Its been 4 dates and he hasn't made a move?

[SammieUnicorn369]

Hi, so I meet a guy online (bumble). We have been on 4 really good dates. We laugh a lot, tend to split the cost, and the planning of them. We text almost everyday and we have good conversations. I know a lot about him and he knows a lot about me.

He hasn't made a move tho. Today for the first time he held my hand a little bit & kinda touch my face because my eyeliner was running (ahhhh!! it was hot lol) but that was about it.

Is this a relationship worth pursuing? I generally get hit on way more in the first few dates. How long did it take you to make a move on your SO?

[loveslongnails]

And women wonder why guys feel like " I can't win!" LOL
If they go too fast, no good. Too slow - also no good.
Maybe this guy has a lot of respect for you and is taking his time. OR, maybe he's not a very physically affectionate person at all, or maybe not until he's more comfortable with the girl.

If you're worry is that he's not "affectionate enough for you", and therefore won't be sexual enough for you, then that's a legit concern. You might want to figure out a way to approach that over your next couple of dates, if he doesn't step it up.

[Gabboo]

exactly

[TommyMountainFigure]

You laugh a lot, have good conversations, text every day and know a great deal about each other. That to me sounds like the basis of something very special. So what if things are moving slowly?
How long it took me to make a move doesn't really help backup my answer, because I said as soon as I saw her. "My god you are gorgeous" and we ended up in bed about an hour later.

[Gabboo]

your honesty is the best lmfao

[Gabboo]

you seem REALLY impatient.. maybe he wants to take it slow and get to know you better..4 dates and you ask this? That's sad

[Jersey2]

Maybe he doesn’t see you as a whore. You should let him know you are.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Why not make a move yourself?

[SammieUnicorn369]

I did-ish. Thats why we were holding hands. But I didn't wanna see too easy. I wasn't after sex right away, but to see if there was a connection like that.

[Iron_Man]

He wants to respect you not think about sex

[Gabboo]

this 👌

[Iron_Man]

Thanks

[In_Trance]

Dump him