A go or a dealbreaker?


I don’t have an opinion.
Wearing a wig is very cultural. What many white males do not know is the struggle of black women’s hair. Their hair absorbs so much moisture that the hair weakens when it isn’t wrapped every night with a wrap made of something like silk.
Also it takes most of the damn day for black women to fully wash their hair and A LOT of shampoo and conditioner. It’s also a major struggle to find a hair stylist that will do their hair correctly.
I’d also like to point out that rain ☔️ is a real struggle with black women’s hair too because it goes all over the place from even just a little moister added.
The work around all of those struggles is to just simply wear a wig. Yeah white males will find it unattractive because it’s their ignorance to understand what the wig is actually there for and don’t have a single clue what having black women’s hair is really like.
I could go on and on about this but back to the question 😆 I don’t really have an opinion about it. It’a definitely not a game changer. I’d like to pay more attention to how the person who is wearing the wig actually takes care of themselves because I’ve seen some GORGEOUS women on TV that wear wigs. Yeah I can spot that shit. Sometimes it’s not as easy as others. ✌🏻
To be honest with you I'm not surprised that mostly 🎉guys🎉 think that this is not attractive which they are stupid for. I don't care what people do with their life or do with hair as long as they're happy with it. I really don't care, I'm keeping it 100% honestly with you. I never wore wigs in my life always stay natural always have braids in, but I never found it ghetto or "trying to be something that you're not".
you should want to express yourself through ways like hairstyles and clothing styles and fuck it just have long nails if you want to personally I don't like long nails (went a little bit off topic but) do what you want.💖💓💘💝
A lot of people will say some dumb and rude stuff but that's just how life is. you do what you want to do cuz at the end of the day. you shouldn't want to do it because of people's opinions or their🍭💓💘 reasoning for you not to and because people just aren't 😒happy with their lives.(I guess) if that's how they think but just do you girl and specially if you look good in it.
Do what make you happy, cuz people's opinions are trash ✨ONLY you're OPINION MATTER✨. if I hurt your feelings I hurt your feelings and if I don't , I don't that's just how I feel and I'll be 100% honest with you all the time I'm very blunt I don't really care about people's feelings sometimes because they do a lot for no reason and I said what I said do you keep wearing wigs you look popping (if that's you in the picture)💗💝💓💓✨💯🥱
I don't know, does the color match her "merkin" she wears? Does she wear a fuzzy one or a realistic straight haired one to match the drapes?


Disgusting.
Kinda a turn off. Not to say it's always off putting. For sure when i watch a music video to band and the main woman of it wears multiple different wigs through the video cause obviously she didn't dye her hair 5 times in a row. She's still hella attractive, but personally i find real hair so much better. I find the wigs more situational thing like how this woman needed to do it for the video. Or just wants to wear one for cosplay or something else.
There is a reason i have long hair as a man cause i find hair on the head to be an attractive thing about humans. If just a wig it's kinda like eh disappointing to find out it ain't real. Then if i have spend all my time with that person and there just using wigs all the time meh.
If they had a reason for no hair, like they had cancer and ya know lost there hair. Or something else. Totally understandable. But if ya got hair, make use of it i would say.
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Thanks for asking this question. I'm a hair guy, and I love a girl with beautiful hair. Just this week, I said... if I were a girl, I would shave my head and have a whole closet of different wigs. Why not? That would be cool. I would totally date the girl who had a bunch of different wigs. It's automatic variety in how you look. Women change their "look" all the time. It's not all that different from makeup and clothes. I say change it up, and go for different. I love the idea.
I admire girls/women who can pull off that style. I'm happy with my hair but I've been thinking about getting some wigs just to change my looks whenever I feel like it.
As long as you take care of your natural hair and you don't wear wigs simple because you hate it, then I see no problem.
I prefer natural hair to be honest, having everything natural is best asset to have! If you feel like using wigs and other fake extensions, it's up to you and I'll still like you but I'd still prefer being natural if I had a choice.. Of course if you have bad genes, bald patches or which ever issues with your hair then ok that is then another thing... In that case I'd probably wear one too. <3
Wigs are fine, but I don't like them in bed. The sensation of synthetic hair on my face is a huge turn off. Black women seem drawn to wigs. I once asked a black woman what her natural hair looked like and found out that she had what could be described as a buzz-cut; maybe a 1/2 inch (13mm) of actual hair. For me, that's a huge turn on. I like women with super short hair. White girls can't pull it off, but black girls look amazing with short hair.
