Omg were we dating the same person?
I KNOW THIS BOAT OH SO WELL!
Im asking myself did I write this post in my sleep lol... Except I never had the issue of not wanting to get married... Just the issue of him repeatedly not taking the steps needed to make the relationship work... Then blaming it on his introvert personality... Trust me the excuses and procrastination is beyound old... It reached extinction!
LISTEN DO YOURSELF A FAVOR
RUN FORGET HIM the heart break you'll endore and constant let downs is not worth it. Find another who will follow through! Break it off while you dont have too much time invested in the relationship.
A man who really wants you will take the actions needed to keep you... You dont have time to sit around waiting for the guy to grow up. You want children of your own not a man baby to raise!
Basically the man wants to keep you but not put the work and effort needed in the relationship.
He doesn't want to let go but foesnt want to commit and take responsibility. Its a childish behavior. Like when a child has a toy or pet and they dont want to play with it (or take care of it) but they dont want anyone else coming in and taking it from them.
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I'm guessing he can't accept it (breakup) and/or doesn't think you were serious? Or hoping it was a heat of the moment thing maybe and you've changed your mind?
But I'm confused, you wanted a date night, but then he talks about marriage? Two separate issues? I'm not quite sure the actual reason for this break up?
But two ways to handle this, depending on how you feel? If you still like him and want the relationship, then have a serious talk about what exactly you want and can he be that person and want the same from you? But if you're done 100%, then simply "remind" him that you're not together anymore and then limit your conversations (or tell him not to contact you again if that's what you want?), and treat him as you would any other friend. Talk about normal everyday things when you do talk to him, and not anything personal.
Why? Why is it so important to have dating nights, that your willing to throw away a relationship based on it. Why can't you value the time you spend together independent where it is?
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Sounds like you are nothing to him but a booty call. Dump him! And make it stick this time.
So he doesn't go out at night with you? ( Just making sure i get it right)
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