I am 26 and I still haven’t found him! where is he?

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btbc92 · Accepted Answer

There is no such thing as the one. Simple as that. People married out of choice, got partners to do to arrangement, and or God presented a person because there is a ministry and calling in their life to fulfill. You have to decide and ask yourself WHY you want to date and be with a man. You have to have rational and logical reasons. There is a lot you need to think about. You must be active and building relationships with men. If you're not making male friends and getting to know them and screening them out, then your not paying attention. Remember that you also have choices to date men who were interested also. There are men you probably rejected, and men with who you didn't work well with. However, we don't know what is going on and we would need a lot more to know what the issue is and what you're looking for besides again a WHY. There is always a why. Until you know why we don't know why.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

My mom and aunts and uncles all married around their early 30s except for one and out of the 18 that married, only 2 are divorced.

The_Maphio · Accepted Answer

Ouch. That wall is closing in fast!
Horrible prospectives aside, you should probably frequent places that your ideal man could be attenting to.
Is he smart? Try some of those literary cafe or a place where board games and such are played, or around univeristies and colleges.
Is he sporty? Try gyms and stadiums, batting centers and whatnot.
You get the point, if aimlessly erring gets you nowhere, make your search more focused.
Even if in my experience and some of my acquaintances, love befalls you. The more you search actively, the less it presents itself.

BeMuse · Accepted Answer

Who Waldo? I'll circle him for you... Now you can move forward with life. You did it! You found him. Pat yourself on the back...

Madhatter920 · Answer

He's all around you. Just have to open yourself to the possibility. Love isn't something that just happens. It's a choice. And not a choice that you make one time and that's it. It's a choice you have to make every single day.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Typically, when trying to figure out an answer to that kind of question, you should at least post a picture of yourself and a list of interests/hobbies.
Otherwise how is anyone supposed to recommend any place too look?

JBlade · Answer

I won't sit here and lie to you. You may find them or you may never find them. It's simply a numbers game but I wouldn't expect Prince Charming to come up to you one day, that's a Disney fantasy.

zed-789 · Answer

R u a confident person? That could be the reason y. Many men now don’t really approach women. U might have to be doing the approaching.

Anonymous · Answer

Omg 26. I am 19 and haven’t had a meaningful relationship yet. Partly my fault as I focused mainly on school and part time job but would be nice to meet a good guy

Hanrej · Answer

Litteraly everywhere. Men ready for relationships are everywhere so long as just one of you muster up the curage to have a conversation and see if you're a match for eachother.

Avicenna · Answer

Well, you’re still young, so you have lots of options. What sort of guy are you looking for?

AlexanderAnttila · Answer

Let's put out a search party, blood hounds and all.

Wiredone · Answer

If you haven't found him you're looking in the wrong places. There is someone out there for everyone.

ashish804 · Answer

wait till u get right one otherwise u Will fall for someone who only wants to bang u

fred_durst · Answer

first you need to explain your criteria of a guy logically speaking , the higher your standard , the harder it is to find.

shalt · Answer

Hiding in the corner of the meat section at aldis, sitting with three work buddies at the bar at 5pm, or locked inside a toxic relationship... or dead

princeofromance · Answer

I am single as well. I have not found my soulmate as of yet. Who knows? I could be talking to her right now.

_Troian_ · Answer

Well at least u are in correct place, u gonna find him from G@G just saying ha ha!

Anonymous · Answer

I'm 35 and im still single. Some damn reasons either I find her or she finds me but later after she runs off to someone else then she settles down with them then happily ever after! 🤷🏻‍♂️

Dchrls78104 · Answer

I'm 43 and I still haven't found her. I think I'll stop looking...

Anonymous · Answer

Lost or hit by a bus, somewhere near my woman... I'm single too...

serious · Answer

Well, I can only wish you find him. Best of luck!

scarlett96 · Answer

I’m wondering the same girl

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Hope you find him... hope each of us don

KrakenAttackin · Answer

He's banging your sister.

zagor · Answer

He's herding yaks in Mongolia...

jasco · Answer

Keep looking and you may find him

themythos · Answer

Hopefully working hard for a stable career

dudeinohio · Answer

patience, patience

HHHHIHHHHHIHHHH · Answer

wait till you're 30

Anonymous · Answer

Look inside you

COMMODOREII · Answer

I'm here!!! 😂😂

ayomanwya · Answer

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