is the instinct to preserve what one percives to be ones own group of people. Black people usually wants black children. Asian people usually wants Asian children and Europeans will usually seek to have european children. This is natures way of producing and protecting diversity. And diversity is a very important concept for nature.
Diversity increases the chance for life to survive. An example of this would be the dinosaurs. Most dinosaur species died out except for a few that could adapt to the new climate.

Another strong instinct is the one that drives us to keep our gene pool as healthy as possible. By nature, we want strong, intelligent and beautiful children.

For a healthy minded man to potentially have children with a partner that is known to be attracted to individuals with a behavior that is considered selfish, dangerous and highly irresponsible is completely unthinkable. Even more if the individual belonged to another racial group.

Usually white males have no problem to date a woman who has been in a relationship with an Asian male and vice versa. And that is most probably because these two groups have good reputations.

So this whole thing actually comes down to the simple question of,
Good Offspring or Not good Offspring.

JasonMck · Answer

I wouldn't. I wouldn't look at any girl who had dated black men seriously.
If she is attracted to black men, then she would likely stick to black men.
Back and forth , not a chance.

It is a primal instinct. These women are Viewed as stained, rejected no-goods. That person is now in the seconds bin. I am sure some women are facing this dilemma. They are just scared to tell the truth
And black folks too, would a black dude date a black girl who has dated white men?
Is it racist? , probably it is and guess what, the vast majority of people dont give a shit about being labeled a racist.

Personally I dont understand how you can love your own mixed children. I think of children as a physical reflection of their parents. How can you bond with a child that looks alien to you?
That is why I would never dare anybody Outside my racial group.

These are our own decisions that affect our own lives. Dont even try to tell me how I should think about my own decisions.
It is about time you realized that your labels are just that, empty labels.

2ndoneder · Answer

I've been with my girl for 12 years. I didn't know when we met that she had dated blacks and some Mexicans exclusively from high school until her 30's. Had I known I probably wouldn't have started the relationship. If you talked to her now she would absolutely tell you to STOP what you are doing. The interracial thing you are doing can ABSOLUTELY affect your future relationships. It is NOT ok. Here is the biggest piece of advice I can give you. When you meet someone you have absolute power about whether you would want to start a relationship or not. At this point you have the CHOICE to choose. If you let the feelings grow then you can easily end up in a situation that will cost you a LOT. In a nutshell, my other half is so ashamed about her past that she cries and doesn't ever want to talk about it. And NO, white guys did NOT want her. She was obviously known as someone who prefers blacks. We typically won't go near you if you do that... and if we do it certainly isn't to have a serious relationship. Here's a final thought... she got herpes and gave it to me. That's how the whole truth about her past leaked out. I have avoided minorities my whole life for sex... The reality is that blacks in general have a much higher STD rate. We are STILL fighting over this shit. Please do yourself (and your future self) a favor... do NOT date these guys. There are perfectly acceptable members of your own race out there that make this interracial urge you have completely unnecessary. Think really hard. Don't make this post something you remember 20 years from now.

SkyNet · Answer

The fear from you bigots is actually wonderful to see. Weak human beings in every way, and I hope you stay that way.
All of this race phobia and white preservation is a legacy carried from slavery->Jim Crow->institutionalized racism and the belief of the 1% rule: That one drop of African American/any race would destroy the purity of the white race. I hope you inbred maggots all contract the 23 chromosome.
I'm a mixed product, my father Irish/English my mother African American. My physical characteristics are well above average, my intellect and cognition above average, and my genetics have passed onto my my son. He has blue eyes, wavy sandy hair and is literally the biggest and smartest child in his private school. He's starting a full grade ahead of his class in elementary. My profession: Marine Corps 1302 Combat Engineer Officer currently serving ISO SPMAGTF Inherent Resolve, Rah bitch?
Let's be honest about what white boys fear: sexuality. Weak. Grow up and grab your sack to make sure it still exists. If I were to stand next to any of these above commentators, it would be clear who was the genetic superior. Interracial genetics are amazing, sorry brahs.

