Well lets think about this..
How would YOU feel if someone from your past started following you? Even if you didn't really remember them... or even if you weren't that attracted to them... or whatever the case may be. How would you feel?
Would you be like: "Eww, what the hell is this person doing following me?"
No! Who does that? Lol... I doubt he would. He'd be either happy or neutral.
Just follow him!
Plus, what if you follow him and he DOES remember you and reaches out? That would be awesome. And what if he doesn't remember you and he does nothing at all. Who cares. Slide in his DM's and say "Hey you prob don't remember me, but it's me ____ from church. Glad to see you're doing well!"
No big deal. Life's too short to NOT do whatever you want whenever you want. It's your world girl!
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Give it a try. I won't freak out in case you followed me. Same goes with someone you know and knows you before. Besides, what are social networking for anyways? But to connect to everyone, may it be a former colleague, ex bestfriend, or even childhood crush. :)
Girl, I don't know if he remembers you or not, but the only way to find out if he does is to follow him. First follow his brother and chat with him to make sure you guys are chill and then follow this Jordan dude. You only live once so you should do it!
He sent some one to tell you hi. A Man would not do that unless he was thinking about you. Follow or send a email. What ever you do on instagram.
If you realy like him let him know you miss him. It sounds like he has not realy started to look for a girl yet. ( a year ago? You got the hi?) but a man will not wait forever. Time is moving every day. So if you like him it is best to open communication as soon as possible.
you can always try to talk to him :)
May be he's thinking the same as u
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Following on instragam isn't chatting or rekindling a relationship. It's just pining for something in the past. If you really want to get in touch with him, you need to actually reach out. Otherwise you'll be miserable trying trying to catch his eye from the other side of the metaphorical room as a digital wall flower.
The worst that can happen if you're chill and reach out is that he isn't interested. The only thing you'll lose it the fantasy of 'what if', and those aren't really that good in the first place.Personally if I were in 'Jordans' situation and got contacted by someone I like then id be very interested.
im with my current girlfriend because of a similar situation actually.
We met
Talked for about a month
6 month silence (I thought she forgot about me)
One day she messaged me
"Hey we haven't spoken in ages, I missed you" she said
shortly into that conversation she confessed.
Im now madly in love with her and wouldn't even consider leaving her.
Try messaging him and telling him and just have a chat. But when it comes time to confess, be straight forward, girls that are straight forward are very attractive (to me anyway).
Good Luck! Hope this helpsYes, when I used to live in this small town I became friends with this girl and her sisters (we were picked on and her sisters stood up to us), well I moved away and she and her sisters had still remembered me from 10 years ago and we talked like it was 1st grade again. If he told his ex to say hi to you, he definitely remembers you
Social media brings people apart due to a mis communication of not being able to read body language. What do you plan on accomplishing after you follow him on Instagram? He already moved away are you gonna date? We don't know if he likes you or not cause you need to give more details about what his body language was like when you two were together at church.
You may as well do it. You don't work or have to be near him so you don't really have anything to lose. Realistically, the worst thing that could happen is he blocks you on instagram. Good luck!
If he had feeling for you then he has not forgotten you that you can be sure of. He may have moved on , catching up to old friends is often a good thing to experience hope it will be for you. Good luck if you choose to do it
Jordan likes you. He remembered you a year after and told a girl to say hi to you. Just follow him and see how it goes. How long has it been since the girl came up to you?
I voted A.
Why not?
Not much risk really.
Rejection
Maybe
do it anywayNo harm in following them! You're not declaring your undying love for them? Go for it you never know what might happen!!
Im in the exact same position as you with a guy (luckily his profile is public and i can stalk him 😝🙈). And Im so afraid he forgot me or thinks wtf is she following me. I wish i had an answer for you 😩
if u like him , then there is nothing to worry about, just contact with him, no hesitate. god loves u forever.
I think you should follow hlthem, maybe he's thinking about the same.
Go ahead and add him. Drop a line. Wouldn't hurt!! be confident
I think the real question here is why wouldn't you follow him? If he doesn't remember you he's not worth it! Just do it, girl.
It doesn't hurt to try. What's the worst thing that could happen. He might be thinking the same way. Someone has to make the first move.
Just do it
pbs.twimg.com/.../iwd2Fz6X.jpegFollow the public profile first. If he follows back, then follow the private profile. If the public profile BLOCKS you, then leave it.
I think you should follow him, what harm could it do
give him a reason to remember youDo it. If you never do it then it won't happen.
Yes you should because he sent you a hi through a girl.. so maybe he remembers you..
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