Fellas, after dropping off your date at her house, do you expect her to invite you in? Or you just drive away? Ladies, do you expect your date to?

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Ladies, do you want your date to wait till you get in the house safely before driving off or you don’t care? Is that a red flag for you?

Lliam · Accepted Answer

If we didn't connect on the date, I might just drop her off and wait until she was safe inside before driving away.

But if the date went well, I'd get out, help her out of the car, and walk her to the door. Nothing would be "expected" but I wound hope for at least a kiss or even some smooching. It's up to her if she wants to invite me inside.

If it's not our first date, meaning that we have decided to continue dating, I would walk her to her door every time, waiting for the day she finally invites me inside and makes it official. Some guys would call that simping. I call it being a gentleman, thinking she's special, treating her with dignity, and earning her trust.

TheoPfeifle · Accepted Answer

I walk her to her door. What happens from there is up to her. My expectations... A pleasant farewell and I drive off knowing she's in her home, safe. Anything more than that is, again, up to her.

Lucy68 · Accepted Answer

Most of my dates in the past never waited until I made it to my door safely. If I meet someone kind and loving I hope he does walk me to my door or car to make sure I'm safe. If not I'm normally fine I keep mace on me and if I'm meeting them somewhere I keep a pistol in my car just in case. So I'm prepared.

YollyM · Accepted Answer

I appreciate it when my date waits for me to get in my house before driving off, without insinuating that he wants to be invited in. That minor act tells me a lot about the kind of guy he is.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I may HOPE that she invites me in, but I never expect it. Having those kind of expectations rarely works out very well.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

I don’t expect anything. Men are not permitted expectations anymore.
I will wait to make sure she gets in the door safely, but only out of habit. You can only roar “I am woman” and assert your strength, fierceness and independence so many times before guys get it. Women don’t need or want men as protectors. Kool! Have a good night! Ell oh ell!
That is unless dude lives in one of the states that requires him to protect her. Then he better do everything he can, to her comfort and expectations, or he could end up in jail.

Amy10223 · Answer

If it was the first date, I would be driving my own car and not allowing him to drive me, especially if you don’t really know him well. Once you do date for awhile, I would like for him to see me go in before he leaves. I think a gentleman would do that.

Bmories99 · Answer

When I dated I had no expectation of being invited in. To me it was a saftey thing. If I could not see her from where the car was parked I would get out and walk her to her door (I do this for friends too) I have no expectations just simply ro make sure she is home safe. I would then proceed home.

desperatelyhungry · Answer

At least the first two dates he probably isn’t getting invited in. I don’t wanna have sex right away and letting him inside probably would have him assuming we’re gonna take things further, so I wouldn’t allow that until I know I’m ready to take things further

Faith18letsgo · Answer

I like to leave my car running and walk my date to the door. I feel like it’s nice but the running car says I don’t expect to be let in. That being said if it’s too awkward I feel like it’s also all good to just make sure they got in safely.

BlueScorpio · Answer

When my husband and were dating, he had a habit of doing that and we had to have talk about it. Even my mother wasn't pleased about him just peeling off before I got into the house. She said his but needed to start waiting till you got in to make sure no one was waiting, hiding out for you to open the door. These things have happened before. After that he started waiting until I got in.

DenizLikesTennis · Answer

Hey 😊, A good question in my opinion. I'd definetely do it, leave a hug and wish her a good evening then expect nothing in return, out of kindness.  Most of them appreciated it

TrueConfection · Answer

Maybe he can slow down as he drives passed her house and she can just tuck and roll. 😳 Wait? He should walk her to her door!

dustybiker · Answer

Always wait for the person to be safely inside. Doesn’t matter how long you’ve known them. Date or even friend. I would do it if I drove my male friends. Basic protective respect.

glennos89 · Answer

If she doesn't invite me in I would drive home with the idea she doesn't want me to come in ( yet )

The second reason why I would drive home i that situation is to make sure I don't give her the feeling I'm invading her private space to soon.

Unless she invites me in by her self I would stay

Fireguy17 · Answer

It really depends on how the date went.

Some dates I looked like John Force leaving the starting line, others we barely had clothes on by the time we got to the door, and everything in-between.

Just let the night dictate what happens next.

LazerBean · Answer

I like to get walks to the door, not because Im afraid but because it shows that he cares. But most of the time he would just come to my house and hang out with my family and I anyway.

RavVid · Answer

I think it is courteous to wait but more courteous to escort her to the door and do a sweep of the house for intruders - especially the bedroom. I do expect her to invite me in though.

laurieluvsit · Answer

Am I into proper etiquette? ... YES! He should wait until I am safely inside if I don't invite him in. Mothers are to blame for not training their sons properly.

LogicBomber · Answer

If she didn’t want him to walk her to the door, then chances are she wasn’t afraid so why the fuck should he have waited and watched her go into her own house?

These “strong and independent” females really know how to come across as weak pathetic needy children

MrPickles13 · Answer

Personally I would walk her to the door unless she said otherwise. Say that I enjoyed the date and her company, wish her a good night. I wouldn't expect to be invited in. And wouldn't even expect a good ight kiss to be shared.

