I want to test my boyfriend on instagram?

[Anonymous]

I want to test him with a friend's acc. because he follows and likes a lot of girls and i'm insecure about it. should i find someone and test him? what should i do? i tried to talk a lot of times but he got angry and said he ain't doing anything wrong there, just trying to increase followers 🤦‍♀️

[Ruenella_]

I did this before and he actually flirted with "the girl" aka me and said that he wasn't in a relationship. He also liked insta pics that were of girls in bikinis. A LOT of them and that hurt me a lot that he had to go to other women instead of me for eye candy. It's totally disgusting and disrespectful. Find a guy who is disciplined in that area (because it is hard to stop once it's become a habit) and make sure he's committed to you AND the relationship.

There are guys who are mature enough to understand that looking at other women online is a problem and abstain from that lifestyle.

[On_cloud_wine]

The energy you send out is the energy you get back.. He already knows you don’t trust him completely

[Danny_dan92]

All I’m going to say is that if you’re insecure cause your guy is simply following women? You need to re consider your relationship and grow some self confidence.


I imagine you’re only following girls too right? Or are you following other men... just saying

[In_Trance]

You don't deserve to have him to begin with. If you don't trust him, break up. It's that simple. There's no need for games. Weeks from now you'll be posting on why you can't communicate effectively with him.
Smh..

[Asker]

bruh.. i'm with him bc i love him. its not something i choose

[In_Trance]

That's the most ridiculous response I've ever seen. You're choosing to test him...

[Anonymous]

I can't see anything wrong with such a test. I guess the reason many guys got angry at you is because they themselves might be cheaters?

Anyway, after you do the test, whether he fails or succeeds, don't tell him that you tested him. Keep it a secret. It is quite disrespectful to tell someone "I tested you and you passed/failed".. like, it shows a lack of trust.

[ryckrohan]

No you shouldn't. There is no way it will end well.

[Asker]

but i will learn the truth

[ryckrohan]

Hmm. Will you? And even so are you sure you wanna know the truth?

[Asker]

uh i don't really wanna tho😔

[ryckrohan]

Think you should drop them idea and just enjoy what u currently have.

[Asker]

thanks

[ryckrohan]

No prob. Sometimes we feel our partners not doing what they should. But sometimes it's better not to confirm it. That will only bring pain. If you not prepared to lose him don't crate a situation that will lead to you losing him

[TOTEMPLASTER]

That is an approach that could backfire. Just have a few friends casually ask him about your relationship but not all at once. Space things out... though you'll likely get the confirmation you need very quickly.

[JosyJosy]

If it's really eating you up, go for it. But I think guys just follow them to look at sexy people like porn, that's all it is hopefully? Benefit of the doubt?

[jjj101010]

I agree. Guys r going to look at other girls but it doesn’t mean they will touch

[JosyJosy]

@jjj101010 One of my married guy friends follows models, guns and cars. It's as stereotypical as it can get

[jjj101010]

Yeah I guess it is. It’s no worse than porn and guys r gonna wank over porn from time to time

[Danny_dan92]

Guys follow women for the same reason why women follow men

[Honesttguy]

Work on your insecurities, thats what you should do, become stronger and evolve to next level.

[Clarke498]

It's easy. If you ever get to the point that this is something you seriously plan on doing, just break up with him instead. Either he hasn't earned your trust of you don't deserve him.

[Ilickvulvas]

This is bullshit. If you think you have to test him it means you don’t trust him so just dump him already and stop playing juvenile games

[Anonymous]

So just follow a lot of guys yourself...

[Asker]

we dont follow each others on ig bc of the fights we had about girls he follows. but he doesn't care who i follow as he said

[Danny_dan92]

Ok, so clearly we have a double standard here.

He doesn’t give a fuck who you follow. But you wanna micro manage him and hate when he is doing the same bs you be doing that when you do it, it doesn’t bother him.

Grow tf up.

[joeldalton]

That’s a stupid fucking idea.

[Jmmmfi4]

Such a bad idea