My boyfriends ex won’t leave him alone, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I got into a fight with his ex. He blocked her and he blocked her from my phone after the fight. Some reason my boyfriend unblocked her and she’s still texting his phone and won’t leave him alone. He’s not responding to the messages and ignoring her yet she keeps texting him.

[Anonymous]

I’ve been there. He needs to either set a strict boundary with her, tell her to leave you guys alone and that he wants nothing to do with her or if that doesn’t work, he needs to go cold turkey and she’ll eventually get tired (hopefully). But you gotta be sure that he’s not secretly responding to her, why did he unblock her? Maybe just have him delete her number and block her completely

[Asker]

He does respond to her. He unblocked her first after the fight and texted her first a few times but she keeps texting him and he’s just ignoring her. He’s showed me she’s been texting him but I don’t see why he didn’t just keep her block and kept it that way.

[Asker]

He’s already told her he wants nothing to do with her months ago yet he keeps unblocking her and talking to her.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh hmm, my boyfriend did the same thing. Came to find out that they had unfinished business (my boyfriend and his ex). Have you asked your boyfriend if there’s anything that he and his ex needs to discuss? He needs to cut all ties with her if he wants your relationship to work

It’s a bit off that he keeps on unblocking her, maybe there’s a reasonable reason behind it but the fact that he’s still not closing the door on her is what’s making her come back again and again…

[slatyb]

You do nothing. It's his problem.

[jahaims]

You need to move on