Why the planet is full of men and I'm still single?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Because its really hard to find a compatible person and then also not screw it up somehow with someone things might / could have worked out with.

For example:

I am not religious so that rules out the majority of women right out of the gate.

I am an anarchist so that rules out another large majority of women who dont have compatible politics.

I am vaguely intelligent and annoyed by stupid people so thats 50% out the window.

The most beautiful and successful etc women are all going to be with the richest / most successful men etc, so that is whatever that is? Its got to be at least 10%?

So while it might seem like there are a lot of potential partners the reality is that that isn't the case at all.

Once you start to factor in even very basic things like 'does this person want children and or pets' the list becomes very short and you have no idea who they even are and even if you did know the logistics of being in different countries or different towns can be a deal breaker.

If you want to be happily married your best bet from my experience is to be a very average person with no strong opinions about anything and find a compatible person early before you are old, bitter and jaded.

sixxx · Accepted Answer

Well you are not alone and also there are lots of men struggle to get a girlfriend and still single too.

But I think for women it's easier to find a boyfriend rather than a man.
As long as a girl makes herself looks attractive and good looking for sure lots of men will chase you.

However if you are a man, that doesn't guarantee as man is more visual type and woman is not visual type so woman is not quite attracted to hot guy though some of them are but most of them don't.

Men need to have a strong finance so that women are more attracted to have a relationship with us bcs women are seeking a strong man that could protect her and responsible for her life in the future. So it's more difficult for man's situation as they need to prove their income capability first.

As women just needs to focus on her looks and that's it. So don't feel so down.

Just try to make urself beautiful as you could and I guarantee lots of men will be waiting and you will be confused which man you should choose to become ur partner.

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Give yourself time. You have all the time in the world at 18. Get yourself an education to do something you enjoy that you can make money at. Volunteer and meet people. College is a great place to meet loads of men. Volunteering with grassroots groups is also a way to meet involved, thoughtful people.
You need to get yourself to some of the place nice guys hang out. I've suggested a few.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

Could be any reason, or no reason at all.
But to guess just one... (because it's common with girls)
Because you're too passive, not active. Initiate things. Be an active participant in your own destiny. Don't wait to be chosen, fall back on insecurity, or pretend it's up to guys to make all the moves. Go after what you want.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

You are only 18 years old. You are at an age where you feel ready for life and you want to have everything now, but perhaps you are not quite ready. Maybe you need to kiss a few more frogs so that you will appreciate the prince when we comes into your life.

MickeyMac · Answer

I could just as easily flip your question😄! .. They alllll say, there's always that ONE person out there.. that certain special one. Yeah? Where? The other side of the Globe? In THIS life? Or the NEXT!.. haha... Hell, I've been in a few semi-serious relationships with some of the best ladies around.. but I have never been in one that's gone more than 12 . months.. exactly One year.. is the farthest my girlfriend status has ever reached. Been told that it's crazy how I'm single all the damn time.. and if"they" weren't with such and such, they'd be trippin over their own feet to hang out with me.. I can say, that my responses always fall into the... the"Oh, C'mon!" $500 Category of Bad Timing. I'm assuming you yourself might have fallen into similar spots sometimes.. However, I don't presume to speak of someone else's own thoughts on the matter.. lemme just say, on a personal note, that you are indeed a good looking lady. It's mindboggling sometime, especially when you find yourself around people that don't seem to have any problem whatsoever in that aspect of life. Or you see the right woman in an absolute mismatch with some jerk.. likewise with the other way. I tell em, cherish it! Don't take it for granted! That's where I'll leave it. I don't wish to yap -yap -yap off anyone's ears... hope not. Good Luck to you, hela1110, and Thanks for reading!👋🏻🙂

MasseurDeMojo · Answer

Probably, because you have spent a lot of time looking for Mr. Perfect, and not Mr. Right. Look for a person who actually talks to yo!! Not your breast, or butt, but to you!! Do not search for them; go about your day, be yourself always, and let them find you!! It could be that person you pass in the street and say hi to everyday, it could be the person you see on the local transport who seems to always have a kind word for you.

No one is above , or below. It is always about the heart. Change your perspective, and change your life!!

HiveBee · Answer

Maybe guys are too intimidated by your looks.

Maybe you have silly standards. Though usually girls with silly standards end up with fuckboys and scumbags and bums wh have babies and let the girl take care of it while he plays video games.

But you might be seeing right through good boyfriend material due to poorly rationalized standards. Or, your only option is guys like I mentioned above and you can recognize them and refuse to be taken in by their manipulation that gets girls pregnant and turns them to single mothers.

Crazybeeguy · Answer

This is a good question, that many people have. I think that you should list qualities that you are looking for in your type of guy. E. g. Tall, must love dogs, or he has to be shy. Once you make a list, then rate each characteristic from one to ten on importance, like You might like a guy that is 6 foot. That would be 10 then as you say next 5'10 that would be 9 and so on. Then when you are looking for your ideal man rate what you are seeing with each characteristic. Then compare to your list. Congratulations you just had your intro to Machine learning, at some point I will be doing a questionaire and survey, so I can use that info to create a better way to find peoples matches. Also if a guy falls short of certain characteristics he can work on those to better himself for finding love.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Why the planet is full of women and I'm still single?

