Black girls would you date a white guy?

[CaptainA99]

Just wondering how black girls feels dating white guys in the society we live in with all the bulls*** stereotypes and prejudice and whatnot, I'm not sure if it works both ways but I have seen much white on black prejudice and it disgusts me. My friends make fun of me for hooking up with.being attracted to black girls and I think that's ridiculous. So just wondering if that works both ways and black girls have anything against white guys or don't and would date one

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Thanks for all of the responses. I want to be clear that I have no inherent preference and sure as hell don't place prejudice on anybody, but I was curious about this topic in the world we live in today, where racism and prejudice is still far too present. I appreciate all of the honesty and feedback. And for the record I am Sicilian-American ha ha not Moroccan or black or anything, I am technically "Caucasian" but don't really consider myself so. Thanks again!

[Anonymous]

why should color or race matter :(

i don't have anything against anyone. as long as they rnt horrible person out to spread misery to people, a psychopath, murderer or evil dictator...

i think what matters to me is whether he is attractive,

by attractive I mean has a great personality (funny smart and all around good person) and someone I think is good lookin.

to me a person isn't attractive because of their race...i ve seen beautiful people of every race and color...

anyhooooos beauty is in the eye of the beholder...someone I find attractive might be appaling to another...long ramble short...race doesn't matter and shouldn't matter because that's is a bunch of nonsense there are beautiful people of every ethnicity in this beautiful earth.

good day :)

[CaptainA99]

That's a great answer, and I agree wholeheartedly :)

[ThatJokerLovingGirl]

I'm black and native American, the guy I'm currently dating is white and I personally don't see anything wrong with it. Ofcourse there's moments of awkwardness but overall it works, and we're just happy. His cousin is one of the few who knows about us dating and being from a southern state...sort of some racist remarks that made my boyfriend pissed. (things like that don't bother me at all but being the manly-man he thinks he is..."he must pay" lol). I have a few black friends (full though, not mixed like me) who strictly date white guys (way to limit yourself right :P) but there's so many more out there like that. I really hope this helped you :).

[Anonymous]

Overall I'm not that attracted to white guys but I've seen some that are appealing to me, but then we'd have to be compatible with each other and I'd have to trust him. It probably would never work due to how society is, it's just easier to date your race. A lot of white people are racist, even if he's not I'd still have to deal with his peers, family and people he associates with. I have pride in who I am and I can't just sit back and tolerate racism just to keep the peace. it's just too much to deal with for something that probably wouldn't last anyway.

[CaptainA99]

That's a mature decision on your part and takes a lot of integrity, good for you

[mrstinky]

It's not the 1950's or 60's anymore and honestly who cares what stupid racist people think. Love is love and color truly doesn't make a difference. In fact that feeling of not being accepted by everyone can bring a couple closer together. Just my opinion though.

[CaptainA99]

I would agree with that

[hellionthesagereborn]

" A lot of white people are racist. . ." irony, your not getting it. Also blacks are 150% more likely to commit a hate crime compared to whites and based upon research are far more likely to use "hate speech" compared to whites (at least as far as social media goes). I think the problem isn't that most whites are racist (they did vote a black man into the highest position of power in the US not once but twice (the only nation to elect a racial minority into office with the popular vote of the racial majority by the way (africa hasn't done this, neither has the middle east or asia nor any nation in Europe or south america for that matter)), I think the issue is that YOU are racist.

[Anonymous]

One of my close white friends prefers black girls and it's rare to see him in a relationship with a girl that's not black. So, there's one proof that block girls will date white guys. I've dated a girl who was black and she prefers white guys. She only dated a few black guys but most of them white. So, yeah, black girls will date white guys and I have yet to meet a black girl that will refuse to date a white guy simply because he's white.

[CandyCoated123]

:3

[zenicio]

Seems that black women aren't really into white men's looks. Plus they probably think we all have small penises also. So yeah I doubt black women are going to start liking white men any time soon.

[nubianstar]

so that I responded late but.

i hate it when white guys pick on other white guys for being attracted to black girls. nbody picks on guys for dating asian, white or latina girls.

[CaptainA99]

So true, wish that didn't exist in the world we live in

[CandyCoated123]

So true

[DoctorKillJoy]

I date white guys because they seem fond of me , I don't descriminate against any race I think it ignorant and arogant and I hate being discriminated against , I do have friend that don't like them but personally it's not a problem for me

[CaptainA99]

A very mature and intelligent honest answer. Thanks :)

[Reaperbot666]

• as a white male I personally don't have a strong preference. when it comes to things like a females. height, weight, skin color, race, ethnic group, nationality. or the size / shape of her butt, hips, bust, waist, etc. also not picky about her natural hair color or eye color.
• because so long as she is 100% natural, generally healthy and likes how she looks in the mirror. I find a wide range of female forms attractive.
• people who limit themselves to just one type or race. might miss out on someone who could be ideal for them otherwise.
• since having an enjoyable personality, attitude and character matter the most. when looking for a female partner to be with.

