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Would you date an older lady?

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  • CaptainOverthink
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    Yoda Age: 33 , mho 41%
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    I have a hard time seeing myself physically attracted, but I've had strangely, sexually tense conversations with an older. I guess I could be convinced given enough of a beautiful mind.
    But then I am very experimental, openminded and seem to be able to be convinced into encounters unnatural to my orientation given the right conditions.

    I am by no means a common man, in my own experience, I am probably no good representative of the common, straight man.
    But how would I know?

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  • Berethor
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    Master Age: 38 , mho 38%
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    No, I want to have children and she can't give me that, old women are pretty useless to me.

    https://www.yourfertility.org.au/everyone/age

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    • scarletyes
      scarletyes
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      What is your definiton of someone old? Like a woman can still have kids at 35 for example.

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    • Berethor
      Berethor
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      It hard for woman to have children at 35, so she pretty old at that age already.

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    • scarletyes
      scarletyes
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      So you will leave your wife at 35 if she can't have any more kids because she is useless?

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    • Berethor
      Berethor
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      No, but I would not marry a useless old woman can't give me any children. :)

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  • Apple1996
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    Master Age: 29 , mho 39%
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    If I was single yes. Older women are beautiful 😍 and they could teach me all their wisdom it'd be great. As for men tho I always date younger. Old men aren't my thing. There's a few good looking ones but it's extremely rare

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    • JohnK123
      JohnK123
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      :) im a Young guy haha

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    • Apple1996
      Apple1996
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      @JohnK123 you are too young lol

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    • JohnK123
      JohnK123
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      Almost the right age tho

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  • BunBun369
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    Xper 4 Age: 38 , mho 34%
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    Fuck no. Sorry to come in hot like that but.. my gmama was a badass lady but I wouldn't want to eat her cookies than eat her cookies 🤢🤢🤢🤢

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  • OlderAndWiser u
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    Older than you, like 25 or 26? Yeah, I might, but then I'd wake up!

    When I was dating, most of the women I dated were between 10 years younger and five years older than me.

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  • Summeroflove
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    Not that old probably not. She’s past child bearing years and I’m just not really attracted to anyone over age 45. Now a woman 10 maybe 20 years older.

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  • Avicenna
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    Wouldn't make sense for me. You don't say how much older, but I don't want to be dating someone who isn't working anymore or will soon retire.

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  • coachTanthony
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    Probably not at my age. 3 -5 years tops

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    • coachTanthony
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      +1 y

      @Penedetoro That is obviously more about you then it is about me. Get some help and good luck to you.

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    • Penedetoro
      Penedetoro
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      Thanks, old fat bald man.

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    • coachTanthony
      coachTanthony
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      @Penedetoro LOL okay pedo e toro

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  • Reichmann75
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    Xper 3 Age: 32 , mho 34%
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    If I was 18 yes I would. But I am 30. A 30+ years old girl should exhibits damn huge qualities to compensate her age and I don't really think it's possible. So I'd say no, I'll stick with 18-25 years old girls.

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    • MadKezDyno
      MadKezDyno
      +1 y

      Message me please

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    • Alpha-Provider
      Alpha-Provider
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      @MadKezDyno Account frozen. Can't.

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  • molonski2
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    Master Age: 54 , mho 42%
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    1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    When I was 18 - sure..

    Now? hahahaha -- Are you kidding? At least 15 years younger , at least.

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    • nastyb
      nastyb
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      i can understand. im not attracted to men in their 50s as well.

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  • TheUniqueOne96
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    It depends how much older, like a few years is fine, like maybe up to 10 years at my current age of 27.

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  • LaFemmeFatale_1
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    Some do, I know a man in his early 30s who wanted to marry a woman in her late 40s.

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  • artgorgeous
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    Xper 6 Age: 38
    +1 y

    At my age - no. I would try looking for someone who is 10 years younger.

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  • NewYorkCity
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    If she is a virgin 100% if not that might be a problem.

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  • Anonymous
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    not really that interested in the idea to be honest , at my age we've be talked about someone way older than me so in much different stages of life and experience

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  • exitseven
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    When I was younger I would have no problem with it. Now that I am older I think any older woman would be on Medicare so maybe not.

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    • Zatsuma
      Zatsuma
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      As soon as the AARP mailing addressed to me came in the mail... It was the ahhh f... k moment

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    • exitseven
      exitseven
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      @Zatsuma hahahahaha I got mine a long time ago.

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  • BoopBoopBeep
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    I have. It's great. Way less drama and they typically get to the point faster.

