Would you be comfortable dating an older women?

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Would you feel comfortable dating an older woman? What would lead you to doing so? Do you find older women attractive?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yes, I never really looked at age as being a factor on who I am interested in , as long as she is of legal age of course , if I approach a girl and find her attractive and we spark great conversation and make a great connection that’s all that matters to me , my first question to her isn’t How old are you lol so I have dated older girls and younger girls, for me it just comes down to chemistry with each other , if we both have a lot in common and share a lot of the same interests and of course attracted to each other , so age has never been a factor to me , if I find out she is 10 years younger or 10 years older then me etc. it’s not going to stop me from wanting to be with her , I might be a little shocked that she was younger or older then I thought but doesn’t mean I am all of a sudden not be interested cuz of her age , again unless she is under age lol

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

I'm 34. Oldest I'd date right now is 39 because hearing "she's 40" makes me cringe a little. Female 40 isn't the same as male 40; women's value with age is inverse to men's value with age; the older she gets, the less attractive she is, where as the older a man gets (assuming he's in shape and has a steady income), the more attractive he gets; up until maybe 55 or so.

So ideally, I'd want a girl in her mid to late twenties, like 25 to 29, but I'm willing to go as low as 21 and maybe as high as 39.

trustnoone77 · Accepted Answer

I am seeing a guy that’s 4 years younger than me. I usually date older men around my age but it all depend. When it comes to love it’s only a number. It’s all about have a mature relationship and good communication. The rest will follow.

mistixs · Accepted Answer

I personally find women most attractive in their mid-30s to 40s (and men most attractive in their 20s to 30s)

Anonymous · Answer

I've always dreamt and wished dating or having relationships with women older than me. Maybe the biggest gap is 20-25 age gap difference.

They are mature unlike younger girls that are focusing on 'fun' or 'laughter' and soever. Since I've been 18 or 19 I liked the idea of having a relationship with women aged 25 and above. Women who are independent and can stand on their own. So when I 'step into their life' they willing choose to know me a person and then it may escalate to something more or not.

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In short: I've almost always found it better and more comfortable having a relationship with a woman older than me.
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They also seem to understand and appreciate me as a man more than girls do. And for me older women really know how to take care and provide support.

I'm never into a person, to say a relationahip where the other side is learning how to be supportive and be responsible. Love me to is care, and that's what the attribute I'm looking for.
And in general, younger girls -especially who don't work or at least help in housework- would only attract me as friends to chat with.. never to think of them as a partner.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Generally no. But it's not for the reason most women assume. Most of you think that a guy won't want you because you are "old." But that's not necessarily the case. A lot of middle-aged women are very attractive.

The reason I -- and probably most other guys -- would be hesitant to go out with an older woman (more than 1 or 2 years older) is... because women are extremely judgmental. I don't want someone to complain and criticize and act like my mother and tell me I'm doing things wrong all the time. And if she's older than me, I feel like she would have the natural right to do that and I wouldn't be able to say anything about it. But I don't think it would be good for our relationship dynamic. If she has no respect for me, then she probably won't love me either.

HikerDude · Answer

I've been hooking up with and dating older girls since I was 14. Older doesn't mean fatter, dumpier, or less attractive by default. Nor does younger mean fitter, sexier, and more fun. There are plenty of 20 year old girls who are fat, ugly boner assassins. So, to answer your question, yes, older can work for me. Just be fun and sexy and I'll be interested.

Realistic07 · Answer

To be honest I’ve dated the rainbow of women. From all races, sizes, cultures, Heights, religions, and most ages with exceptions obviously.
that being said In my younger days around 18 i dated a 40 year old who kept in great shape.

Always found the key to be expect less, and always try to get to know people for who they are it’s amazing how pleasantly surprised you’ll be.

someginger · Answer

Yeah i would be down but am not sure for a serious thing. Since as an age gap gets larger what a person wants at that time in there life might be different.

Such as an 20 year old isn't probably thinking about starting a family, while a 30 year old might be thinking it's time to start a family soon if not right away.

But depends on the person and what/where they are in there life.

Lone_wolf122 · Answer

I like older women... I don't know why exactly... maybe cuz i didn't have love or affection as a child... and maybe also cuz they're not so silly and lame like the younger ones.. I used to think about it as kinda weird but then you have guys like Chris hemsworth and Jason momoa who are with older women... turns out most cool guys are like that too..

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

I think around 10 years wouldn't be so bad and anything less than 10 years older, whilst still being older, would be fine.

It depends on the individual, in terms of whether or not they're attractive and if they tick the right boxes in terms of my standards and dealbreakers, then yeah.

JSmuve · Answer

I could casually date an older woman as long as she's still really attractive but if I wanted a serious, long-term relationship with kids then I wouldn't want to be with an older woman. If I didn't want kids, which is a strong possibility, then I could be in a long-term relationship with an older woman provided that we're compatible and she's still a banger in the looks department, but I doubt I'd go much above 5 years older, though exceptions can always be made.

