Would you date a very jealous girl?

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boombastik · Accepted Answer

Oh HELL NO! I've dated one for 4 years when I was 17-21 and I'll never do it again. This was back in the times of pay phones and if she let me work (because she had money and payed our way) I would have to call her on my lunch break and talk the whole time whether it was 100 degrees or 30 degrees, pouring down rain or snowing, she didn't care. If I didn't she would accuse me of cheating. If I came home 5-10 mins later than normal, she would freak out. It during matter if I came home with her favorite ice cream or if the reason I was late was because I stopped to pick her up some flowers. There was no escaping the wrath. Really, I mean, you can't even stop and pick up a hitchhiker and get a blowjob in by mins (should you ever be lucky enough to find a woman hitchhiking, much less her be cute and wanna give you a blowijob. I think the odds are a billion to one lol.
This doesn't include when we was together. Heaven forbid I happen to look away from her and there be a girl in that direction, all hell would break loose and she wouldn't even talk to me for hours. I had the best time of my life with her but also the worst time. I could never go through that torture though for no one on this planet. She rurnt me.

Kaneki05 · Accepted Answer

I dunno, How vary are we talking about here. The type that don't let you have female friends i don't think i would be down for a girl like that. I love yandere's and all but there will be a time a co-worker or at collage there could be a girl then we are friendly to each other. Or how about my bestfriend been a girl?

Because realistically these things happen and ain't nobody want to be nagged all the time for just normal stuff like this.
Even if jealously is kinda hot and reasonable thing to have. It's just fine lines when it comes to it just been an annoying trait or a good one.

catrchy · Accepted Answer

It depends.

I was reading an article and it said: "It's okay to be jealous, jealously comes from concern amd concern comes from worry" and I agree, but this jealously thing has a limit. You don't get jealous of every friggin' person that comes into contact with me, that means you have low self esteem and that is a you problem you should solve because me not taking to my friends won't solve it.
Well... There are girls who are jealous even if they aren't in a relationship with that person. "Don't you dare to hug Erik, I like him and you aren't allowed to hug him" bruh- you don't just say that- EVEN if you are in a relationship with someone, you don't own them, they are their own person and can do whatever they want.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

Jealousy Can turn unhealthy and destroy a relationship. My first husband went from jealous, to very controlling because of his jealousy, to physically abusive...

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I married a very jealous girl. It was a constant aggravation being accused of things that I never did.

tuvwxyz · Answer

No, because, and there's no way around this. It means she's not content in herself, meaning she is emotionally dependent on her partner; not that she doesn't still care, but is using him, at least partially, as a tool to satisfy her own emotional needs. Unless a woman can be autonomously happy with herself, in my experience, she, or anyone else, still has work to do, and, in my opinion, shouldn't be in a relationship yet (although many want it for the novelty of experience), but wait until they have mastered the fundamentals (much like a beginning musician; music theory, etc.) to maximize ability to actually execute optimally in real-world situations.

Sorry if that sounds mechanical (removes the "Disney fantasy" emotional idealization), but I like things that work, and are effective, and give the best experience to everyone.

Miristheiss · Answer

Sure, I would have.
If it got too out of control I'd have to end things but I can deal easily with some jealousy.
Plus I'm not the type that usually led to a lot of jealousy. I wasn't the type to go out to clubs without my girl and spend the night out meeting women and being at bars and when I was in relationships I wasn't talking to endless girls and always flirting with other people and doing that kind of stuff.

NathanDavis · Answer

I would really not, one of my ex-girlfriends was somewhat jealous at the very first of the relationship, even thought she didn't act that crazy, and that eventually we talked it out and she got over it and that jealousy didn't come back... what I remember about was very unhealthy for both.

So I don't even want to imagine how would it be, to be with someone that is VERY jealous, to an extreme, just no.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

Probably, if that was her main 'flaw'. I don't believe in spending of lot of time privately with people of the opposite gender if you are in a relationship. I wouldn't want her to spend time alone with guy friends. That can only lead to trouble. If it's reasonable that's normal.

NyceGuyFinishingLast · Answer

Not even if she was the only female in this galaxy. Nothing is worse than a jealous girlfriend. I would rather have super sharp bamboo chutes shoved under my fingernails then set on fire rather than date a jealous girl.