[Anonymous]

To be honest I'm a young black female and I seem to be mostly attracted to men that aren't my race mostly white men..there are some things that black women have sterotyped about white men that I've heard from other people but I don't believe them to a certain extent. For example, I've heard that black women didn't want to date because of the size of their private area or in some case the color, and some women believe that they are in a way "crazier" then a black man. I personally wouldn't mind dating a white man though to be clear.

[CaptainA99]

Good to see prejudice isn't an issues here

[steffyswan]

Honey do you know how long I was waiting for a white guy to say something like this? because I thought white guys weren't into black women. I absolutely love and am attracted to white guys. I also love any other races as well. All the time I see white males that I'd love to talk to, but don't in fear of being rejected because I'm black :( But I think we all need to be brave and take chances for love. Let's not make our race hinder us from loving anyone.

[shortandfine]

I believe that the reason why there are not a lot of black women white men relationship is because most white men tends to go for white women and are not interested in black women whereas white woman have no problems dating a black man so if white men steps up a lot of black women do not have a problem whatsoever.

[ltmcneill]

this is the dumbest question ever. it depends on the person. Not every black girl is attractive nor is every white male attractive.

[mizz-gabriellaa]

i agree ..these types of questions are kinda annoying me

[ltmcneill]

give me a thumbs down all you want, no one person can speak for all black women, vise versa for white men. It depends on the person. So I am not sure why you are even asking.

[CaptainA99]

I gave the thumbs up in appreciation for an honest answer and taking your time to submit an answer

[pepper01]

yes I would. lost my virginity to a white guy. have dated and will date in the future. who cares what your friends think. if you like her and she likes you. go for it :)

[cavmanier]

I looked at a interracial online dating website and was surprised to see there were 3x as many black women looking for white men than black men looking for white women.

[CandyCoated123]

LOOOOL

[Anonymous]

Hey, if you're white and you'd date a black girl, why wouldn't a black girl date a white guy? Same principle, right? Besides, if she's so shallow she wouldn't date a guy for his color why would you want to be with her anyway?

[CandyCoated123]

I love me some white chocolate ;) glad to see the increasing interest

[Lj236]

Here's some white chocolate ;p

[CandyCoated123]

lol not you again ahah

[Lj236]

Lol oh yes me again ;3

[CandyCoated123]

CaptainA99 are you italian? If so then that's natural for italians to like black woman LOL

[CaptainA99]

I'm Sicilian so I guess it's even more natural ha ha because I have Italian and African blood flowing through my veins :p

[Tyvae]

I am a black female. I have dated mixed and black guys... But if I like any guy its not because of their skin color. I am attracted to any clean, neat, well-dressed, educated guy. If my friends don't respect my decisions then I will, and have, distanced myself from them. :)

[supervixxen]

i like it :) I'm a black girl dating a white guy! he loves me too

[Anonymous]

No I wouldn't , I've white guy friends who tried to date me . But I like black men I just love our culture nothing against white people but just not my cup of tea.

[electromagnetic]

Yes. All the dudes I've dated have been either Caucasian or Asian.

I'm not picky. Colour doesn't justify anything in life.

[CaptainA99]

Agreed

[Anonymous]

Well, I'm a white guy, but if I were a black girl I would definitely date me.

So, to answer your question yes black girls would date white guys.

I hope that helped.

[peace-love-couture]

lol

+1 for confidence

[CandyCoated123]

:3

[Nena_Linda18]

As long as he respects me and makes me happy and doesn't judge me or act like a racist (believing every stereotype he sees) I would not mind dating a white guy at all.

[Anonymous]

I've known many black females who have dated/dating a white men.

[LoveLayne]

I exclusively date white guys

[G-Daz]

:O vice versa

[LoveLayne]

lol the perfect balance of chocolate & vanilla (:

[CaptainA99]

Good to know

[LoveLayne]

lol

[CaptainA99]

The perfect balance indeed :)

[LoveLayne]

oh yes of course! Chocolate & Vanilla (:

[CaptainA99]

I like your style :)

[LoveLayne]

Ditto!

[CandyCoated123]

:D

[Anonymous]

Why would you ask this question if you are black? Or is it just tanning?

[sephora]

are you blind?

[Opinion Owner]

He looks moroccan or something not caucasian

[CaptainA99]

Haha just tan

[johari]

Probably not but if I do I most likely won't. Be his girlfriend quilky,id have to really get to know him

[Meowzers143]

Well it shouldn't matter of their skin color but it depends on the black girl you know I personally would but some black girls think white man aren't going to be as aggressive has a black guy in a relationship which is odd.

[iamroyalty]

most black girls would. Its just in America its a bit off cause black women are constantly insulted

[sephora]

Yep, I have only been with white guys so far. :P

[stillagoodgirl]

Not really they're juust a guy nothing special

[Lalalu123]

no, I think they're ugly

[Anonymous]

Probably some would

[Anonymous]

If he's mixed ya