Is that a red flag?

[Anonymous]

I have been for three dates with that guy and we had really good time. In the third date we also had sex but it was something that we both wanted at that point. For the next week he will be out of town because of his work. Before we said goodbye he asked if I want to go to a party, that will happen in 2 weeks from now, with him. I said yes and then he told me that he was supposed to go with his friend and asked If I have any available friend for his friend. To be like 2 men and 2 women. I told him that I do not know if my friends would be OK with that but I will ask. Is it weird to ask me something like that at the current time? I am not interested to be me or my friends fucking buddies for them.

[Guy13]

Okay, you guys had sex. He let you know he was going out of town and invited you to event before leaving... to help you feel secure. I think your conclusions are not thought through. He is simply trying to make your date to party more relaxing by you bringing a couple of girlfriends along. This is very common practice. Do you think threesome or some orgy?

[20yearsolder]

It's not necessarily a red flag, I know it's a little deceitful but you don't even have to ask your friends. Just tell him that no one was interested in going

[HollyK21]

I don’t think that’s the intention. He wants you to go to the party but his friend is going as well, so he’s asking if you have a friend to bring along so his doesn’t feel like a third wheel.

[BarryLiverstone]

It shows he is a good friend because he was already going with his friend to the party. Are you concerned you don’t know him well enough?

[littlemisslolita]

I Have No Clue. You’re Speaking To A Virgin Here.