Am I destined to be single forever if men only want casual sex?

[Sugar100]

I’m 28 never had a boyfriend. I have attended a family function; never lived with a man, never had a guy hold my hand. Guys I met treat me bad, rude , aggressive, cocky, and just want use me. No one is clingy wants follow me 24/7 , no one plans a fun trip with me, if I meet guys on dating apps they all want only sex and. No girlfriend no date so I’m alone on days off just work , eat sleep. This is my life 4 years now.

im in love for one guy at moment and we work same place. And yes at my job it’s normal date it’s allowed.
but I missed a chance 2 wks ago invite him for a lunch date. I did talk to him 2x past 2 wks but I missed one chance invite him so now work is busy & haven’t seen him.

im depressed & worried if he’ll appear again to get chance invite him.
the last guy I liked was Dec but he had a baby and girlfriend & now if I meet other guys I have no interest. Everyone rejects me. Everyone has a girlfriend. No one is single like me.
I lost sexual desire. I don’t feel joy meet a guy for date.
the one time I had joy was a guy I dated age 18-24 but he used me for sex & I thought he was my boyfriend but I was a friends with benefits to him.

my dream of kissing dating guy I love won’t come true. I’m alone & don’t know what to do. I just feel joy and love for this one guy I work with.

the few guys that have shown interest in me recently already have. girlfriend and trying use me as a girl on side.

I’m short blonde quiet. I’m a wife a family girl not a side hookup girl.

[Cyfris]

If men only want casual sex then yes you are single forever. But luckily that is not what men want. It is what dogs who chase their own tails want. Men are not the problem here you are. Stop living your life for things you don't have and live life for the things you do. Get a hobby you enjoy out in the world where you can meet people you have a shot with and when your out doing that for the fun of doing it and live a life someone will want to be a part of they will see you.

[Sugar100]

I work daily at my job 9-10 hours. I meet guys daily at my job it’s a big school filled with young boys. But like I said I’m in love for one guy. More guys I meet I don’t feel any emotion. I’m praying hoping he appears once more this or next wk so I can invite him for lunch as I missed a huge chance 2 wks ago.

When I go out for fun it never made guys want be my boyfriend. If I go out for fun no one cares. The issue is men not me, guys only want sex and I run away I don’t want sex hookup or friends with benefits I want a boyfriend. No guy want a boyfriend

[Cyfris]

Yeah you clearly don't get it. I wish you good luck though you will certainly need it in your journeys to come.

[Sugar100]

Me going out for fun don’t make men want be my girlfriend. I never searched for. A boyfriend 30 years of my life and no magical perfect husband as appeared.

[Cyfris]

Exactly my point. You are needy and come accross as so because you have nothing in life but your need for a boyfriend. Going out doesn't mean to a bar to try and find it man. It means doing something with your life that will be attractive to other people in places where it can be seen and doing for no other reason than because you enjoy doing it. And when you get your head out of your ass and stop chasing what you don't have and focus your life on what you can have that is where you end up with a chance at someone wanting to be a part of your life.

[Sugar100]

I told u my whole life I go out alone it never made a man want be my boyfriend. 30 years I go out alone for fun and it doesn’t attract any guy

[Sugar100]

Married couples or couples that live together , r 24/7 together , go to the dollar store the market together , isn’t that being needy? Y they can’t live alone and go alone to the store and never have a man next to them at store? Isn’t that needy?

[Sugar100]

Going on trips, having a man with u at all the family parryies all year , daily together in the same house, isn’t that clingy needy desperate?

[HollyK21]

Sugar I don't know what you would like this community to say to you anymore. I’ve pretty much said exactly what this man is trying to tell you, we have talked more than once in the past. Yet you refute everything, have a constant rebuttal and just a sheer unwillingness to grasp what’s being said. We don’t have a crystal ball, we can’t tell you what’s going to happen in your future. All we can suggest is to stop being so male centered and focus on your own life. Yet you disagree with this ideology because you’ve been single all your life. It’s just going in circle and circles. If you don’t have a therapist I will once again suggest that route because clearly talking to us just does nothing. Maybe a professional opinion is one that’ll actually have some impact on you.

[Cyfris]

^^^^^^^^^^^ She gets it ^^^^^^^^^

[Abbycado]

What Holly said. You’re beyond help at this point. Sorry.

[AgentG111]

Nope there are men who want a family just go to a church

[CherryLove007]

You are describing GUY's and not MEN huge difference... message me if you want some logical help.

[Nikki1989]

You are talking about immature boys, not real men.

[Cubus]

I didn't hear from you in a long time. How are you?

[Anonymous]

Not all men are like that.