They aren’t exactly ‘drawn’ to wigs though.
The more I live life, the more I realize that these things shouldn't be demonized as they are. Some people are born much uglier than others or without features that are considered attractive by most. Although I'm more attracted to naturally beautiful girls... and yes... most of the time you can easily tell... I now respect the changes people want to make on their body.
So my answer is, I'm not disgusted by it like I used to be, but I'm not attracted to it either.
It hugely depends on the quality of the wig.
some like extensions are fine, some are simply scary.
My ex had a few, mainly as we used them as part of role play lol.
but I’m happy with them if good quality and stylish.
like any fashion accessory they can bomb and when they do it’s stunning how bad it can be,
Personally I'd rather her not and just be happy with the hair she has. From a guy who's hair started thinning in mid twenties and I just shave it off now to a short stubble length. I see guys using all kinds of options and implants trying to keep it, it's just hair, learn to live with it.
I like wigs, you can be someone else in a few moments.
If I knew how to shop for a wig. I would wear one myself. It just sounds like fun.
Like I like long hair, but my hair is thining out. A wig would be perfect
Would you think of a guy wearing a wig?
Fake hair, fake eyelashes, makeup, pushups, butt-heaving panties, fake boobs, botox...
It's already hard to recognize your partner the morning after in some cases, one extra fake detail would hardly even faze us at this point.
This.
I have no picture- without a wig- for comparison, so I'll give an "ok" for the time being.
It isn't an automatic no-no for me.
As a Massage Therapist, I've worked on two women with alopecia, one who was really fussy about her wig, and another who just flung hers across the massage table for a perfect landing on the counter. On the plus side, doing scalp massages on them was super easy and gave a better result, in my opinion.
Slaying a wig is a TALENT. Especially the lace front ones with the baby hairs and everything. I wish I could. I like them. Change every week a brand new woman.
I love a woman with long hair but as we know there's many reasons as to why wigs would be required. It's dependent on the individual ofcourse. If a wig makes you more confident then rock on but if you can be confident without it then thats also just as attractive
One of my best friends has a huge assortment of them. Most look gorgeous on her and I can see and hear that boost in confidence when she is wearing one. I am all for people living their best life anyway so I see 0 problem with it.
Good question! I believe that if I wanna wear a weave I'm wearing a weave. I'm not into wigs as much as sew ins but they are good too. My hair is mine to do things with. That shouldn't change how my dating life goes lol.
I think they’re okay. They can look nice depending on who installs it. But after a long time of wearing or improper care they can have a weird smell. But overall they can be nice to look at.
No opinion. A lot of wigs look great. If it's applied correctly and suits you. But I've seen a lot of beautiful wigs and have considered wearing them, but likely won't.
Many won’t know it’s a wig unless it’s obvious. Some hair styles are hard to tell whether it’s real or fake so I’m all for the natural look when it comes to wigs. The more natural it looks the better.
I like that there's several options of wigs hahaha. I don't wear one myself, but they do come in handy, and are really good for people who have medical conditions
I thinke wigs are attractive, it’s cool when people can switch it up every once in a while rather than just having the same thing
If you look beautiful and I don't know you wear a wig then it doesn't bother me. If I get to know you and start to establish an emotional connection then it doesn't matter if it's a wig. But please, don't take off the wig and start swinging it around when we're having sex. My penis never went from hard to soft so quickly.
The whole point of a wig is to make the wearer feel more confident. Why would I EVER be against that?
That isn’t the whole point though 😆
@snowboarder720 Ermm.. keeping the head warm in the winter months being another reason? :P
Black women wear wigs because it’s very cultural. Their hair gets very weak when even just a little moisture is added. Even just sleeping on the wrong pillow case can destroy their hair if it’s not wrapped in a non absorbing material such as silk. Also fully braiding their hair takes a long time too.
The work around from all of that is to just simply wear a wig.
@snowboarder720 I don't claim to be an expert in hair, but doesn't the whole braiding thing make the hair brittle?
Not really, that just changes it’s shape.
@snowboarder720 Well then Snowboarder. Thanks. I've learned something today.
I don't care for wigs. I would much rather have a woman with her natural hair than a wig. This is the case with black women way more than anyone else, but other women wear wigs too.
