So let me ask you this what did you do are you still with him the reason people cheat is because they disregard any any feelings you have towards them they don't care about you that's number one they might like you they might say they love you that they don't care if they did they would not do what they do they want to get what they want let's see how long they can keep doing it for. all along knowing every time they see you whatever comes out of their mouth is nothing but a lie and they think they're smarter than you because they're thinking they're getting away with it and then when they get caught it's one excuse after the other because they don't want to look like the bad guy I say fuck them they knew what they were doing from the moment they started doing it I hope you didn't give the guy another chance if that's you and your picture you can get any guy you want find a guy if that's you for the girl you are on the inside first not your beauty on the outside they have to know who you are on the inside I see how beautiful you are on the inside before they can actually fall in love before it's a real true love mean if they just fall in love with you from the outside it's never going to work they have to know you from the inside same with you vice a versa you have do you know who the person is on the inside first before anything else the outside is just a bonus
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Ok look. He shoulda been upfront about it if you were serious. at least say he would date others until you were close. But it’s pretty fucked up to expect someone to avoid all physical contact from the opposite sex because you live so far. That’s not fair for him. Besides this. If you didn’t meet in person your not really dating that’s a fact. You arnt dating until your embraced and understand what your involved with. Your emotional connection isn’t enough.
Sorry you had to deal with it this way. Stick closer to home. Find a good man and settle for a good man. Make a happy life with someone you can hold. Don’t make big decisions for someone you haven’t held before.
Im really deeply sorry for this heartbreak you are going through and what not. Being cheated on is one of the worst feelings and it leaves you feeling terrible toward yourself and many other things. I still can't fully comprehend or understand why myself even at 22 years old but i believe they do it because of immaturity, selfishness, thinking with whats between their legs, and boredom. Instead of communicating or just being honest people wanna take the easy way out and cheat which is fucken stupid and cowardly. The other problem is in this generation people are treating people like an option with social media and everything like omg it gives me a migraine, it's toxic. I like to believe there's loyal people out there but im losing hope myself.
Imagine if your ex never had any better options and only you were there then he would have FORCED you to stay and would have stalked you for a year to win you back.
My ex was also an Aquarius but he was UGLY, LOSER AND OPTIONS DEPRIVED. That's why he bothered me for 1 year. Guys like your and my ex are biggest pieces of scums who wanna use people for their own benefits.
Never date Aquarius bastards, they're the biggest liars and will cleverly deceive you until they get what they NEED FROM YOU.
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Not all men cheat I believe that we have to deal with shitty people until we find the one. For me all the guys before my current boyfriend have been talking to other girls and stuff but after trying a lot I found the one. I’m
Sorry that this happend to you you’re a great girl next time you see the same red flags in your next relationship run. by the way That guy was a douchebag and from what I could tell you’re so much prettier than him it’s always the ugly guys that cheat on pretty girlsIt is not just guys that chest. But I don't know why they do. I was in the hospital for almost a month. I met a guy in there that had a similar surgery. He was about 30 and I was 19.
His wife used to come in to visit him. She was very pretty and also very nice. She used to bring her husband nips of Canadian Club whiskey. after a while she brought some for me as well. We used to get the nurses to bring us ginger ale.
One day this guy told me his girlfriend was coming to visit him. I figured if his wife was so pretty that his girlfriend must be off the chart. It turns out she was nowhere near as pretty as the wife and she was kind of a pain in the butt I thought.
IU just did not understand the attraction. Maybe the excitement of doing something wrong behind his wife;s back.Men cheat because of women and women cheat because of men.
Don't get a chip on your shoulder just because he laid up with a girl that's not you. The both of you had an experience and it's said and done. You just gotta move on to the next. This is nothing new to the world of relationships. Enough with the talking, delete the photos and move on.