And if there was to be a good night kiss if the date went very well I wouldn't just kiss her I'd either ask her or let her take the initiative on that.

I just think it's just the right thing to do making sure they get home safe or to their car or whatever.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

Once we establish a good time together then I’ll ask her if I can her sometime soon so we can see each other again. Whether she says yes or no then I usually try to end the night there unless told otherwise

Ευδεμονια · Answer

I usually drive her home, waiting for her to come in and then I go away, I only text later if they’re safe and good night.
In general I don’t expect anything from them, I learnt to not expect anything for anyone.

Orange85 · Answer

A kiss is good. Show your attracted. Depends on what your looking for after that. To get to know them or greeeet to know there body

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I think he expected to be invited in... LOL

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

I meet my date at our date place, don't want him knowing where I live. By the time he knows that (if we make it that far) then we'd probably be engaged, so totally fine to invite him in.

MTC29 · Answer

Walk her to the door. It is the polite thing to do. Otherwise, remain inside the car and wait for her to go inside her house before driving away.

TroyDT · Answer

I make sure she gets in safely. If it is a first through third date I will decline going in if invited.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I expect them to at least for me to go safely inside my house.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

"Expect" is the wrong word. I'll hope that she invites me inside, but if not, I'll wait for her to step inside before I drive off, because that's kind of the gentlemanly thing to do.

Staximus · Answer

I don't expect her to invite me in. As far as dropping her off, if it went well I'd walk her to the door. If not, I'd just drive away after she gets out of the car.

Massageman · Answer

Depending on the relationship, length of knowing each other, at the minimum I would wait until she is safely in the house. Or, just be a gent and walk her to the door with no expectations, other than just being a kind gent.

Andres77 · Answer

I’d be patient and see what she wants. If she’s worth anything then she’s worth waiting for. of course you escort her to the door and only once she’s safe would I leave.

WeirdoFriendly · Answer

You should always walk the lady to her door as a gentleman's act. But ask her if she wants that first. If not, we should stay in the car or outside the car until she has safely gotten inside her house.

AviatorTom · Answer

I've never expected anything. If she invites me in, that's good, If not, I wait and make sure she safely gets inside, then calmly drive away.

IndyZee · Answer

Again, I'm old-fashioned... I don't 'drop her off', I park the car, get out, open her car door and walk her to the front door. A kiss would be nice but beyond that, it's her call.

Zolly99999 · Answer

I would offer to walk her to the door.. no I have no expectations of being invited in. It's just the gentleman thing to do. If she declined me walking her to the door I would wait till she made it in her house safely before I drove a way.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Walk her to the door, sau I had fun if I did, maybe offer a kiss and see if she wants to invite me in herself.

qwert1234 · Answer

I try to keep my expectations low. So, I am not expecting her to invite me, but when she does, it's gonna feel awesome.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

on a first date I let her check to see if place is free of a burglar then she says yes I kiss her good night an let her go in an lock door before leaving

slatyb · Answer

I walk with her to her door. In a new relationship I don’t expect anything.

SunnyCaliGirl · Answer

I learned it’s best when dating, not to place one’s own expectations on another person. This leaves you with less disappointment and heart ache

Guardian45 · Answer

After dropping off my date at her house, I ALWAYS watch to see she gets in safely.  I may hope, but I have NO expectation she will invite me in.

cth96190 · Answer

I drive away, after I see hergo inside and lock the door. I do not expect anything.

Fuentes · Answer

If I drove off she's already blocked cause she must have wasted my time.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I always walked her to the door and wait for her to get inside before I left. I never expect to be invited in.

Jerre · Answer

When I drop a date off at her house, we have already fucked several hours. I’m tired, she’s tired, both of us going to get some sleep.

vald9inches · Answer

Depending on how our date went i would be expecting her to invite me in but i would stay until she got into her house safely

nawtee_me · Answer

The guy should walk her to the door even if it is an upstairs apartment. She should be inside before he even gets back to his car.

Xnnnttrzzs · Answer

She's never invited me in. Most dates just end when I deflate her and put her back in the box.

EnglishEuropean · Answer

I will escort her to he door. Whether or not she invites me in at that point is a matter for her.

Libertycityguy · Answer

I used to wait till she was in the house. I have been invited in a few times

AimeeKyle · Answer

Expect, no. It really depends on how the date went, what day and time it is.

LordOfThePines · Answer

No. I will just watch her get in safely before I head home.

Xtendable · Answer

Always wait. For her safety, as well as the potential for an invite in

Amur8711 · Answer

I would wait until she is inside and maybe wait a couple minutes for safety reasons

Juxtapose · Answer

Can women not walk 20 feet without getting jumped or something? Looks like you're just patting her ego lol. Simp behavior.

MiseriaCantareAFI · Answer

Depends on the date, right?

TallAnon · Answer

Depends on the date and her.

LexiXide · Answer

Usually you just drive away

exitseven · Answer

I never expect anything.

Monica1984_ · Answer

I walk her to door make sure she get’s in safe.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

See she gets in her home and then drive away.

EaterPeter · Answer

Yes, maybe

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