I’ve noticed that people who seem to have a “perfect” relationship always cheat. Often times it is the man who has a great wife and life that cheats with someone of less value. Why?
Genetics dictate that human should cheat as much as possible to increase their genetic variations and number of offsprings. This will reduce the probability of catastrophic events killing all of their gene pool.
Sort of like continuation of bloodlines. Supposed that a husband cheat and impregnate his mistress. Then his whole family is killed in a plane accident. The mistress will still survive and bring his child into adulthood and continue his bloodline. Of course you will invest more and effort on your main offsprings but if you can afford it then you will also invest resources into your backups.
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@oddwaffle Haha the term “backups” has such a dehumanizing connotation. But that is an interesting concept.
The dude keeps up that apperiance. They don't have a perfect relationship they never take the relationship seriously therefore never have difficulty descussions or their differience in opinion. He's living a miserable life because he built a relationship built on superficial lies and indulges in cheap thrills instead of facing the music. He's a coward basically.
They want their cake and ice cream and to eat it. They are overall selfish because they probably only desire and posses few qualities of their girlfriend or wife but need more satisfaction to whats missing and that's what leads to cheating. It's sad people can't just be honest. I've been cheated on many times and it's so terrible. Nobody appreciates loyalty these days.
Anyone who cheats thinks the grass is always greener. What looks like a perfect relationship from the outside usually isn't - and they want to try something else without losing what they have already just in case. Or it is and they just want more.
I'm not condoning it. Nor do I believe it is only men who cheat.
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Yeah, you’ve summarized it pretty well! Thanks for the response.
Many people like to present themselves as perfect to the world when they or their relationships are actually completely fucked up.
I’ve known these couples. They’re on social media posting pictures all loved up, posting quotes and shit like that, praising their partners. Behind closed doors they’re at each other’s throats constantly, doing shady shit behind each other’s backs, shit talking each other.
you're welcome! glad to give. Personally cheating is not in my makeup, i am like one of those dogs that the owner could abuse and treat like garbage and i would still be loyal.. Thank god my wife does not take advantage of that.
guys are not complicated, we cheat because we are not mentally equipped to be faithful, I am older now... I could probably be faithful, my hormones are no longer making me crazy
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@Waldoe that’s a lousy excuse, you can not just do shit you please and blame it on the hardwiring of your brain. We all have hormones- control em.
because they don't feel the love from the partner... they look somewhere else... I have never cheated in my life.. I have and she messed up my mind for like 5 years...
Have you seen many cases of a single father. I doubt so. The woman/mother is always the one to stick around for the sake of the kids- while the man has a mistress. Maybe I’m generalizing but that’s how I see it.
Cause woman always go for players ( men that look good, have a lot of sexual partners, good at flirting ) cause they are seen as manlier, the same way men prefer virgin women cause they seem more feminine
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