Oh Hell no... Babygirl he ain't done playing. Show him your a strong woman and that you don't need him. Trust me if you say... you know what I told you to unfollow her... You won't do it I don't care what your opinion is about what I'm about to do but I'm leaving you. Your not done playing yet... And I am so go ahead play your little games I'm a grown woman and I am NOT gonna chase you your the man that's your job... Your supposed to pursue me. I'm looking for someone who only ONLY has eyes for me and you don't have what I need. Leave him alone don't talk to him at all if he sees you LOOK HOT all the time... Go on a date post a selfie hang out with your girls show him you can be happy without him... He isn't responsible for your happiness... Trust me you'll put him on his knees
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I've always had a problem with this liking pictures business. Some girls don't care. I heavily do and it's the reason I broke up with my ex. I still love him, but he likes loads of girls pictures in bikinis including that of an ex (they were only together a month and nothing happened) still makes me uncomfortable tho.
Do you follow any of your ex's on Instagram or Facebook? If you do, then you are being a little unreasonable by asking hm to do something you aren't willing to do. If you don't follow any of your ex's, then your request seems fair to me. Ask him if there is a reason he's not taking you seriously.
I think no one in a relationship should tell who the other should follow or not or have as friends. That being said. Ask someone about to choose as something like that it seems more like your own problem. Because even if he accept and make it done... things will go wrong eventually.
My advice... You can't controll his life. But you can't say what actitudes (like watching her profile) you are unwilling to accept in a relationship. And if he accepts them or not.
Anyway... might hurt.. but i think that kindda actitude shows he still feels something about her ex
You can't control someone. You should know this by now. Nothing you say will make him do anything. there's a saying I live by. "A man doesn't change because a woman asked him to, A man changes because he loves that woman." It's that simple. Walk away if you don't like what he's doing and he will regret not unfollowing her.
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Break up with him. He was given an ultimatum unfollow his ex or have a relationship with you. He has not fufilled his part this means HE VALUES FOLLOWING HIS EX more than YOUR RELATIONSHIP. People who care about something don't abuse it.
If he insist to follow ex instagram let him... but just ask him to post ur selfie pic with him.. so at least his ex know he taken and happy with you now...
You're not being unreasonable. I would have several fits if my boyfriend did that. You already told him you don't like it, and he hasn't respected your wishes. He wouldn't like it if you were liking your exes pics right?
don't worry.. before you she was with him... and now you are... but she is a friend... right... and he would like to keep up with her... nothing else is going on...
I think you should just move on. It's not a healthy relationship.
Its possible that he still likes her. He was cheated on so he wasn't the one who ended the relationship. I understand why you´re upset, but dont end the relationship just bc he is following his ex bc I could be wrong
Yeah he probably still likes her or has some feelings for her. I don't think you should break up over this. You should have a serious talk with him about this and then decide what to do next.
omg this is so serious
He likes her. Brace yourself.
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