My boyfriend called me a rat liar. What should I do now?

[Anonymous]

He saw I had not lied but will not apologize.

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He apologized this morning and we made up.

[ChocoBrowny]

So he thinks he can get away without an apology. It's time to act dignified and stop talking to him or meeting up with him until he does. When someone is out of order, you deserve space. So simply tell him, you now need space and enjoy your time apart. If you find you dont want to go back to him afterwards because he still hasn't apologised, Break up with him.

[Asker]

Thanks, CB. I am thinking now about ditching him and have even taken off his ring and put it away.

[ChocoBrowny]

thats more than reasonable. Actions speak louder than words, he didn't even beg for your forgiveness let alone apologise. He acted ignorant.
Every serious action, deserves a serious reaction. You are a strong independant woman.

[Asker]

Thank you, CB. I needed to hear this. I am so good to him. I have my flaws but I have a good heart.

[ChocoBrowny]

Apology not enough, he needs to show it. Tell him it will take time for you to forgive him

[Asker]

We have been together for 2 years and I admit I have a few issues. But he can add to it. Thank you so much for caring.

[ChocoBrowny]

That's a little error in judgement, just because you know someone for 2yrs does not mean you know them better than someone you met say yesterday. The person you met yesterday could be a better person. In a bad situation you learn a lot. You learn whether you can trust them. So test it. Have him shower you for forgiveness or else you won't know if the apology was meant.

[ChocoBrowny]

And Ty for MHO 😊

[Danny_dan92]

Pack yo shit and leave the relationship

[Asker]

I am beginning to as of two hours ago, Thanks, DD.

[Danny_dan92]

Congratulations! 🎊

[Asker]

DD, He apologized. He says when when we were fighting all week, he got in a bad mood and said things in the heat of the argument. I will give him another chance after 2 years invested in relationship.

[Danny_dan92]

Sounds like a toxic relationship. But good luck

[Asker]

I can be difficult. I admit.

[lucyloo76]

Move on.. Life to short for hassle...

[Asker]

Thanks I think I will.

[panman444]

ok bee stuben to him see how he felis

[Asker]

I told him I have male visitor coming to dinner with family. He got scared. hahaha

[In_Trance]

what is a rat liar?

[Asker]

Me I guess in his eyes.