Anonymous · Answer

Never. Blacks have a 7x higher incidence of std's. I'm not going to get into criminality, intelligence, child abandonment, etc. A white girl who dates a black guy is not that statistically different than one who uses iv drugs, or engages in other self-destructive behaviors. So I would never date a girl who doesn't value herself or use logic. I'm white, but I'd prefer her to have dated an Asian guy than a white guy for the same reason, but in general, the other races are close enough that nothing else would bother me enough to not date her outside blacks. I may date one and not know, but if I found out, I'd end it, because it would be indicative of problems in the future. It's not about skin color, it's about your decision-making process, and if you go that way, your critical thinking is less than optimal and short-sighted.

I'd say 90% of the girls I know that have made that choice live in poverty and generally fail in life. They all thought the black guy they were dating was different, but most weren't. There were a few success stories, but 98 failures for every 2 that worked out. I find many black women attractive, but I don't date them because I'm not a hypocrite. It would be an illogical choice, and I like success in life.

Blunt, but the truth.You'll get a lot of girls answering this question telling you it's fine. They have already screwed up, and just are looking to justify their poor-decision making. Since you haven't screwed up your life yet, don't.

Somerled77 · Answer

I asked my girlfriend about it once and she told me she had dated a black guy many years ago but it didn't last long! I thought she was honest with me and she didn't lie and I respected her for that. She said why is it different to dating a darker skinned man from South America? I though that that was a good point. I asked her why she dated him and she said because he made me laugh! I engaged her a few days after and we are happily married with a gorgeous child. The point is plenty of women date interracially probably just to see what it is like and it is overhyped in the media. This is to create some race complex in the USA, to spark up hatred. There is good and bad in all colors and creeds, people from all over the world. I would say so long as the girl isn't trashy and if you think she is a size queen and is just looking to check the old rumors of manhood, then no worries. How many black guys she dated must also be considered as well as STDs. Sorry but STDs are a game changer, so consider that unless you are thinking of marriage and children. I know plenty of girls I went to school with that would only sleep with men they fell in love with. At the end of the day don't be too judgmental about things because life is full of lessons, and if a man and a woman are in love regardless of skin color, language, race or country, then there isn't a damn thing anyone can do to stop it. Anyways, what is all this living in the past BS about, get out and live for today. Enjoy it, peace.

martyfellow · Answer

I think your parents are right, unfortunately.   I don't know the community where you live, but in most places, even if  there isn't overt racism against interracial couples, there will be hidden resentments and no doubt a fair number of guys will steer clear of you, at least for a time, if you have more than a very casual dating relationship with a black guy.  Probably Hawaii is the only exception.

HeadScrewedOnRight · Answer

No, I would never. It's an embarrassment. It shows the girl is an upstart and untrustworthy. I find it insulting when a white girl dates a black guy, as it means she has been brainwashed and cares so little for the unique features of her white race that she's willing to destroy it by having a black baby. We don't really want a future where everyone is generically brown with dark features, do we? White people are decreasing because of low birth rates; black numbers are increasing exponentially. If white men and women don't stay loyal to one another, the white race will be swallowed up by darkness and be gone forever. No more green and blue eyes; no more blondes, redheads, apple flesh skin... how sad.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I absolutely would not.

Here's the thing, white girls who date black guys don't date them out of love, they only date them due to mainstream media brainwashing, bitterness towards white guys/their families and gross sexual myths such as so called "BBC".

A lot of these white women don't tend be very bright, have no respect for their bodies and even try to act black to impress them by talking black, dressing black etc

Also, the "once you black you never go back" thing exists for a reason. Whenever a white girl betrays her own heritage and dates black, she will most likely never be attracted to white guys after and strictly only date black from then. I've seen this happen A LOT. So why ask would I date her then?

Anonymous · Answer

Some will some won't. This is usually a tactic (used by racist males and some old dumb thinking famalies) to scare  white females into not dating interracial. If a white girl is overweight  and/or unattractive no one cares if she dates interracial , but if she's attractive people will try to encourage her to only  date  her race  because they fear  attractive white women dating  and'or marrying black guys, So a lot of white women have took the bait  and will only date   their own.   I look at it like this if you're attracted to someone , then nothing else should matter.  It's just a tactic to scare you into not going for what you like  .

