First time trying?

[rawaaa]

Me and my girlfriend wanna try anal.. but i can't get my thing in her and she says it really hurt.. we tried everything.. oil.. gel... everything still we couldnt do to.. any advice how to do it in the first place?

[SueShe]

Have you ever given a thought about all the harmful bacteria, viruses and parasites that are found in that part of the body? Let me give you a feed-back of what you can find there. I will limit my arguments to 12 reasons here why this should not be done and it is a total red flag and no go

- Bacteroides species
- Salmonella
- Shigella
- Yersinia
- Campylobacter
- Aeromonas
- Candida
- E. coli
- Cryptosporidium
- Entamoeba histolytica
- Rotavirus
- Giardia
- Intestinal parasites

While a condom may reduce the risk of infection, it does not guarantee a risk free intercourse. And there are even people that put a contaminated penis from the anus to other body openings. This is not a recommended behavior because they all know what kind of risks of infections exist by transmitting pathogens from the anus to the vulva or mouth.

[Anonymous]

Most women will never enjoy anal and be comfortable with it unless they train their ass first. What you're doing now is just hurting her and ensuring she will hate anal and not want to do it with you. It takes time to train a woman's ass properly but it's worth it. She is much more likely to learn to love it and you are more likely to get it in the future. Get a tapered butt plug and some god water based lube (NOT oil or silicone) and spend some time gently training her ass. It can be fun for both of you. Go slow and keep it comfortable for her. Do it while you give her oral or she masturbates so she has some orgasms during the process. Thank me later.

[Citizenkirk]

The two parts are not interlocking because they're not compatible. Therefore, if it hurt's it's a good indicator that it doesn't belong there, and the real hurt is going to come from you when you're thingy gets an infection.
Try inserting it into her vaginal opening, though not immediately after sodomizing her, because of the infection thing, if you get fecal matter into her uterus.

[Knighted2170]

There's a podcast that talks about sex. The host has an episode that covers this very topic. Look up "sex with Emily". The host has a PhD in sexology and is very knowledgeable.

[dudeinohio]

use one finger at first, then two as she relaxes and gets more comfortable.. loosen her up... of course, use lots of lube.

[Anonymous]

You may be too big to do anal. I don’t do it myself for that reason.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Just hold her down and slam it in. The more she screams, the more she likes it.