Would you be comfortable dating an older women?

[Anonymous]

Would you feel comfortable dating an older woman? What would lead you to doing so? Do you find older women attractive?

1-3 years older

3-6 years older

6-10 years older

10-20 years older

Other?

[Finchie40]

Yes, I never really looked at age as being a factor on who I am interested in , as long as she is of legal age of course , if I approach a girl and find her attractive and we spark great conversation and make a great connection that’s all that matters to me , my first question to her isn’t How old are you lol so I have dated older girls and younger girls, for me it just comes down to chemistry with each other , if we both have a lot in common and share a lot of the same interests and of course attracted to each other , so age has never been a factor to me , if I find out she is 10 years younger or 10 years older then me etc. it’s not going to stop me from wanting to be with her , I might be a little shocked that she was younger or older then I thought but doesn’t mean I am all of a sudden not be interested cuz of her age , again unless she is under age lol

[Finchie40]

Thanks for MHO

[MCheetah]

I'm 34. Oldest I'd date right now is 39 because hearing "she's 40" makes me cringe a little. Female 40 isn't the same as male 40; women's value with age is inverse to men's value with age; the older she gets, the less attractive she is, where as the older a man gets (assuming he's in shape and has a steady income), the more attractive he gets; up until maybe 55 or so.

So ideally, I'd want a girl in her mid to late twenties, like 25 to 29, but I'm willing to go as low as 21 and maybe as high as 39.

[PinkKin]

Smh. I know a guy 43 years old who looks healthy but has a hunch in his back, i was like heck no!!! Wth are u talking about?

[trustnoone77]

I am seeing a guy that’s 4 years younger than me. I usually date older men around my age but it all depend. When it comes to love it’s only a number. It’s all about have a mature relationship and good communication. The rest will follow.

[mistixs]

I personally find women most attractive in their mid-30s to 40s (and men most attractive in their 20s to 30s)

[_Lynx]

Great opinion. I definitely agree.

[Anonymous]

I've always dreamt and wished dating or having relationships with women older than me. Maybe the biggest gap is 20-25 age gap difference.

They are mature unlike younger girls that are focusing on 'fun' or 'laughter' and soever. Since I've been 18 or 19 I liked the idea of having a relationship with women aged 25 and above. Women who are independent and can stand on their own. So when I 'step into their life' they willing choose to know me a person and then it may escalate to something more or not.

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In short: I've almost always found it better and more comfortable having a relationship with a woman older than me.
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They also seem to understand and appreciate me as a man more than girls do. And for me older women really know how to take care and provide support.

I'm never into a person, to say a relationahip where the other side is learning how to be supportive and be responsible. Love me to is care, and that's what the attribute I'm looking for.
And in general, younger girls -especially who don't work or at least help in housework- would only attract me as friends to chat with.. never to think of them as a partner.

[Jamie05rhs]

Generally no. But it's not for the reason most women assume. Most of you think that a guy won't want you because you are "old." But that's not necessarily the case. A lot of middle-aged women are very attractive.

The reason I -- and probably most other guys -- would be hesitant to go out with an older woman (more than 1 or 2 years older) is... because women are extremely judgmental. I don't want someone to complain and criticize and act like my mother and tell me I'm doing things wrong all the time. And if she's older than me, I feel like she would have the natural right to do that and I wouldn't be able to say anything about it. But I don't think it would be good for our relationship dynamic. If she has no respect for me, then she probably won't love me either.

[Asker]

I see your point 🙂

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks!

[Rashnaa]

most guys say they won't have a scerious relationship with an older women coz of ' having a kid issue" ☹️

[Jamie05rhs]

@Rashnaa Well, if she has a kid, she has a kid. That has nothing to do with age. A lot of 17-year-olds have kids as well.

[Rashnaa]

oh! i meant if the guy wants to have his own kid with the lady. older ladies may have problems in this case. even guys in 30s don't wanna be in relationships with women their age

[Jamie05rhs]

@Rashnaa Ohh. Well, that's not an issue I think about too much, I guess. But if pregnancy is going to be risky for us, I guess I'll just have a vasectomy. But that's neither one of our faults. I mean, we're both old. That's just the way things worked out.