AmeerX · Answer

I have a limit till 40 above it I don't want to date an older women. I like to have my own kids with the girl so I am okay marrying anyone old.
Plus I think I enjoy their company as they are like your mother, dominant, and have been mature enough to make sure you are well treated

JDavid25 · Answer

Yeah, I would definitely be opened to it.. There's some nice lookin older women out there.. Only thing is I don't know if she would be opened to having kids.. Which I want.. So, that's the only reason I would be hesitant to date an older woman..

Eeeyore18 · Answer

I'm 18 so I can't date younger gals anymore... However, 30 years old is the limit I would date a woman. For every year I grow older, that age limit moves up.

shade_19 · Answer

Age doesn't really matter
It's the compatibility and understanding
But ya, the older she'll be the lesser chances of long lasting relationship.
And also during sexy times there maybe disagreement depending on her and my body

jhnny1331 · Answer

When I was 17 I had a 34 year old girlfriend, I also went out with a 28, 32, 24, and a lot of others between 17 and 19, as well as girls my age at the time, age doesn't matter, the 34 year old was my hair stylist

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I have dated older. Several times. There wasn’t anything to it beyond we liked one another.

yazerr · Answer

Because They have more experience in different sides especially the bed Also these women like and enjoy this

Anonymous · Answer

I love older women and like to have friends with benefits with them,
They love to teach
They have great body
They have mature mind and are hot asf
They spread their legs without any expectations and always motivate you even if you cum early and ask you to do better in the second round :P

slatyb · Answer

I married one. She was born in July, I was born in October.

what3ver · Answer

I'd definitely be interested in a flirtation with an older woman, but I don't know about a long-term, serious relationship.

TOTEMPLASTER · Answer

I would be comfortable dating an older, younger, and similar-aged woman if the chemistry was right.

Shihab-91 · Answer

1-3 older after all I'm looking to get married and want kids if she is the one.

Avicenna · Answer

Maybe. She needs to be in good health and physically fit though.

K-I-S-S · Answer

I have a 5 year older girlfriend. And don't see age as a limiting factor. Depends on the woman.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

I would CASUALLY date or fuck with any older woman who looks physically appealing. I would not ever SERIOUSLY date an older woman or even a woman my age. That would not work.

genericname85 · Answer

i don't give a damn. if i don't find her attractive, i won't date her. easy as that xD

loveslongnails · Answer

Anything up to 10 years would work, unless she's a super wealthy sugar mama and wants to leave me her fortune! Then I don't care !! LOL

VikingWarLord · Answer

I nail Cougars all the time in the SF Bay Area. It's like shooting fish into a barrel.

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

My wife is half a year older than me so I guess I am xD

Guido · Answer

Not anymore. An older woman now would have 1 foot in the grave. Now I have switched to younger women.

DiscomfortZone · Answer

Well my wife is 4 years my elder and I didn't care about her age when we met so I didn't know :)

Pete671 · Answer

No not really, I find women my age or older rather boring tbh,

Cowboy6666 · Answer

yes upto 45 i would even marry her if she is right lady for me

Anonymous · Answer

Would it be a red flag or a turn off for her if the guy is still a beginner in sex? The guy feels he can count on both hands the number of times he has had sex in his life

EaterPeter · Answer

I believe I would be comfortable. 10 year max. I am not even sure aboutn10 max it can be more too. Depends on the individual.

Marizuk12 · Answer

It depends how beautiful she is and rich... If is rich and gud caring there I can try to date her...

Anonymous · Answer

At my age, no I would not. Maybe 18 years ago sure. But not now, mainly because women older than me are usually not able to have kids any more.

Twalli · Answer

My girlfriend is 5.5 year older than me and I have no problem with it.

Anonymous · Answer

I did. I didn't feel confortable when she whas more then 6 yare older.

Anonymous · Answer

Freakiest chicks i dated when i was younger were milfs. They would fuck and leave, which was awesome. They loved anal, into making our own porn, and fucking anywhere... even driving down the road.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

I've stuck my dick into some OLD pussy, but I'd never be seen in public with them.

Shiningtempest · Answer

To be honest, I would feel more comfortable dating younger woman.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Definitely. I find women over 30 generally more hot

Y2KxD · Answer

I'd date an older woman, but never marry one, if I ever got married, that is.

HamesOluwasanmi · Answer

I don't see a problem with that. I wouldn't mind anyways, if she has the right attitude, why not

LiamSawyer · Answer

I'd be ok with a woman up to ten years older.

Citizenkirk · Answer

Queen Elizabeth? Sure, why not✌🤞🇬🇧

Anonymous · Answer

any woman with boobs, ass and who gives excellent blowjobs

Alexa703 · Answer

I date older women 4-10 year older always have.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

My girlfriend is 13 years older than me.

Kelly6 · Answer

Very comfortable 10-20

jasco · Answer

I don't mind being with older women

Twenty2 · Answer

I would love to date older women 😜

Rickinct7 · Answer

i prefer younger women, lol

Anonymous · Answer

I be comfortable dating an older men

JPrez · Answer

At my age, no... lol

Slim57 · Answer

Hell yes its preferred

collie22 · Answer

my age only please

Iron_Man · Answer

No way never

Skankhunt · Answer

I voted for C

AFellowWeeb · Answer

Only 3 years older

msc545 · Answer

a little older sure

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