Fellas, after dropping off your date at her house, do you expect her to invite you in? Or you just drive away? Ladies, do you expect your date to?

[Pinay_ako]

This lady’s date just drove off, she’s ghosting him now…

Ladies, do you want your date to wait till you get in the house safely before driving off or you don’t care? Is that a red flag for you?

[Lliam]

If we didn't connect on the date, I might just drop her off and wait until she was safe inside before driving away.

But if the date went well, I'd get out, help her out of the car, and walk her to the door. Nothing would be "expected" but I wound hope for at least a kiss or even some smooching. It's up to her if she wants to invite me inside.

If it's not our first date, meaning that we have decided to continue dating, I would walk her to her door every time, waiting for the day she finally invites me inside and makes it official. Some guys would call that simping. I call it being a gentleman, thinking she's special, treating her with dignity, and earning her trust.

[Pinay_ako]

Amen 🙏

[TheoPfeifle]

I walk her to her door. What happens from there is up to her. My expectations... A pleasant farewell and I drive off knowing she's in her home, safe. Anything more than that is, again, up to her.

[desperatelyhungry]

You’re an angel

[TheoPfeifle]

Nah... That's the minimum standard. It's unfortunate that society, today, can't regularly meet the minimum standard.

[Lucy68]

Most of my dates in the past never waited until I made it to my door safely. If I meet someone kind and loving I hope he does walk me to my door or car to make sure I'm safe. If not I'm normally fine I keep mace on me and if I'm meeting them somewhere I keep a pistol in my car just in case. So I'm prepared.

[DenizLikesTennis]

O_O... wow!!

[YollyM]

I appreciate it when my date waits for me to get in my house before driving off, without insinuating that he wants to be invited in. That minor act tells me a lot about the kind of guy he is.

[OlderAndWiser]

I may HOPE that she invites me in, but I never expect it. Having those kind of expectations rarely works out very well.

[Chazmatazz269]

I don’t expect anything. Men are not permitted expectations anymore.
I will wait to make sure she gets in the door safely, but only out of habit. You can only roar “I am woman” and assert your strength, fierceness and independence so many times before guys get it. Women don’t need or want men as protectors. Kool! Have a good night! Ell oh ell!
That is unless dude lives in one of the states that requires him to protect her. Then he better do everything he can, to her comfort and expectations, or he could end up in jail.

[Pinay_ako]

Which states

[Chazmatazz269]

I only recall Michigan for certain, cuz that’s where i lived when i learned about it. Seems like there were only about 13 or so, but that’s still way too many. Another widely overlooked violation of the 14th amendment.

[Amy10223]

If it was the first date, I would be driving my own car and not allowing him to drive me, especially if you don’t really know him well. Once you do date for awhile, I would like for him to see me go in before he leaves. I think a gentleman would do that.

[desperatelyhungry]

At least the first two dates he probably isn’t getting invited in. I don’t wanna have sex right away and letting him inside probably would have him assuming we’re gonna take things further, so I wouldn’t allow that until I know I’m ready to take things further

[Faith18letsgo]

I like to leave my car running and walk my date to the door. I feel like it’s nice but the running car says I don’t expect to be let in. That being said if it’s too awkward I feel like it’s also all good to just make sure they got in safely.

[Pinay_ako]

Wow what if your date wants you to come in tho? The running car signals you don’t want to come in… 😔

[Faith18letsgo]

Your totally right, I just prefer being seen as taking things too slow then too fast.

[BlueScorpio]

When my husband and were dating, he had a habit of doing that and we had to have talk about it. Even my mother wasn't pleased about him just peeling off before I got into the house. She said his but needed to start waiting till you got in to make sure no one was waiting, hiding out for you to open the door. These things have happened before. After that he started waiting until I got in.

[DenizLikesTennis]

Hey 😊,

A good question in my opinion. I'd definetely do it, leave a hug and wish her a good evening then expect nothing in return, out of kindness.

Most of them appreciated it

[Pinay_ako]

Thanks 🙏 and wow that’s sweet

[glennos89]

If she doesn't invite me in I would drive home with the idea she doesn't want me to come in ( yet )

The second reason why I would drive home i that situation is to make sure I don't give her the feeling I'm invading her private space to soon.

Unless she invites me in by her self I would stay

[TrueConfection]

Maybe he can slow down as he drives passed her house and she can just tuck and roll. 😳

Wait? He should walk her to her door!

[Pinay_ako]

Tuck and roll? 🤣

[TrueConfection]

Pretty much! 🤣

[dustybiker]

Always wait for the person to be safely inside. Doesn’t matter how long you’ve known them. Date or even friend. I would do it if I drove my male friends. Basic protective respect.

[Pinay_ako]

Same

[Bmories99]

When I dated I had no expectation of being invited in. To me it was a saftey thing. If I could not see her from where the car was parked I would get out and walk her to her door (I do this for friends too) I have no expectations just simply ro make sure she is home safe. I would then proceed home.

[Fireguy17]

It really depends on how the date went.

Some dates I looked like John Force leaving the starting line, others we barely had clothes on by the time we got to the door, and everything in-between.

Just let the night dictate what happens next.

[LazerBean]

I like to get walks to the door, not because Im afraid but because it shows that he cares.

But most of the time he would just come to my house and hang out with my family and I anyway.

[RavVid]

I think it is courteous to wait but more courteous to escort her to the door and do a sweep of the house for intruders - especially the bedroom.

I do expect her to invite me in though.

[Pinay_ako]

But if she doesn’t?

[RavVid]

Well not much I can do then is there?

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 I don't know you tell me

[RavVid]

I need you to make me a cup of coffee to drive safely home... that should get me inside the front door I hope.

[laurieluvsit]

Am I into proper etiquette? ... YES!

He should wait until I am safely inside if I don't invite him in.

Mothers are to blame for not training their sons properly.

What Mothers Forgot to Teach Their Sons

[LogicBomber]

If she didn’t want him to walk her to the door, then chances are she wasn’t afraid so why the fuck should he have waited and watched her go into her own house?

These “strong and independent” females really know how to come across as weak pathetic needy children

[MrPickles13]

Personally I would walk her to the door unless she said otherwise. Say that I enjoyed the date and her company, wish her a good night. I wouldn't expect to be invited in. And wouldn't even expect a good ight kiss to be shared.

And if there was to be a good night kiss if the date went very well I wouldn't just kiss her I'd either ask her or let her take the initiative on that.

I just think it's just the right thing to do making sure they get home safe or to their car or whatever.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Once we establish a good time together then I’ll ask her if I can her sometime soon so we can see each other again. Whether she says yes or no then I usually try to end the night there unless told otherwise

[Ευδεμονια]

I usually drive her home, waiting for her to come in and then I go away, I only text later if they’re safe and good night.
In general I don’t expect anything from them, I learnt to not expect anything for anyone.

[Orange85]

A kiss is good. Show your attracted. Depends on what your looking for after that. To get to know them or greeeet to know there body