So I like a girl at work, and so, me nd her started talking a lot over text early February, so she knew I liked her and told me and she said she would go for me, and then I confessed I did like her, and whatever, but then she said she needed to better herself before she gets into anything and descriptively told me why cuz of bad past she had to deal with last year, the best friend even told me too, and I believe her and still do, so we kept talking I decided to say an idea that we should hang out, she agreed and I would plan it soon, and so 1-2 weeks went by, we continued to talk and stuff, and then yesterday we were having a good and fun conversation and I decided that it would be the right time to ask her out to go somewhere, and so I did, and she said this, "I know I said I was working on myself and focusing on my family and stuff, but I am talking to someone I guess I could say, I wasn't at the time I was texting you, but we have started to talk again, and if I wasn't in the situation I am now, yea Id go out n chill, do you get where I am coming from".
? red flag in talking stage?