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  • Staximus
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    Yes. I've seen some women at the bar I work at who you would never think were as old as their ID says. I've seen 60 year old women that look as young as some of the women my age.

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  • Guido
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    Yoda Age: 66
    +1 y
    321 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Since I am too old for the younger ones, I have to date the older ones. Although I do love the energy and beauty of younger women, most wold think it creepy if I hit on them so I stick to my age.

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  • DummyThiccFeraligatr
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    Xper 5 Age: 34
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    Date? yes. Marry? It depends on how much older, because I want to have kids.

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  • DextroShade
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    Never, the man should always be older. Older women are recreational use only.

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    • Sasha0426
      Sasha0426
      +1 y

      Sometimes I wonder if you’re trolling most of the time.

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    • DextroShade
      DextroShade
      +1 y

      @Sasha0426 that is why you are alone, because you clearly don't understand men at all. Most men think as I do, even if they won't openly say it for fear of cancelation.

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    • Sasha0426
      Sasha0426
      +1 y

      If y’all view women as such, then that’s how you feel about partners and your mothers.

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    • Sasha0426
      Sasha0426
      +1 y

      If that’s the case, then you see your wife and your own mother as recreational use and nothing more.

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    • DextroShade
      DextroShade
      +1 y

      @Sasha0426 stop being disingenuous, we don't view our mothers as potential romantic partners and if she is a wife she is by definition not recreational use only

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    • Sasha0426
      Sasha0426
      +1 y

      Why not? She’s getting older.

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    • DextroShade
      DextroShade
      +1 y

      @Sasha0426 men rarely divorce their wives just for aging, even if they cheat they won't initiate a divorce. Are you trolling?

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    • Sasha0426
      Sasha0426
      +1 y

      Nope. Just asking questions.

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    • nastyb
      nastyb
      +1 y

      maybe thats why you will never be able to find a wife.

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    • Sasha0426
      Sasha0426
      +1 y

      @nastyb He does have a wife

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    • nastyb
      nastyb
      +1 y

      @Sasha0426

      pretty sure doesn't if he says women are for recreational use only

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    • Sasha0426
      Sasha0426
      +1 y

      @nastyb He told me he does. His wife has the same exact mindset as he does. Both of them think women are whores these days. He even called me a whore.

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    • nastyb
      nastyb
      +1 y

      @Sasha0426

      well im very excited to see how she will feel once she gets older being married to a man who claims all older women are "recreational use " only.

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    • Sasha0426
      Sasha0426
      +1 y

      @nastyb oh, believe me. I said the same thing. It’s ok for her because she’s married but not for other women.

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    • Sasha0426
      Sasha0426
      +1 y

      He just has this raw hatred for women.

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    • nastyb
      nastyb
      +1 y

      @Sasha0426

      its not ok to say something like that... because a man who lacks respect for older women... will lose respect for his wife as she gets older. thats not a guy with decent values

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    • DextroShade
      DextroShade
      +1 y

      @nastyb wrong, women who are married don't lose respect just because they age, that only happens to single women.

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    • nastyb
      nastyb
      +1 y

      @DextroShade

      Thats not true. Haha why stay married to someone you're not attracted to and can't make your dick happy anymore when you can have hot young models?

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    • DextroShade
      DextroShade
      +1 y

      @nastyb you ladies don't seem to understand that just as you put some men in the friend-zone and have sex with others, men put some women in the wife material category and others in the recreational use only category. The hot young models would probably find themselves in the latter category and end up as side chicks.

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    • nastyb
      nastyb
      +1 y

      @DextroShade

      you don't seem to understand basic logic.

      imagine this... a woman who only dates rich men. she says that a man should be rich in order to be worthy of marriage. A man who cannot adequately provide for his woman is not a real man. She ended up marrying a rich man. Then at some point in his career, he loses all his money. Now he is just an broke average joe. Even though she loves him, she is no longer satisfied being married to him because he was no longer man that she wanted. He no longer fulfilled her definition of a "high value man". She no longer respected him.

      do you think the wife will stay with him? NO.

      even if she stayed married to him, she wouldn't be happy.

      this analogy also applies to married men who value beauty over anything else.

      if you look down on older women for their fading looks, its only a matter of time they will become dissatisfied with their wives as they age.

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    • nastyb
      nastyb
      +1 y

      @DextroShade

      In only a matter of time, your old wife will find out you're cheating on her with hot young chicks half her age. you come home to her every night but won't touch her at all or even sleep in the same bed with her anymore.

