Do you still check out other people when you have a partner?

[oralqueen]

Personally I love when guys tell me other girls they find hot, and they're not jealous when I point out guys I find hot.

[PeacefulRainDrop]

No I dont.. there's tons of good looking men but are they going to treat me as well as my man does I highly doubt it.. looks honestly mean nothing n9ne of us got to pick ours we just try to maintain the ones we have.. I honestly at one time thought alll good looking men were assholes cause women are constantly trying to get with them but its not true my man is gorgeous best looking man I have ever seen.. unless you like abs I dont they aren't comfy to cuddle with or lean again.. he's not fat or anything.. his muscles are there when he flexes.. but more importantly what are the guys insides like? How does he react when things go wrong? there's so much more to a person than the way they look

[Lliam]

Absolutely. It's impossible not to. I think the female form is one of the most delightful things in creation. So I definitely notice and appreciate particularly lovely specimens - butts, boobs, lovely legs, perfect curves, gorgeous hair or skin. It's not like I lust after other women or anything.

My wife understands. She occasionally even subtly calls my attention to an impressive set of boobs, or to a particularly nice swaying ass, or to a scantily clad woman. She thinks it's humorous. I know she appreciates the fit male form, too. There are certain movie stars like Pierce Brosnan that she has the hots for, and she knows my taste in female stars.

To me, pretending that I don't notice other women would like pretending that I don't appreciate beautiful flowers, sunsets, landscapes or art. Someone who is so insecure that they get jealous when you look at anyone else is pathetic. It shows a lack of trust. And my wife and I trust each other completely.

[Lliam]

Thanks for the MHO, oralqueen. :-)

[The_Maphio]

Quite standard. Good looking girls and guys are a thing. Better looking guys than me or her just as well. Appreciating beauty is no sign of disrespect towards the other, and if you've been open to the other since the very beginning, that should be clear and go without saying.
As a couple, me nor my partner have ever grown angry at the other for stating something objectively true.

[Azura_88]

If they're more attractive than my partner or I'm simply not so happy or satisfied with my partner. But Now I am mature and single and don't settle for less.
But once I establish deep emotional connection with the love of my life, and I know he also feels the same, THEN I BECOME BLIND TO HOT GUYS and don't find them attractive because my partner is everything then.

[proNutro]

I’m the exact same! I hope to find a man who is like this as well!

[verygurlxcv55]

This is true I’m the same way.

[BigPunny]

Oh sure. My wife and I both do this. Sometimes I'll even ask her if she thinks 'that guy' is good looking or not. lol

It has become something of a game for us. She finds women as attractive as I do so she'll even point them out to me.

It is usually a "psst" and a nudge or a knee hit with a mumbled "hey... there"

It's funny. I'm sure not every couple will be into that but we're very secure in our relationship and that stuff no longer bothers us! :)

[Danidan18]

I see handsome guys all the time. but i don’t tell my partner because he will become upset. I’m okay with knowing what girls he thinks are attractive but if he’s complimenting other women way more than me i would become annoyed. i want to know that i’m the only women that he wants.

[Tunasub]

I am human.. if I had a partner that wouldn't stop me from being human. I wouldn't be inconsiderate or disrespeful about checking other women out. Yes i notice a pretty woman or a nice body.

It's all in how you handle your emotions and actions.

[MotorcycleMan]

Ah, that would be nice.
Of course I look, and sometimes I'm interested. Interested doesn't mean I'm going to do anything (or that she would) and looking doesn't mean I'm interested.
girlfriend: OMG, he wants to fuck that woman he's staring at!
me: Those are weird pants...

[DisappointingHope]

Sure, I do that. And I don't mind my girlfriend checking other guys out either, I'll even agree or not whether the guys is attractive or not. I can admit that a guy is attractive without fear of being called gay. I know that the attractiveness of another person, in most cases, doesn't necessarily reflect badly on me.

[NoLookingAtSoleil]

I don't mind it/mind the noticing of other people.
Any desire for involvement if I am not first/higher priority of relationships and entirely consulted I would.
And when consulted I could only deduce what it is she is missing or looking for - if it isn't me we'd be better off breaking up.

[HawkPerception]

I do. It's natural to still have that attraction towards others. We don't lose it just because we're in a relationship. I try to keep a rein on my glances when I'm with my partner out of respect though.

[SPRGRL]

Yes I do and I have not problem of calling his attention if I see a beautiful girl. It really is a matter of how he or I go with it.

If it just inoffensive looking. Something like watch and forget ahah

[DizzyDesii]

While unmarried, yes. But i would never do that while the partner was around. Thats where the disrespect is. Like if you're gonna look, dont be dumb enough to look while your partners lookin at you look at someone else

[DanishSaint]

Of course. Why would I not? It's just how we are as humans... Best thing is if you are actually able do share and discuss it with your partner.

