Guys, would you date a girl with no friends?

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SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

I said "yes".

Now, I realize that I am at least twice your age. I assure you, that I would have felt exactly the same way when I was in high-school.

Honestly, a guy who wouldn't date a girl with no friends... isn't looking for something genuine anyway. To not be interested in someone because they have no friends a guy is either: Insecure, and way too concerned about what other people think; OR he is making some (dubious) assumptions about you, as a person, based on the fact that you don't have any friends.

In my experience most people who don't have any friends are awesome people. The fact that they don't have friends is rarely a reflection of what they deserve.

They almost always don't have any friends because of stupid petty social bullshit. It might be something like a rumor, or some other stupidest that leads people to casting out some unlucky soul. Or it might just be that the person is extremely shy, or anxious, or moved around from place to place...

Regardless, having no friends doesn't make me any less likely to want to date someone. It really doesn't matter. At all. It means nothing. That was true when I was 16, and It's still true.

I'm really sorry to hear that you don't have any friends. You can feel free to message me if you ever care to chat. I'm super easy to make friends with. But hang in there. The right guy will not care about the number of friends you have. 🙂

Adam1978 · Accepted Answer

Yes but since many reasons why people have no friends are also the same reasons why she wouldn't be a good girlfriend. So someone new to the place who hasn't had time to get friends, wouldn't be a problem. Someone that has spent their whole life in the same place and still don't have no friends is unlikely to be girlfriend material.

KneeDragger · Answer

If she had the attributes I was attracted to, I honestly would be more interested in getting her attention versus worried about what everyone else thought about her.

If she struck me as a weird kind of person who was friends with no friends for a reason, well fortunately that was something that never happened to me so I can't speak about it.

Worry about being the best person you can be, someone who is healthy and be a GOOD person, don't worry about everything else too much!

CaliDad · Answer

No. Two reasons... If she has no friends then she is unable to maintain friendly relationships, so a healthy intimate one is impossible. And if she has no friends she has no personal interests that she will enjoy without you - a live-in relationship without "me time" always struggles.

Joshua0213 · Answer

Yeah, people without friends makes me think they don't follow current culture trends which is something I look for in a person

Anonymous · Answer

Having friends probably wouldn't be the deciding factor but girls that don't have friends SEEM a lot more real with themselves than those with friends (possibly because they aen't constantly being peer-pressured and don['t need to change their opinions to fit in).

Added bonus is that she won't gossip about me as much (theoretically).

Coolkat12345 · Answer

Ya why not if anything I would prefer it so I can have more time of hers to myself. I have a wife who always hangs out with others and I can’t even get enough time it’s so annoying, so it’s all good actually better but still it’s also good for girls to have friends with a lot of girls too for some reason.

The_Maphio · Answer

The "no friends" syndrome is pretty widespread in these times. You're hardly alone. An eventual boyfriend would also free you from your uncomfortable position of solitude.

NyceGuyFinishingLast · Answer

That would be an incredibly dumb reason not to date someone. That person could be your forever, the love of your life.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, but in a beginning I would want to find out why she has no friends. As sometimes it shows that she is not able to keep any type of relationship, including with her family.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Depends on the situation, but I would mostly say "no way." I made that mistake once. I gave her the benefit of my doubt, and it turned out that there were very good reasons she didn't have friends.

Acxx30 · Answer

Yeah definitely. I like clingy, as long as you are intelligent and can actually have a conversation. I literally hangout with 1 friend. And he's been my best friend for years. Im an antisocial butterfly and dont like people.

Leavesbound · Answer

If she was dating me she'd have at least one friend so that is a good start at solving the problem.

K-I-S-S · Answer

As a guy i have exactly 1.5 friends. So you are not too far off, sounds good to me. I date for that person, not their friends, family or other social connections.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Yes Offcourse, I have friends but very few. But I would say have at least three friends in life you know, you will never know when you will require help or could be assistance to someone

JackofSpades · Answer

For her sake I'd want her to have friends, but it's not like I won't date he because she has no friends.

Anonymous · Answer

Hell yeah, that means I have her all to myself. But at the same time I would also wonder why she has no friends

Sonorous · Answer

Possibly. But the cause for why I would or wouldn't date her wouldn't be because she has no friends.

serious · Answer

The answer is no because I never wish to date in my life.

exitseven · Answer

It would be nice so she wouldn't have friends to tell her what an jerk I am.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

At your age, it’s not uncommon. Truly good people are rare. Plus you being by yourself usually means you’re independent, not trusting. Not a sheep.

Ironic_Method · Answer

Itll probably mean they're going to be clingy, but yes as long as she gets along well with me.

Cubus · Answer

If there is no reason for her not having friends ( for example she is abusive or too dominant) then sure. Why not?

allaboutyou2 · Answer

Why not? You date a person for who they are not for what they possess, friends, money, car etc. Unless you are shallow.

Maspolomas · Answer

Yes I would she would be my friend and meet my friends

NoManTwo · Answer

I would as long as her personality isn't pushing people away and is the reason she has no friends.

loveslongnails · Answer

Yes, why not? There are lots of reasons for being "friendless", and they're not always bad reasons.

Paulychicago10 · Answer

Why not? That would be ideal for me. Ni extra baggage. Im not very sociable and kind of an introvert.

TheFlak38 · Answer

if a girl has no friends she's a keeper. Even if she's ugly.

Srij23 · Answer

Yes 💯 ... no friends no unnecessary stupid ideas put in her brains... no offense but it's real and very dangerous...

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Not relevant to if i find her suitable to date or not.

byzafer · Answer

Yes if I liked her enough and if she was not shy around me

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