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    • nastyb
      nastyb
      +1 y

      @DextroShade

      and in only a matter of time, you will fall in love with one of your side chicks.

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    • DextroShade
      DextroShade
      +1 y

      @nastyb I have not cheated on my wife, and unlike women a man can fuck a woman and not catch feelings

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    • nastyb
      nastyb
      +1 y

      @DextroShade

      you haven't cheated yet because your wife doesn't look like shit yet

      when your wife does look like shit, you WILL start cheating on her. you will stop sleeping in the same bed with her. there will be no intimacy between you both. you will refuse to touch her at all. soon, this lack of intimacy will take a bad toll on your marriage. and you will start catching feelings for your young hot chicks.

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    • nastyb
      nastyb
      +1 y

      @DextroShade

      feelings fade when things change, honey. thats why 50% of all marriages end in divorce in america.

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    • DextroShade
      DextroShade
      +1 y

      @nastyb 80% of divorces are initiated by women. You don't understand men at all.

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    • nastyb
      nastyb
      +1 y

      @DextroShade

      what makes you think she won't divorce you for cheating?

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    • Sasha0426
      Sasha0426
      +1 y

      @DextroShade This is hilarious. You make conversations really entertaining 😂😂😂

      Reply
  • Kelly6
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    Master Age: 41
    +1 y
    1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    some guys love older lady.

    i myself fully love this relationship

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  • Hardworkingguy
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    Xper 6 Age: 33
    +1 y

    Sure I wouldn't mind that. If she's attractive and really nice to talk to why not?

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  • Nominal
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    Xper 6 Age: 25
    +1 y

    Absolutely, its my dream to have skiny old blonde.

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  • Danael31
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    Xper 5 Age: 29
    +1 y

    Yes. Not above let's say 42 years old at the moment though.

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  • dolemite58
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    Explorer Age: 36
    +1 y

    id hook up with one if she’s cute, I don't know about dating though.

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  • provokeesmokee
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    Yoda Age: 35 , mho 61%
    +1 y
    658 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Yes. Older women are my type, tbh.

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    • PeterLegg91
      PeterLegg91
      +1 y

      How old?

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  • whistlingwh0res
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    Yoda Age: 42
    +1 y

    Lonely guys will.. if he doesn't have opportunity in this opportunity world

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    • whistlingwh0res
      whistlingwh0res
      +1 y

      he might be ju;st a gay in the closet

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  • Anonymous
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    (36-45)
    +1 y

    No. A hot woman 22 years older than me invited me to a secret relationship where I call into her in private though. This is in private not out in the open.

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  • Darklydarkened
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    Xper 7 Age: 33
    +1 y

    I'd definetly date Katheryn Winnick. She's 46.

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  • LiLee77E
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    Xper 1 Age: 47
    +1 y

    No. I’m only interested in men.

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    • shades777
      shades777
      +1 y

      ok smart ass

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  • Ironic_Method
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    Yoda Age: 39
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    1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    I have and it was amazing.

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  • Anonymous
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    I am not attracted at all to older women.

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  • Anonymous
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    No, it would disgust me.

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    • Sasha0426
      Sasha0426
      +1 y

      Then I hope you have plan not to get older.

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      Women who are older than me will always be older than me, by the way, please change your profile picture, you are really ugly.

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    • Sasha0426
      Sasha0426
      +1 y

      LMAO 🤣 I feel sorry for the woman you call mom.

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      I'm serious, your face is very ugly.

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    • Sasha0426
      Sasha0426
      +1 y

      Eh 🤷‍♀️

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    • Sasha0426
      Sasha0426
      +1 y

      Funny you think that’s going to hurt me 😂

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      I'm not trying to hurt you, I'm serious, your face is ugly to look at.

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    • Sasha0426
      Sasha0426
      +1 y

      Ok 🤷‍♀️

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    • RoοstеrBrеаst
      RoοstеrBrеаst
      +1 y

      Ok she's not the worst. She's not that bad, like a robot, ok? I don't have my boob-grabbing instincts triggered but I'm not going to puke either, like some bitches are so ugly you want to puke.

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  • Rich371ca
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    Xper 3 Age: 54
    +1 y

    Sure thing

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    Why not?

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  • JohnK123
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    Yoda Age: 20
    +1 y
    528 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Ya ofc lol

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  • KrakenAttackin
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    Master Age: 46
    +1 y
    4.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Nope.

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  • jimmy2
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    Master Age: 66
    +1 y
    3.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    No not me

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