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Be honest with me, what is the real reason why you're still single right now? (Page 2)
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It is a combination of 3 things for me. First, both of my relationships (especially the first one) damaged me so much that it is hard for me to trust women. Second, all these feminazis running around and women falsely accusing men of crap combined with this new liberal trend in America makes it extremely risky to deal with women in general. Finally, I am still getting my life together and do not have the time or money for a relationship right now.
My ex-boyfriend kind of evaporated my will to be in a relationship.
And the thought of having to deal with someone in a relationship, I really don't want that.
Whenever I hear about women being with men that don't clean up after themselves, selfish in bed, don't care about each other, or cheat one another... I legit feel like I'd rather be by myself.
My happiness is not bound by whether or not I'm with someone.
Hey. If you want to be loved by someone you need to love yourself and you beed to be confident, believe in yourself. I think confident people are the most attractive of them all, but not in an exaggerated way you know.
Shyness isn't gonna do you much, I was never a shy person, but I had shy friends that lost a lot of opportunities for being shy and insecure.
The reason I am single is because I don't fall in love that easily and when I do, they are fucking straight and I cry and get jealous and mad and I start hating myself.
Well, the real reason is, whenever I like smn, I don't try anything w that person, except just friendship. Before, I even used to act like I hate that girl, so no one finds out I had a crush on her. And when smn likes me, I either don't notice that at all, or I do, but too late, cuz I've already friendzoned that smn :D
uh.. The fully honest reason? I don't do much with anyone IRL. I'm always just in my own room doing things with online people, playing games blablabla. I tell myself that the reason that I'm single is because I'm still not fully over a relationship that I had. But I know that if I were to find someone and would hit it off, I would end up in a new one again, which in turn would also help me get over the old one much better.
Because the type of person I want is rare and she is sitting at home in front of a tv or computer gaming or creating or researching, or reading a book, or drawing on paper, etc. while trying to come up with some way to meet someone like me who is doing the exact same things and pondering the exact same question.
where do nerds, artists, and hardcore "git gud" type of gamers go in order to meet people just like them?
I think some of them can be in japanese language school (no hate, in my japanese language school there were two guys who were working in gaming industry and one in IT, and most of these people watch anime or read manga that’s why they got to learn the language). Nowadays also there are pubs with board games and such. Think of how to expand an interest and there you can find people who are into the same thing
@HHHHIHHHHHIHHHH Thats not shocking since the 2 languages a game dev from the US should learn are japanese and chinese (software/half of player base, and hardware).
I am actually wanting to learn both for that very reason.
Good luck!👍
@HHHHIHHHHHIHHHH ty 👍
I'm not ready. I recently tunred down a guy that wanted to marry me. I don't think I'm mature enough to be in a relationship yet. There's also so many things I want to experience in life before I get into a relationship. Being in a relationship is just not a priority of mine at the moment
OK I'll be completely honest with you. I fell in love with this beautiful woman that was 5 inches tall. One day we were watching a sunset and she crawled up in the palm of my hand and sang the most beautiful song. I was so moved when she was finished I just had to clap... oops. and that was it. I shall never love again. 🤪
I’m single now but historically always been with someone. My problem right now is how picky I am. Nothing magical, but I know what I want and I’m not gonna date anyone that I don’t mesh well with. Yeah travel, got a lot going on. I’m pretty happy single for now but I do want to find someone. (Covid has not helped dating.)
well... as you're 35 and highly educated, the pool is very shallow so to speak. people are married or have children... and dating as an academic is difficult, cause people that aren't academics and easygoing often can't relate with you and other academics often have crazy expectations that you can't live up to xD
but maybe i'm just making excuses.
I'm in my 20s and have never been in a serious romantic relationship so don't worry too much or force anything.
I haven't been in one because I've had little to no interest. I have friends, family, and a great career and don't feel the need to have anything more. I'm very content with life but if I met someone that I desired more with then I'd probably pursue a romantic relationship.
Extremely picky with whom I have in my life when it comes to personality behavior/attitude.
Always been. even in early childhood.
The funny thing is that people get attracted towards me in different ways and want to be a part of my life in some way.
If you think you're fat and ugly you can make changes to make yourself look better and feel better about yourself. I'm older and women find me attractive but I'm looking for a certain kind of younger lady, not just anyone that comes along. It's just a lot of work to maintain a relationship and it seems hard to make someone happy, with fewer options as you get older. At least you're still very young and still have a chance, so don't give up yet.
Many things, I'm skinny, I have trust issues, I don't believe girls are stable and most importantly judgement, they judge like there is no tomorrow.
Adding to that most girls are tied to their past relationships so they don't give new ones a chance to thrive.
Haven't met a woman that is more attractive than pure freedom...
+1 I agree
Because I haven't found myself someone who is meant to be with me yet, which is kinda hard to do especially when I am autistic. I am still a human being who needs to be loved by that special someone. I have feelings for neurotypical (non-autistic) women as I want to be the best lover for that one person.
I am still single because I am looking for that woman that not only would fit well into my life and get along with my family and friends. I also have a standard now of what type of woman I want in my life and I won't lower myself or change myself for. I've changed myself for the worse in the past and hasn't worked well.
I have so many insecurities, people insult me for no reason, I have a toxic family, I was cheated 7 times, I feel bad, everyone is making negative comments towards me, and I just feel like I need to go away because everyone will just hate me so why is there a point of dating someone if no one wants to even see me.
Because I'm stupid, annoying, loud, ugly, dirty minded, I'm not funny (I'm more of a joke), I'm untalented and I'm constantly surrounded by guy friends (probs makes me seem promiscuous), I attract despos or people that just want me for my body and most of all It's because I don't deserve a boyfriend.
because I was taking a break from relationships and that was in 2019... then the pandemonium happened and here we are, still... in 2021