Would you be upset if your crush doesn't watch your insta stories?

[Anonymous]

or takes a very long time to see it... ?

[TDeans1987]

It sounds like you need to find out how your crush feels about you. If they are not that interested then it makes perfect sense why they would not place much importance in your Instagram thing.

But posting something in the hopes that a specific person sees it and reacts to it is only setting yourself up for failure. Mind you if I was friends with you both I would probably tell him to start watching your stuff just to make sure you were happy.

Sounds like you could focus your time and effort on someone who may better appreciate the time you put into these Instagram stories... whatever those are supposed to be. I'm an old man so I've got no idea. :)

[BitterSweetApplePie]

I've had a crush on my friends with benefits for years and every time he doesn't view my story, I'll admit that I do get a tiny bit upset. There have even been times that I'd entirely remove my story because he never got around to looking at it, despite being active.

[Asker]

my crush is at work. I posted the story and he didn't look at it although we worked together all day! that drove me crazy... how would u react

[BitterSweetApplePie]

If he was at work, I'd totally understand why he hadn't viewed it. Many work places don't allow the usage of phones or sometimes people are too busy with their work/life to take a look at their phone for more than a few seconds. If he eventually viewed it, no biggie, could've been busy!

[Asker]

thing is.. he's on his phone often at work.

[Siren777]

No. I don't have a crush lol. If I did I wouldn't be pining, as it's a waste of valuable time. Wishing, wondering and waiting.

[leesookna]

For me, yes. Because if your crush doesn't watch your story, it mean he never thinking about you, mean he doesn't like you. So I'm upset because he doesn't feel the same way like I did

[Asker]

my crush is at work. I posted the story and he didn't look at it although we worked together all day! that drove me crazy... he's on his phone a lot. how would u react

[leesookna]

Give up cuz obviously, he doesn't like me. So this is my story, I have a crush, I like him a lot, I know everything about him but someday I realize that he doesn't know anything about me. We talked but he never asking something to know me. He also never see my story when I posted. So if I was you, I give up

[Asker]

He sees my story but like only 10 hours later or more... Like you are at work right next to me and see that i have a new story but your just ignore it..

[leesookna]

Well, it's your choice. These just my opinion. Anyway good luck 😊

[Aurora1010]

I don't have instagram
But it feels nice if he watches my whatsapp updates,
If he doesn't then I'll feel a little upset, so I won't lie

[Asker]

my crush is at work. I posted the story and he didn't look at it although we worked together all day! that drove me crazy... how would u react

[Aurora1010]

If I knew he was working then I'd understand he was busy and feel relaxed that he's not ignoring me

[Asker]

he's on his phone often at work.

[Aurora1010]

Well don't worry too much about it
It doesn't matter much. Nor mean anything really important

[Little_Bumblebee]

I honestly don't care...

[JosyJosy]

No, I'm not active anyway

[maryisbreathing]

I don't even use Instagram