Do you usually mention the word date when asking out? She said go out where? Until I said it's a date?

[Anonymous]

She said yes but she seemed lost at first. It's probably pointless, and she seemed happy with the date plan but I'm nitpicking until I see her again

[Guy13]

I never use the words "hang out" when speaking to any woman as it is rude and she's not one of the guys !! I never use the word date either. I present the Plan, when to be ready, and the day and wait for any possible changes EXCEPT the place. This is my doing and whether she thinks she will love it or not is for her to get over. Either, you want my company or you do not.

Clarity and Purpose does not require "signal words"...

[Asker]

I got you. I used to not use the word either but was told to in order to make it more clear to her, as she has been odd about hanging out. I used the word date as she was confused when I said "go out" and then she said sure and she asked about the plan and I presented her as you said. She seemed excited. I saw her today and we just confirmed the time for tomorrow. She didn't seem talkative or excited but I mean she said yes so I'm probably overthinking. Probably...

I have noticed girls get more open after a first kiss though so perhaps I gotta do that early to see how she really feels. I thought asking her out would fix that, but again probably overthinking...

[Guy13]

Good luck 😘 kissy.

[Lowiu]

Maybe she's like testing the waters so if you first say go out she's not sure what kind of going out you mean as soon as you say date its clear what you want

[Asker]

Maybe yeah, it seemed like she was both confused and wanted to be clear what I meant. She said yes so I guess it's good but other thinking u know :)

[Nikki1989]

I don't think I have ever used that word.

[Asker]

Me either, first time, but kept reading and people telling me I should so I did when I saw she was confused. It went well so I guess it matters?

[Anonymous]

I've done that randomly at times.

[Asker]

Why do you think you did? Just to confirm it's date?

[Opinion Owner]

I really don't know.