MTC29 · Answer

BTDT. Every woman I knew or came into contact with was suspect. I was even accused of having a passionate love affair with a female colleague. That colleague is a lesbian! That was enough for me to run like hell.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

People who possesively protect their claim on a mate are the only ones I find attractive, so yes, definitely. Granted they also need to be x number of other things, but its one of the desired traits.

invalid1 · Answer

I would literally date any girl with a pussy.
I'll cut you loose for ones ya'all with the "would you date..." question.
Any human female is acceptable. Unless she is either not a female, or not a human. Easy? I guess so.

The_Maphio · Answer

I already have my share of BS to deal with during the day. Having to shoulder an overconcerned woman's as well is not within my priorities.

jshm2 · Answer

Depends on her qualities.  She can be hard work, of course, but are her assets and charm, ample compensation?

worldscolide · Answer

Been there, done that, wrote the book and made the movie.. When i broke up with her because of her behavior she chose to slice my face up for the favor.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Since I have a lot of woman friends, dating a very jealous woman probably wouldn't work out for me.

serious · Answer

I never wish to date in my life so it doesn't matter and is not applicable

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I have done so. Dating a girl like that is never boring.

Wiredone · Answer

No I wouldn't. I'm sure she would be questioning everything I do. I dated a jealous girl in high school. It didn't last long. She didn't want me to talk to any other girls.

Avicenna · Answer

Hell no. I did that once and it was a nightmare. Turned out she had Borderline Personality Disorder.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, but if the jealousy thing got out of hand I would dump her.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Been there, done that, never again. Jealousy stems from a deep lack of self confidence. This jealousy quickly turns to anger and abuse.  Never again.

Somoneelse · Answer

Nope. it will only cause trouble with every step you take.

Philyouup · Answer

Do you want to have a miserable life? date somebody that is jealous. you learn to hate someone pretty damned quick!

Dchrls78104 · Answer

No. I am already in the middle of a lockdown in my country on account of one scourge and I don't need another one.

EaterPeter · Answer

Jealousy is one thing. Very jealous is another. What if she can't help it though. Only if she gets the help she deserves.

Archerer · Answer

Female friends are pretty important to me, I just tend to get along with women better.

Synikal · Answer

God no. Not ever again. It was the most miserable experience ever. I got attitude for things that were completely out of my control.

kevyhanma · Answer

That’s annoying as hell because I have been with a girl like that and i have a lot of female friends and cousins

Pogi-Paddy-2 · Answer

Absolutely no desire to be with anyone who is jealous because this shows insecurity

oper8erx · Answer

I am into it. I wish every girl I dated was that passionate and into me.

Violetsunshine6 · Answer

jealousy to some extent is healthy

BakedBeanieBabie · Answer

Noooo bitches be crazy.

Siren777 · Answer

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fonduegirl · Answer

I'd be worried if my partner is NOT jealous.

MCheetah · Answer

No, I wouldn't. They crazy!

johnsmithjs · Answer

NO FUCKING WAY! That is just way to much drama.

Ironic_Method · Answer

Probably. Depends on how masochistic she is.

Anonymous · Answer

I would as I'm a very jealous boy! =D

Wise4myage · Answer

No, too much drama for my liking.

msc545 · Answer

Too much trouble to bother.

zagor · Answer

Not if she was psycho about it.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes, I would! No problem whatsoever.

warrenstone · Answer

Nah. Too stressful and no freedom

Iron_Man · Answer

No that wouldn’t work

Anonymous · Answer

I would because it's entertaining to me.

anylolone · Answer

I don't even sleep with them if I can avoid it.

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

Jealous, yes Very jealous (suspicious type) NO

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

So a Yandere? I don’t think so

Romeocuck · Answer

I would. It means she really cares about me

CuriousBoy2 · Answer

If she is beautiful, I mean sexy, sure why not?

jimmy2 · Answer

No Jealousy is a cancer

RickVienna · Answer

You don't know if you date her normal.

Anonymous · Answer

hell yeah that'd be very fucking hot

sensible27 · Answer

Marked.

sp33d · Answer

Good lord, no..

Shihab91 · Answer

Very no little yes

Iamcoming · Answer

I can't try

krin_m · Answer

Nope!

abhi75757 · Answer

Yes i lov3 it

alienfrommars89 · Answer

Probably not

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