Is it normal that my girlfriend (18F) never asks me (18M) to hang out or doing anything?

[reureubao]

I and my girlfriend have been dating for the past 4 months and was just curious if it normal for me to always make the plans and ask her to do stuff. For the past 4 months not once has she asked me if I wanted to come over or do something. I have brought it up once before and told her it makes me feel "meh" but it's whatever. Not angry or anything just curious about what other people think. Cause I have been told it's not a good thing according to friends but just wanted a different perspective. Thank you.

[Browneye57]

She enjoys your beta-cuck worship of her. This is on YOU. A perfect example of how not to kiss a woman's ass.
So, how's the sex? Does she fuck like a minx? Rock your world?
Cuz if not, dump her azz. If she does, then STFU and enjoy the pussy while you can, cuz it don't last forever. I guarantee it.

[Anonymous]

It’s not unusual for the man to take the lead in a relationship but it’s odd that she never invites you over or out anywhere. There’s usually a certain amount of give and take. Either she’s content to let you plan everything or she’s just not that into you. I would find out before investing more time into the relationship.

[ilikefrogsalot]

I find that very odd. Whenever I'm in a relationship, I want hang out with my partner as much as possible (with healthy boundaries, of course). Unfortunately, it sounds like she's not interested in you at all.

[TheFlak38]

Yes it's normal. You're the thirsty desperate guy. She is the entitled little princess with her millions of options. She doesn't care about you. For her you're like a circus animal jumping through her hoops.

[Wiredone]

It sounds like she is the submissive type and she wants you to be dominant and make all the plans. It's very normal in that situation

[Archerer]

A lot of women like to have life happen to them rather than make it happen themselves, something I dislike, but seems to be true.

[Anonymous]

That’s just women, dude.
You shouldn’t be expecting them to take initiative or amount to anything in that respect.

[Anonymous]

I would start seeing other girls without saying anything to your "girl friend". I wouldn't doubt that she is alrerady donig that to you

[Anonymous]

Maybe she is very submissive? I think it is not normal

[Anonymous]

Next time pull her from her hair and tell her what's on your mind that's the only way they would understand.

[moviedude714]

She's not contributing much so I would leave her

[jahaims]

No it's not normal to not spend time with your s/o

[DaviRon]

Yes it's normal. You are young

[KingGollum]

Maybe you two should talk

[jimmy2]

Lol well talk to her about it