You're very young. You still have a lot to learn about the world. I'm sure you're receiving sympathy for it, but you need to take the positive from this negative and understand the lesson. You don't need sympathy at all for thatWell it's not just men that cheat women do it just as often. The reason someone cheats is very simple, they are missing something from their relationship. Now what they are missing and why they are willing to cheat for it is more complicated and varies from person to person. Only he can say why he did it. Have you asked him?
Starting by the fact that "one month relationship" is NOT a relationship but just the beginning of the getting to know each other phase, he probably went looking for another girl since you didn't satisfy his needs or some aspects of you weren't of his liking. He's been an ass for not telling you, but he'd have left you anyway in due time, if he "cheated" within the first month.
Either sex can cheat, for many reasons.
My girl cheated on me with two different guys so girls can do it too.
Your guy was a jerk and immature.
Yes, long distance relationships are tough, but doable if both parties are committed.
You are a pretty girl and should have no trouble finding a better replacement boyfriend.
Good luck and sorry for your trouble. Have faith.people cheat for very different reasons. most times it's a lack of self controll followed by genuine remorse. either way: wasting time thinking about that isn't helpful just move on. try to learn what you can and apply that for the next guy you meeting. the challenge is not to develop trust issues.
Get a Nice guy that doesn't have a lot if relationships , one that's not in your league ,( not as hot as you) earn his loyalty and trust by not letting your lust for other guys ever come between you guys watch him become the most attentive loving caring , faithful, thoughtful partner you will ever want. We all get ugly when we old , it comes fast , get someone that appreciate you , any average guy would love a beauty like you to call their lady , and would do a lot for her to make her want to stay as well , but just make sure it's a truly respectful and has only good intentions , as guys like that can become attached easily as well so make sure u get one that you don't mind him being really find if you. But if you go for the football captains and quarterbacks and the "brads " you will be treated like that more likely.. a year is nothing , I am older i understand so that's a bit different , but I wait longer than that for the one i still love , and she's never coming back..
Either testing or scared that you are the one who can hurt the most, so avoid to let you do it, but this doesn't mean that the person doesn't love you. If the person know you are the same about him or her she would rather be with you than anyone else. We all want that someone we don't want to lose, but we do use a shell to prevent affecting us, even if it means doing contrary. The thing is communication about it to avoid it.
Women cheat more than men, and they can afford to. Most women can whip out a dating app and find their new boyfriend in a matter of minutes! Crazy right?
Meanwhile men don't have the amount of options that your average women has. Unless he's rich, or of high status, he'll struggle more. Men are disposable in today's age, just whip out your phone and swipe, you'll find another one soon:) hahaCan I just clarify, did you actually meet in person at any point or anything? Like I hate cheating scum, and its one of the worst things someone can do but I feel if this was just an online relationship is it even that serious?
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Women cheat too.
At any rate, PEOPLE cheat because they're either narcissists or because they have weak wills, moral compasses, and constitutions. To get away with it
The only reason people do bad things..
is to see what they can get away with, and what they can't
Trump does it ALL THE TIME, and republicuck senators, protected him. Because they're exactly that, CUCKS PEOPLE WHO LOVE TO SEE PEOPLE GET SCREWEDDamn girl, you be begging on this cheater lol 😂.
You thought you were coy but mmm mmm he ain’t having it lol.
Him and kaitylan deserve each other 👩❤️👨He doesn't care about u, get new bigger dick. He’s got the small dick energy
Not all of us are. There is another way of looking at this. What if you are just not that great at picking boyfriends?
It's not just guys that cheat. Women cheat as well. It's hookup culture and not many seem to care nowadays. People who cheat have low EI.
I cannot speak for every cheater, but everyone is different. I cheated mainly because I was neglected, not being attentive, and I was mostly home alone.
Men cheat for the same reasons women cheat.. And women do it just as much if not more. Next time try not to paint 50% of the population with the same brush. Not all men cheat, and not all women cheat. You chose a bad one, next time choose better.
I don't cheat but I have been cheated on , so I know you feel. People that don't cheat end up with those who do.
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