Be honest with me, what is the real reason why you're still single right now? (Page 2)

Question

I'm 18 and I never be in a relationship before because every time I like someone, they never like me back but if there's someone interested in me, I don't like him. I also an introvert girl, shy, insecure, and quiet. I always consider myself ugly and fat, I am so insecure. I always think that I am gonna be single for the rest of my life because it is my destiny. I know I have a lot of time to find a boyfriend cuz I'm still 18. But right now, I feel so hopeless and accept the fact that I will be single forever. So, I decided to want to be single, not married, not having a kid and dying alone.

FictionalCharacter · Answer

I’m not confident enough within myself and I’m scared of getting hurt.

Daniela1982 · Answer

I'm single because I'm weird. And guys don't like weird girls.

jasco · Answer

Other than my way of thinking, I think its the fact that their aren't that many women that around my age where I live. I am gonna branch out but not right now

InferiorElegy · Answer

At this current point in time, it's because I choose to be but the cause of that was the constant rejection and only rejection. I'm not what you'd call attractive on the lowest meaning of the word and I've been told many times how ugly I am.

Everglow5 · Answer

Because I'm fourteen and I look like a burnt corn chip

menina · Answer

I'm sorry you feel this way. I'm single because I don't want to date guys from where I live.

chriscdi · Answer

Because I'm not a person that really likes to socialize so when someone doesn't socialize then you can't really expect them to be with anyone

Angelina25 · Answer

Choice. And fear.  Fear of trusting anyone And my choice to not get over the fear.

AlexanderAnttila · Answer

I live on the countryside and have up until now studied during a pandemic, meaning wholly digitally. Doesn't engender socialization very well.

Philyouup · Answer

You are 18. you have lots of time to find the right guy. And you will find him, never met anyone like you that said this and didn’t find the right guy or girl.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

Tiktok is disgusting. That’s the first time I’ve looked on there. The trending is sex, drugs, money.  Nonetheless, I couldn’t tell if you were serious or not?

oldasIfeel22 · Answer

I just gave up in the area I’m living in. But when I travel I find I have more luck.

glowingsunsets2006 · Answer

Good question  I don't exactly have an answer for it

cth96190 · Answer

Women in whom I am (or might be) interested are not interested in me.

lovelyhoneybones · Answer

I'm fat. I'm pretty but I'm fat so guys don't ever want to date me

tartaarsaus · Answer

I feel no intrinsic motivation to actively pursue a relationship itself, so I don’t try.

Naxwi · Answer

I don't feel the need to be in a relationship at the moment.

Anonymous · Answer

I am very very insecure about my body and skin tone. I do not want to punish any guy by being his girlfriend

Aimée__LJ · Answer

Was never good at finding someone I like enough to be in a relationship with

bolverk · Answer

Personal choice, I travel a lot so having a relationship would not be conducive to taking contracts on short notice.

Minahh · Answer

That's absolutely ok girl no need to put pressure on yourself. The right person will come your way. It's better to wait than to waste your time with someone you're not in love with.

IveGotNoName · Answer

I was single because I wasn't interested in a relationship before my boyfriend came around

HamburgerFries · Answer

Because I don't like drama. And I like peace in my life

kitty71 · Answer

Im too old to get hitched or being in a relationship

KC2143 · Answer

Dating has become hard and too many people are playing mind games out here. There not building emotional relationships they’re out here counting the numbers of people they sleep with. When she comes she comes my mate 🏳️‍🌈❤️

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

I have low self confidence, I am shy and I feel uncomfortable with the thought of being committed/bond to someone

cookroach · Answer

If I typed the reasons it would need a 500 page book.

Hydrogen · Answer

I can't fall in love. I have everything, but I just can't love someone.

_no_one_ · Answer

Cuz i recently broke up a month ago and now i just dont want to be in a relationship for a while.

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

i choose to be i see people on gag, and it turns me off to women. it's like, are there really people like this out there in the world? wow!

kevyhanma · Answer

There isn’t a person on the face of this earth that I’ve met who can match my sexual energy And I enjoy solitude too much I love my freedom

friendzoned4life · Answer

Women that like my Personality keep asking this qeustion, while not being interested in dating me at all

niceboyyes · Answer

The reason cause i m single is, that i exactly know what kind of girlfriend i want and she hasn't gone into my life yet

Pulseofsulfur · Answer

The real reason why I'm single is because I don't have confidence within myself to display what I need from a relationship and I don't have the emotional capacity to support another person's issues

grega239 · Answer

I'm incompetent at flirting, dating etc. Women also don't seem to like me that much

orangecherry · Answer

tbh I'm enjoying being single for awhile. I'm sick of the games a lot of guys are playing.

Still-alive · Answer

Not really looking and haven’t found one i feel i gotta go for yet

Dchrls78104 · Answer

I'm single because I have not found the right girl and I don't like what is on offer these days.

Romeball · Answer

I am too young for that stuff right now. Also, it's too much responsibility at a young age. have a nice day, those who are reading this!

TheFirstMan · Answer

U can train with me, how to communicate with others.. U r welcome..

Guanfei · Answer

-Ugly -Stupid -Awkward -Too romantic -Shy -Loser Choose.

HelpingMcHelpington · Answer

Ahaha, try 27 years of being used by girls to boost their egos.

Weasel1983 · Answer

After a couple of past relationships is trust and being cheated on. Also It works both ways and not allowing the other person to control you

Chthou95 · Answer

Because i lose my sanity trying to talk women or date them

whtbltpb · Answer

To be completely honest most women think I'm ugly and if a woman likes me I'm too shy to talk to her

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Trust. I've been cheated on before and I've got trust issues ever since

Anonymous · Answer

Because my breath smells like ass from licking all of the assholes of the pretty girls

Anonymous · Answer

Because I am a Jerk never satisfied who spoil everythings when I am into a relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

I've never tried it and I don't have a fricking clue where and how to start.

SaoirseS · Answer

Because I choose to be 😀

Laciandmaci · Answer

Because right now is not a good time for me.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

I'm on my purpose and I have high standards

sensible27 · Answer

I don't know.. (I'm not)

watrewks · Answer

Just not interested in a relationship rn

Marhaban-1 · Answer

I have sky high standards when it comes to girls

TheEbonyEnchantress · Answer

Because i don't need a man to be happy

That_Incel_Dude · Answer

I'm poor that's why I can't afford a girl.

princeofromance · Answer

I can't tell you that.

Rennitenn · Answer

Ain't nobody loves me.

Joker_ · Answer

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