Talking to a girl I like, I asked her what she thought of me and she said this (in addition details) How do I work on this because I agree with her?

[Unsureandunconfident]

I think you're really nice. But its pretty hard to have a substancial conversation with you. Its hard to tell what u like. And I've never seen u talk about the things u create
In calls its pretty uneventful as well. i get u prefer to listen but like its gets pretty draggy

I do want to work on this so Any tips or ways I can improve on myself would be amazing!

[GnatSocks]

She's wise! Fuck, OP, that is an awareness and honestly you don't get everyday. She gave you more feedback than you truly could have ever hoped for!

All right, let's see if we can solve this: first, go work out, and I mean go to 4chan's /fit/ board and read the fucking sticky. You need a strength of will and the strength of body helps. You have to start seeing yourself as worth something, and that is one of the best ways to do it. Don't give me any "tomorrow's" either. I'm serious.

Second, figure out what you like. Your critique made you seem basically like you're being blown in the wind. You need some masculine energy. So go draw, go camp, go climb and play music and build a bird house. Start doing things, OP. Do not watch TV. That's watching people do things. You need to cultivate your own drive, your own interests. Be decisive, even when you don't care. Make a choice and lean into it. Actually, here's an exercise for you: turn off your phone and go on a drive. Do not follow the same road or go any place you know. Turn when something catches your eye, go explore parks and around abandoned buildings. Get to somewhere you don't know and find something interesting about it. Then, after you are about an hour away, navigate back home using a different route than you took. Do not look at your phone or get directions. Drive, nerd. You may get to another state. That's fine. It will tell you where you're at if you're lost.

Third, don't be feminine. I have a series of MyTakes called "how to fix your broken relationships." Go read them because I can bet you don't have the right mindset for a good relationship.

[Unsureandunconfident]

Ah wow, This was really helpful to read. I can't do the driving part but I will sure as hell do the others. I'd say that I've never had my own interests till now but I've started to work on art, That's how I actually met her, She also draws. I've been pretty much passive all my life so I have no clue what to do in so many situations so I find it all difficult but I've kept my mind on changing all of this.
Self worth is something that I've noticed that I lack, which I will also start working on. I tend to always think about others more than myself so It'll be a challenge but I'll do it!
If you have any more tips, please do tell, I'll work on anything that gives me proper change

[GnatSocks]

Excellent, thinking about others more than yourself is the reason you'll be good at this (weirdly enough, it's actually the mindset of most Doms).
Look into motorcycles if it's the price. You can often get motorcycles for cheaper, and having the ability to go where you would like to go is important. If it's because you're going to a college where undergrads don't have vehicles, then I guess it is what it is.
You still need to work on your decision making, though. It's like this: when I ask a girl on a date it's like this: "I'm going [activity] on [day, part of day] at [place]. Would you like to join?" When someone asks what to get me for birthday/Christmas, I will tell them an answer. When I'm with someone and get hungry, I'll either suggest a place for food directly, or give like 3 options and let her pick her favorite of those.
You're probably even keel, which is great for learning what you like. Here's a challenge for you: go to an ethnic restaurant when really hungry and order food that you have no idea what it is. Don't even ask what it is. Pick something based on whatever you want to base it on, but give yourself literally 30 seconds to decide. Then, eat it. It may not be good. It may be. Both are great for developing knowing what you want and being decisive.

[whatdoyouwantt]

Try to do all the things she mentioned differently, try to talk more. Are you shy

[Unsureandunconfident]

I would say that I'm pretty shy

[whatdoyouwantt]

That’s why! Just try to talk more. You’ll realise its nothing bad. Look so many weird people talk non sense and they are fairly accepted. I used to be shy. I changed cause I had a crush on a guy and wanted to impress him so I started talking to everyone trying to make him think I am cool and it made me realise it’s nothing scary. I was shy for 15 years, really shy. I wouldn’t answer the phone of unknown number, wouldn’t talk on mic, be on camera. Never ask a salesman anything id be afraid so yea you can fix anything, something just must push you

[whatdoyouwantt]

I was always that alone girl at school, people bullied me etc