DocT1977 · Answer

Well, It depends. If she dates a low life, drug dealing thug, or some trailer trash piece of shit, Then no. There is no chance of me dating the female in question. Why? Because to me, The kind of people a woman might choose to date is in fact a reflection of who she is and what she is about. There is no escaping that fact. Those who have their shit together have more appeal to me as opposed to those who don't.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I would not knowingly date a woman that has dated black guys and I would immediately end any relationship I was in, regardless of the duration, if I discovered that she had previously dated black guys. The rationale is in decision making. We all know blacks are statistically more violent, and have a greater chance of carrying a STI, so I would question any woman's decision making ability if she chose to enter into such a statistically dangerous relationship. I would then equate that to future decisions with our relationship and future finances and children. The answer is an unequivocal NO.

Anonymous · Answer

No I won't. if a white girl chooses to be progressive and betray her heritage and race by dating black men, she should stay with black men forever, period. Actually, it's more the fact that she allowed her mind to be corrupted by liberalism that turns me off rather than the fact that she dated a black guy.

I feel the same about black women who have dated white men. They should be rejected by black men.

This is just my opinion, and I ask that all the new-age bullies out there respect my right to have my own personal beliefs. I will never force other white guys to accept my views.

Anonymous · Answer

i would never date a white woman who dated a black man simply because of self preservation, common sense today in 2015 AIDS is basically a black disease the vast majority of people on this earth with AIDS are black and American blacks are no exception as someone else pointed out they are multiple times more likely to have a sexually transmitted disease

that and every single white girl i have ever met that dates black men speaks ebonics and tries to act black and does a terrible shitty job at it all they accomplish is making themselves look retarded i could never date a woman who talks ghetto.

tomboy41 · Answer

Why would any good white man desire to raise some whore's black baby. Its a no brainer. White men dont want soiled goods so I hope this black guy sticks around but how likely is that and your folks know it.

epiman94 · Answer

Of course I would. I never would have seen it as an issue BUT... This one girl (my white coworker) gets to talking one day. She goes off about how she and her black boyfriend broke up, and now every white guy's stuff is inferior. Like wtf? So in that case, no I would not date a girl like that, because I feel like she just wanted to destroy my self esteem. But in general, it makes no difference unless the girl is a wackjob. Sorry for this tangent! :-P

hunter72 · Answer

I’ve known this girl for a very long time. We’ve even dated a time or two, never amounting to much until recently. she posed an odd question early, asking about wether I’d date a girl that had dated a black guy. I wasn’t sure at first. My oppositions are simple... why do something that you know an overwhelming percentage of society would look down on you for doing? It’s as if they don’t have any self respect. And to muddle things, she’s a hippyish type that likes classic rock and nothing like the typical white girl that dates black guys. I’m turned off by it if I’m being honest. The guy used her for money and when he wouldn’t/couldn’t repay, he split. I have little respect for her in that regard. I’m a guy who has his shit together. Great job, awesome home, and I don’t want to share it with someone I feel has degraded themselves. I hate that I feel that way. Almost as if she doesn’t deserve to be with a guy like me. That sounds bad, I know.

Curious123oo · Answer

LMOA at all these white guys taking about heritage, preservation, AIDS and other nonsense. The only reason they avoid white women who dated black men is because they're afraid they can't measure up in bed (and believe me as a black woman whose dated white and black men, trust me, I know for a fact they can't).

So yeah they won't date you after that. But then they also tend to not want to date you after you've been with a bad boy of any race, a guy who's taller or richer than them, if you gain 5 pounds, etc. White men are extremely insecure when it comes to sex and dating.

nyalalam · Answer

I'll never date a white guy that had a black girlfriend. I won't even date a white guy that dated a white girl that had a black boyfriend. I believe races shouldn't mix and that dating inter-racially is an insult to your race and your heritage. Many white guys feel the same as me and there's nothing wrong with that, in spite of what all the intolerant liberals out there might say.

superqueer · Answer

No, I never, ever will.

I'll also break up with the girl as soon as I find out that she did, regardless of how long we've been dating.

I believe in certain principles and one of them is that you stick to your own race sexually, and so doing you preserve your race and the biodiversity of human kind instead of destroying it.

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