[BakedBeanieBabie]

I do and I'm fine with it, I just think you gotta make sure you're not gawking in front of your partner.

[Dinklex3]

I don't, lol.
I can notice if someone is attractive or not, but I don't check people out as I have no interest.

[ChrisMaster69]

Everyone I believe checks out others at some level.
it’s natural.

How much the brain then mulls over will vary for some nothing, for others loads and they end up gawking

[Andres77]

Wife and I do the same thing.
Not gawking, still showing respect to the individual and each other.

[Andres77]

But if there was anyone we really found attractive we'll talk about them when we get to bed that night.

[Shaggy_KW]

I try not to but it obviously happens. Sometimes I'll catch a look but I don't stare, usually catches my eye then I look away. I'd never leave my partner over looks.

[bowenw]

I think most people check out others. It's human nature.

[Browneye57]

Yes, we still check them out. Wife of 30 years POINTS them out if they're REALLY nice.
And we have a running contest to decide whether tits are real or fake, or if people are gay or straight.
Ya just can't make this shit up. LOL

[NorthShoreCalling]

Yes, not obviously but I’m sure everyone does discreetly. Isn’t it just natural? It doesn’t mean you’re going to go off and jump their bones.

[Libbers]

I think it’s normal. People look at other people they find attractive. It’s innocent

[slatyb]

Absolutely. Sometimes my wife points them out. One of the reasons we go out is to see attractive young people.

[poneglyphs]

Sure, why not. As long you're not trying to get their numbers or in their pants.

[Andy79]

That is very normal. To girls never get upset if your boyfriend or husband does that, it is a sign that he is a man. You should worry if they do not look

[hahahmm]

Seeing is normal. Telling your wife/committed partner every time you see a hot woman is not.

[Andy79]

@hahahmm me and girlfriend never had such problems

[hahahmm]

That's great but it's not normal.

[bananathunder]

sure... hot girls are still going to be hot even if i have a girlfriend

[jshm2]

Of course and don't mind she does too. It means we're both normal people.

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/Xtwf9rnCgIA

[ThisAndThat]

It depends on what you're referring to as checking them out. Did I notice them? Sure I did. Was I interested in them? Absolutely not.

[nawtee_me]

It all comes down to trust... It would not bother me is she pointed out guys she thought was hot so why should it bother her if I point out girls that are hot? I am not with them, I am with her...

[Titlover01]

I think everyone does. I personally hope any time I’m in a relationship that my girlfriend will let me check out other women as long as I leave it at that. And I would have no problem with her checking out men.

[Rok4bakAR]

Of course! I tell the girl I’m dating I wanna take you and her at the same time.


You hide shit as a man? You will always have distraction.

[Joshua0213]

Yeah she points out people she thinks look good when we're out. I don't normally just on my own though

[A_Nihilist]

Usually when that happens it's a case of...

"Look at her. She's threesome material." And the partner is like "Yeah. Good ass."

[collie22]

i think its good to be able to have those kinds of conversations

[blindedd]

I don't mind it, as long as they are not trying to pursue anything further than that lol.

[delakando]

Not in a sexual way. At times I look at someone and question the outfit or generally what kind of person they are. It's called people watching.

[EssenceOfLight]

Not in presence of my partner, I don't want to show my partner any disrespect.

[FunGuy2445]

Yes but not in an obvious way. Do women like being checked out though?

[Rok4bakAR]

If men don’t Check them out. We’ll get everything we wanted from them

[msc545]

Of course. you would need to be blind to not do that.

[Wisenhot]

Everyone checks out other people sometimes. Eyes are made for looking. That is not cheating.

[dpy87]

Ya but i don't stare. If I do I look and forget about it a second later.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes their in a relationship there not dead so yes I do. But I won't do it if I'm walking with her

[babieg]

Nothing can stop me from checking out hot guys

[exitseven]

I always check out girls. I just like to browse.

[devilish-cutie]

only not intentionally

[Unicorn_lover_2002]

We can both look just can't touch

[COMMODOREII]

Yes i do. But i never touch

[oldermale]

My ex and I loved checking other girls

[Kelly6]

It’s human nature , can’t stop that

[Jenngirl00]

It just happens. I try not to make it obvious.

[Texasguy99]

Sure. Look but don’t touch

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

If you’re okay with it, I’d be okay with it.

[simpleguy34]

I'm going to look yes.

[CubaPirate]

Sure we all like "window shopping" don't we

[invalid1]

Of course if there's trust. It's good.

[nerijukas]

No i don't even watch porn

[oncpl]

I do. And we also discuss their outlook etc.

[Iron_Man]

It’s always natural to look

[KrakenAttackin]

This from "Oral Queen".

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

nope, as it would be immoral to

[Waldoe]

all the time... but I am 71, so no one cares

[Luckycharms12]

Yes it's naturally don't hide it either