It's because no one asks anyone else if they are a good match.

It's because people are overly critical of eachother.

it's becuase people are scared of other people.

it's because people want to have utility instead of love.

It's because people can't just say not a good match instead of being an asshole about it.

I could go on, but there are lots of reasons it's hard to find someone.

One of them is going online and asking why you are single without saying what you are even looking for.

FlySwimmer · Answer

Bec the girl asking this question won’t date all the men that fill this world and she hasn’t found a good one that is right for her, and single, I wish you luck :)

MCheetah · Answer

- Your standards are too high.
- You're too young.
- Young people suck nowadays and mostly don't want to date.
- You're living in a bad area for dating.
- You aren't ready for "the one" yet.
- You haven't met "the one" yet.
- You aren't attractive.
- You're actually gay/queer, thus aren't attracted to men.

Any number of combination of these.

Azura_88 · Answer

THEY ARE S** HUNGRY PIGS.
They aren't loyal
So yeah if there are 1000 men in a place then only 80 or MAXIMUM 100 of them are actually a good quality men.
So now you can imagine.
Majority of them only lust women, nothing else. They're selfish, greedy, lying assholes and loves to manipulate women to take advantage of her.

DJB72 · Answer

You're 18. Give it time. My first serious girlfriend and I started seeing each other just before I turned 19. My second girlfriend and I only got together when I was 26 and my last serious girlfriend and I met when I was 29 and got married when I was 31.

Enjoy being 18. You don't get that back.

DeltaCharlieEcho · Answer

Because you, and the rest of females in western civilization have been brainwashed to believe that the impossible is reasonable. You can’t have it all, just like men can’t have it all. Women can’t take the high paying jobs and turn around and bitch that there aren’t any men that make more than them. You can’t force men out of universities and bitch that there aren’t more men with more education than you. You can’t demand men work 80 hours a week and come home to do more work at home. You’ve been fed a sack of shit and lies for your entire life and now all of us are fucked because you can’t recognize the difference between ideology and reality.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

You're American, and when I see how many annoying feminist movements, fake rape reports putting innocent men in jail, metoo etc. I understand why many American men stay single

Anonymous · Answer

The Earth has a population of 7.8 billion, 51% of them are males which makes it 3.7 billion dicks on earth.

Minus Chinese and indian dicks (who would want those pfft)= 3.7 - 1= 2.7 billion

Now dicks that are between the ages 18 and 24 are 40% of those 2.7 billion dicks which makes it 1,080,000,000 billion dicks available.

Now lets say you're shallow. So, lets measure the desired features.
You want good income, confidence, certain skin color, power, health, height, knowlage shared interest and language this leaves you with only= 2072 dicks available.

RedSauce · Answer

Update summary: you’re a choosy person and until you have moved passed that overly specific choosiness then you’re gonna be single for a while; no shame in it because a lot of younger people have either unrealistic or overly strict hopes or desires, it wears off eventually

JosyJosy · Answer

Cause you might not make a move on them and by a move I mean "I like you do you want to go out on a date?" kind of move

sensible27 · Answer

Once you understand the question well enough the answers become easy.. - easier to find. You first have to ask yourself what you're looking for, why do you want a relationship.. what's the reasoning behind it.. is what you're looking for common, abundant and easy to find? Or are you seeking a novelty.. is it novelty for novelties sake?

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

Probably cause you, just like everyone else, don't want to date anyone.

So everyone over or under a specific age is out of the equation, everyone living far away as well, same for already taken men, ...

And so the world full of men shrinks down to a handfull of men. And than you and one of the men still have to meet up and get to know each other.

Aurora1010 · Answer

Yeah, I'm getting tired of the single life too. Maybe I'll for a boyfriend soon, someone caring.

JBlade · Answer

Finding someone is all about probability and compromise. You are not guaranteed to find someone, it may happen or it may never happen. Your odds depends on several factors like looks, standards/expectations, dealbreakers, location, attitude, etc. Ultimately, finding a partner will be based upon your willingness to compromise with someone in order to incorporate them into your life.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Are you a nice person? Do men want to be around you? I know a lot of extremely attractive women who are single AF, and it's because they aren't nice people to be around.

JDavid25 · Answer

Same reason why there is a planet full of women and I'm still single.. And that's not without some lack of trying.. It just happens.. Dating sucks nowadays because this is a generation full of narcissism and porn..

UniverseGrasp · Answer

Mainly because you probably didn't yet find the person to connect with on a spiritual level as well, sometimes it takes time you still have a lot of your life ahead so maybe you should not worry?

Not_Average · Answer

You still have some maturity that you need to go through. The stubbornness that you described will never make for a healthy relationship. Modern dating culture is selfish by nature. I honestly do feel bad for the younger generation. It's all about them and all about sex. It's a really frail platform to build something on.

