My boyfriend hasn’t unfollowed his ex fling?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months now. He still follows his ex fling on social media and views all her social stories? He claims that there’s nothing there on his part and he’s moved on. I mentioned him unfollowing her, and he never took it serious. He did take her virginity while they were dating. I’m wondering if I’m over thinking or if I should bring this up again. He never misses a story she posts… don’t ask me how I know.

The males in my family tell me that I’m ogling to run him off with this but I think it’s a respect thing? I need some advice?

[SteveSmith1985]

I agree with you 100%. It's a respect thing. You are not asking for anything unreasonable. It's not something he rightly has the option to not take seriously.

You should absolutely bring it up again. Talk to him about it until he understands. It should have already happened the first time you brought it up.

There is a really simple test: If you were following every story of some guy you used to fuck, would he treat that seriously? Exactly.

That's my advice. I feel strongly that its good advice for your situation. Good luck

🙂

[Anonymous]

You will scare him off. You have very smart family members for pointing this fact out to you. You cannot expect him to just pickup and unfollow her simply because it makes you uncomfortable. You need to grow up and understand that he is with you at this point. Him following his ex is nothing more than a man thing. It is harmless and means nothing.

[PeachyPie93]

Nah keeping an eye on someone from your past who you used to bang is an issue..

[Opinion Owner]

@PeachyPie93, you making an issue about nothing just goes to show me how insecure of a person you truly are. He has done no wrong, yet you are trying to put an unnecessary guilt trip on him because you know she looks better than you. Grow up and stop trying to control his life.

[PeachyPie93]

If she looks better than his current girlfriend and he fucked her and he is following every move she makes (obviously lusting after her).. How is that doing no wrong? Every guy and girl who do bad things in relationships will tell you that you are the insecure one but why would I continue dating someone who isn't on my side? That sounds more like an enemy than a lover lol She honestly should dump him and not make an issue of it since he isn't on her side anyways.. Trash should be put in the trash bin where it belongs.

[Opinion Owner]

@PeachyPie93 You are the one making an issue out of nothing. He has every right in the world to follow and be friends with her both in real life and on social media. You do not control him and his actions. You are nothing more than a jealous controlling witch.

[PeachyPie93]

Go on his phone and block her yourself lol He probably won't notice.. if he does then that is your answer, he still holds something for her.