It's better to go unprepared I do write down retorts (I've got a whole list) just in case but it's just better to have bullet points instead of preparing and rehearsing even if you prepare you're going to be forced to improvise I have done it (rehearsed...) and she hit me with a simple "I can't" and my dumbass just said okay and walked away no one ever just says yeah sure especially if you're punching in your weight class it's a weird thing we all overthink there's a reason why people tip toe around it with things like flirtation and seduction 🤮
No I use to now I dont it actually made me more nervous and mess up more.. when you just realize you want to be with someone abd just ask them without rehearsing anything things come out a lot smoother... I find anyway.. you know what you want to accomplish so go for it..
It took me two days to work up the courage to call my future wife. I had a whole speech worked out in my mind. I didn't get to use it because she told me she was moving away. We met again about a month later and I sat her down and went through the whole speech from soup to nuts. It was classic.
I tried rehearsal as a high school aged teen, but it never works out. Butterflies have a tendency to erase what you've memorized, leaving you blank and dumbfounded, and from the perspective of your prospective partner, creepy. It's best to wing it, that's the only way to improve your natural abilities.
Never been the type to do that although I have been guilty of flexing in front of the mirror and doing a light workout to look pumped before the date. :-D
I don't understand the point of rehearsing lines because, unlike a play (I have performed in plays before where I did practice lines), I don't know what she's going to say in response. So I don't like to be that prepared because I might prepare for the wrong thing.
It's like I'd be more comfortable performing in a play where we had no lines and had to improvise anything. The worst-case scenario would be when we had lines but someone went off the script. That's the most nerve-wracking scenario. So I just preferred pure improv for dates.
Id feel like i would be cheating myself out of establishing a genuine first impression if im gonna use a pickup line. It would imply that I think every woman is the same and would react similarly. I prefer to infer to the setting we're in.
I used to, but not anymore. After you do it a few times all the stress disappears. Either she's attracted or she isn't The exact wording won't make a difference.
Lol definitely not. Why should I have to go to a date preparing for it like an interview? My potential partner would definitely prefer a less refined and more genuine "me".
Uh definitely I'm a big nerd but I'm still athletic... doesn't mean I don't get shy around girls or blush AND IM Hawaiian and black H SO HOW TF DID SHE TELL I WAS BLUSHING
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