It will depends.. is she having a hair she use wigs will be a adeal breaker. but imagine she got cancer and is regrowing, or in the falling stage, then I will have no problem at all, whether she want or no use one.
If it's a good wig then yes, if it's horrible looking and cheap, cut it out.
Unless there's a medical issue, I don't get the necessity of wearing one, but apart from that it's fine if a girl likes to wear one
It’s entirely convenient to wear wigs when you live with the struggle of having the hair of a black woman.
D: I think it's okay. I'd rather take a pretty looking wig than ugly/nappy natural hair on a woman.
Short or natural is better than fake long hair. You either acclimatize to the real person or fantasize with plastic.
I think she looks good if you would have said anything I would have known it was a w i g
When it's properly done it looks really nice. My advice is always if you want to do it at least do it right even if that means spending a bit more.
I find wigs no different than stuffing toilet paper in your bra to make your breasts look bigger.
The same can be said about men who lie about their size and take pills to last longer. 😆
@snowboarder720 No.
To each their own. I wouldn't date a girl with wigs personally.
I personally wouldn’t wear it but it’s cool I guess
For me honestly speaking I think it would be a deal breaker unless it was for medical reasons
There's nothing wrong with it at all. I want to get a wig for myself, they're beautiul and you can look dress youself up with different wigs.
I've never really thought about it but I don't see any harm in it
I think they look lovely if they look natural. Go for it!
Not as an everyday thing... NO !! Deal breaker unless there's a medical reason for it.
Educate yourself with the reasons why women wear wigs.
@snowboarder720 Why? I don't care why a woman wears a wig or IF a woman wears a wig, as long as my woman doesn't wear one. As I said, the exceptions would be medical conditions, or some unusual hair condition.
If its not socially acceptable for men it shouldn't be for women. Society is disgusting.
I will not date a hairhat.
Unless she is a cancer survivor or someone who actually needs a wig.
Black women need to embrace their natural hair.
You have NO CLUE the struggles that black women go through for their hair, buddy. 🤣
Sure I do. How the hell does telling black women to embrace their hair say that I don’t think it’s a struggle?
A weave is a struggle, a wig and a cap is a struggle.
The fact that your you’re calling out a weave, wig, and a cap for your first example really shows your very little understanding of the struggle of black women’s hair. Let alone you said they “need to embrace their natural hair”. 🤣
Do you even know what you are trying to say?
You suggested I had no idea a out their struggle... I do.
Oils and tangles and all the work required is a struggle...
but so is a weave and the other bullshit of fake hair. So if they are going to struggle. Then they might as well just struggle with their own hair.
Pathetic Shaming tactics don’t work bud. I remove them. If you have to resort to shaming tactics... you just lost.
Just embrace your hair as it is. That simple.
I see nothing wrong with females wearing wigs, IF she has a valid reason for needing to wear one. (medical reasons, scalp problems... etc.)
Hats off to women who are putting effort in to looking good or their best and shell out money for such stuff.
Thanks for like!
I’m clueless when it comes to wigs if I can’t tell then I guess I don’t have a opinion the picture looks all real to me
I didn't know it was a thing until I found out about it recently. It was quite shocking lol.
Sisters, please go natural, or more and more of us will switch over to latinas and Asians.
If they can rock it, it will rock me. Otherwise, why would you bother to wear a wig?
That’s only in the bedroom not in real life for work
It looks good till i realize its not what they look like. I'm sorry black women look the worst because they change into a completely different person.
I know that isn’t your true reason or else you wouldn’t date women who wear makeup.
As long as she has hair underneath the wig and as long as her wig does not come off when she is being pounded and her hair pulled, then no issues
Wigs can have their place and if they significantly improve her appearance then it would be good for both of us
If she looks like the girl in the pic then I am all for it. She is hot
Whatever makes a woman feel beautiful inside do it.
Not attractive if its all the time but it can be fun if its a once in a while thing.
1/ on the pourcentage of vote , I see only women find it attractiv.
2/ Only black who want to look like white women wear wigs Or women with a cancer.
I would have never guessed that’s a wig. 😱
id be so disappointed when I found out 😳
Once you know it’s a wig, it’s not attractive at all.
I'm not a fan at all.. Even if it looks real.. 😅
I don't really think much of it.
I think wigs looke great especially on black women
I don't admire them tbh.
Good for her I see nothing wrong with it
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