[HikerDude]

I've been hooking up with and dating older girls since I was 14. Older doesn't mean fatter, dumpier, or less attractive by default. Nor does younger mean fitter, sexier, and more fun. There are plenty of 20 year old girls who are fat, ugly boner assassins. So, to answer your question, yes, older can work for me. Just be fun and sexy and I'll be interested.

[Realistic07]

To be honest I’ve dated the rainbow of women. From all races, sizes, cultures, Heights, religions, and most ages with exceptions obviously.
that being said In my younger days around 18 i dated a 40 year old who kept in great shape.



Always found the key to be expect less, and always try to get to know people for who they are it’s amazing how pleasantly surprised you’ll be.

[Realistic07]

Why did I date her because she was a good person, and she treated me with respect. Plus we both had a thing for each other so we might as well play on it was the mentality. It worked out for a while, but life has a funny way of throwing curves, and we split. We’re still good friends.

[someginger]

Yeah i would be down but am not sure for a serious thing. Since as an age gap gets larger what a person wants at that time in there life might be different.

Such as an 20 year old isn't probably thinking about starting a family, while a 30 year old might be thinking it's time to start a family soon if not right away.

But depends on the person and what/where they are in there life.

[Lone_wolf122]

I like older women... I don't know why exactly... maybe cuz i didn't have love or affection as a child... and maybe also cuz they're not so silly and lame like the younger ones.. I used to think about it as kinda weird but then you have guys like Chris hemsworth and Jason momoa who are with older women... turns out most cool guys are like that too..

[TheUniqueOne96]

I think around 10 years wouldn't be so bad and anything less than 10 years older, whilst still being older, would be fine.

It depends on the individual, in terms of whether or not they're attractive and if they tick the right boxes in terms of my standards and dealbreakers, then yeah.

[JSmuve]

I could casually date an older woman as long as she's still really attractive but if I wanted a serious, long-term relationship with kids then I wouldn't want to be with an older woman. If I didn't want kids, which is a strong possibility, then I could be in a long-term relationship with an older woman provided that we're compatible and she's still a banger in the looks department, but I doubt I'd go much above 5 years older, though exceptions can always be made.

[AmeerX]

I have a limit till 40 above it I don't want to date an older women. I like to have my own kids with the girl so I am okay marrying anyone old.
Plus I think I enjoy their company as they are like your mother, dominant, and have been mature enough to make sure you are well treated

[JDavid25]

Yeah, I would definitely be opened to it.. There's some nice lookin older women out there.. Only thing is I don't know if she would be opened to having kids.. Which I want.. So, that's the only reason I would be hesitant to date an older woman..

[Eeeyore18]

I'm 18 so I can't date younger gals anymore... However, 30 years old is the limit I would date a woman. For every year I grow older, that age limit moves up.

[shade_19]

Age doesn't really matter
It's the compatibility and understanding
But ya, the older she'll be the lesser chances of long lasting relationship.
And also during sexy times there maybe disagreement depending on her and my body

[jhnny1331]

When I was 17 I had a 34 year old girlfriend, I also went out with a 28, 32, 24, and a lot of others between 17 and 19, as well as girls my age at the time, age doesn't matter, the 34 year old was my hair stylist

[jhnny1331]

Let me add one more thing I don't look my age either and I grew up fast due to circumstances so I've always carried myself not like that of an average 17 year old. And in closing women in their 40's know what they like and really know how to do it!

[slatyb]

I married one. She was born in July, I was born in October.

[Asker]

lol isn't that like 3 months apart only... not sure how much it qualifies for "older" but fair enough she was born before you ;)

[slatyb]

It was a bit of a joke.

[MannMitAntworten]

I have dated older. Several times. There wasn’t anything to it beyond we liked one another.

[yazerr]

Because They have more experience in different sides especially the bed

Also these women like and enjoy this

[yazerr]

So what about your opinion?

[Anonymous]

I love older women and like to have friends with benefits with them,
They love to teach
They have great body
They have mature mind and are hot asf
They spread their legs without any expectations and always motivate you even if you cum early and ask you to do better in the second round :P

[what3ver]

I'd definitely be interested in a flirtation with an older woman, but I don't know about a long-term, serious relationship.

[TOTEMPLASTER]

I would be comfortable dating an older, younger, and similar-aged woman if the chemistry was right.

[Shihab-91]

1-3 older after all I'm looking to get married and want kids if she is the one.