Marhaban-1 · Answer

Don't take it to offence but It could say more about you than the other single men. Or what I do think is more likely is that you a desperate for a relationship and run red lights when it comes to building a foundation to one

Libbers · Answer

You have standards. Lol. I hear ya girl. I have met guys but they End up being dogs or just not a guy I see as a boyfriend. It will happen.

NeverHadASister · Answer

For the same reason that I get horny but don't get laid. If God loves you (He probablh does), then He almost always only gives you what you need, not what you want. We rarely know what's best for us. Have faith and don't be in such a hurry to mess up His plan for your Joy and Good Life. Make a habit of looking back and trying to understand why that was not the right thing for you at that time. It is usually very obvious for me later.

jasco · Answer

Because it has to do with your taste, standards and personality. Of course men also are affected by this as well. So define what your taste are and what type of personality you think you have. As for standards well most people have normal to average standards. ( those being: He must be clean, have a job, Ambitious, has manners, etc..)

Nobodyherebutme · Answer

Well I don't know what's wrong with 18 year old men in your area. You're a beautiful girl and you seem very smart and inquisitive. I can't imagine you're not getting offers. But don't rush it kid. There's nothing wrong with being particular. If you gonna give your heart, body, mind, and soul to anyone, make sure it's the right person.

Youryeodongsaeng · Answer

Because you're not ready. Why focus on men when you literally have a whole life in front of you to do all the crazy shit with your friends?

silvermoon84 · Answer

You’re still young, and the guys your age only want one thing. I didn’t start dating until I was 23, so you have plenty of time 😊

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I was single at 18. Didn’t care till I met the guy who shares the same love/value as myself in college. I keep that standard til this age.

Iron_Man · Answer

Because you’re young yet you haven’t found the right proper man. Boys your age just want to get laid and move on to the next one

Paul09 · Answer

You are 18.. Wtf? You make it sound like you were born in the 50s. It is 2021 keep up. Could it be You are picky? Or untitled to something? I'm myself am somewhat picky. Certain things I want in a woman. You are so young, you need to worry about what you want in life before you go for that "right man".

Omar5881 · Answer

Yeah the planet if full of men but the men isn't full of available men let alone suitable men plus geographic location really controls that I’ve known a lot of people who found love outside their country or place of residence, you just need to put yourself out there more for that one day where you might find someone

Floppy2112 · Answer

I don't think getting men is the problem. It's getting the men you want. And you are very young and I am sure you are turning down offers left and right. The problem isn't the number of men.

serious · Answer

I don't there can be any definitive answer to this.

princeofromance · Answer

Men don't know a good woman when they see one. We often miss out on opportunities in life, because of distractions and negative mind sets. Be patient, Your Prince Charming will come along.

The_Maphio · Answer

Ask that to yourself, not others. If no man wants to be with you for more than one night, YOU might be the issue, not men. Autoanalysis is a necessary skill.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Lol your only 18 barely even an adult. You got plenty of time to find someone, most people don't even find a suitable long term boyfriend or girlfriend that's actually worth something until their 20s anyway.

Ms_Vanderquack · Answer

Because you have standards.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

Do you have a lot of options and can’t quite tell what works for you or is there a shortage of options?

PeterCharie1991 · Answer

Why is the planet full of women and im single, every person whos single can say this, but i hear a lot there's someone out there for everyone but hard answer is who

RickDavis766 · Answer

I don't know. There's billions out there.

Leavesbound · Answer

Probably due to your high standards and the fact that there are slightly more females on the planet then there are males.

umarmir97 · Answer

Because you have either a standerd or you want attention or your picking and choosing the wrong type of guys

tallcuck · Answer

I can help with your problem as i kind of have it too. We can help each other if you don't mind i am double your age :)

DWornock · Answer

Your standards, you choose the date the hottest that will fuck you and reject the less attractive that would marry you. You don't wish to accept the fact that guys date down for sex but they don't marry down.

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

Welcome to the million dollar question, and why gag, exists

spartan55 · Answer

Because you won't ever apologize or admit your mistakes.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably the same reason I am. And also that shit you were talking about before about it being hard to find honest people

DaveToo · Answer

Because some of us men are too fucking old for you!

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

Maybe your standards are too high? You look for the wrong things in a relationship?

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

You're 18. You don't much experience in relationships, especially with men. Give yourself time, don't be a manipulative woman like a big majority of them, and don't be for the streets.

loveboy1504 · Answer

Well only one who is single can understand the situation. And I never knew girls are also worried about being single.

Anonymous · Answer

You’re too beautiful, you still didn’t find someone that deserves you

ManHater · Answer

Did you perhaps consider that it was not a problem with the men but the bitch behind the mirror? You have expressed your issue's on relationships that you simply cannot take them long term because you simply get bored. Really?

WesBrewer · Answer

what you want is different from what you see. or everyone around you is nuts.

humanearth · Answer

Because your young and impatient. Just wait or just walk up to a guy and start talking and see where it goes

Twinrova · Answer

Trick question: it doesn't matter that the world is full of men because you are a lesbian. I'm 30000000 IQ.

exitseven · Answer

The planet is only half full of men. You just have not met the right person yet. You will find somebody but it takes patience and some hard work.

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