When in a relationship, do you check out other girls/guys when you're with your partner?

[Anonymous]

When in a relationship, do you check out other girls/guys when you're with your partner? On the street, mall, gym, etc Be honest

Yes

No

[Lelianax2]

If I think someone's cute then I see it more as an observation and nothing else.
Looking attractive to me isn't the same as being attracted.
I'm straight but I check out other girls all the time. Usually just to be envious though.
I try not to pay much attention to other guys unless they're fantasy guys like the sexy elf I use for my picture. Oh Fenris ❤

[Gypsy_x]

Yeah, we both do. Just because we're committed to eachother doesn't mean we're eunuchs who find all other humans to be hideous creatures. My SO especially finds beauty in most people, which I find very endearing.

We also point out hotties to eachother. We have pretty different taste. Haha

[bree04]

I said yes but it depends. If I’m in the beginning part of a relationship when we are building trust, I won’t. Once we get to the point that we know we are just looking, I’ll even tell my so to check him out too. Lol and if he checks out a girl, I’m looking with him. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[PrincessPie]

I can see people are still attractive but i'm never interested in them because when i'm in a relationship no one for me can live up to my partner.

[Miristheiss]

I voted yes but it just depends. If I’m in that honeymoon phase to where the woman I’m with is all I can ever think about than I probably don’t. For normal times after the honeymoon phase I still notice women and I might take a brief glance but I would never gawk at someone. That would be disrespectful to the woman I was with. It’s normal to notice people though.

[JimRSmith]

All the time, yeah.

Just because I'm in a relationship doesn't mean that other women become invisible.

Fortunately, my gal isn't insecure, and doesn't care or even seem to notice when I do. We even talk about clothing styles on hot women sometimes.

[Tanuj_Jiwankar]

We both do this, as a joke. Once we were sitting in KFC doing this and she pointed out a really hot girl, and I said I'll go and talk to her, but I didn't. Later it turned out that girl was a childhood friend of mine just moved back to city. It was so funny... We checkout people all the time, she even tells me if any guy in her college hits on her or even is flirting with her. And so do I.

[FlutteringFeelings]

Just because you’re in relationship doesn’t mean gorgeous people stop becoming gorgeous. If it’s a glance and a though of yea he/she is good looking than perhaps but fantasizing over that person? Nope !

[snugasabug]

I check out everyone 😊 but I've always been in "awe" of natural beauty. I dont even hide it, I like "isn't she gorgeous?" Attractiveness is eye catching 😊

[Belorum]

Well sure. Its not like I'd suddenly become blind once I'm in a relationship. I do still see guys here and there I am attracted to. But I just don't think much about it.

[Munj82]

Sometimes. It totally depends. But yes and Everyone does that I know.

[RJGraveyTrain]

When I'm with him as in, in public? No. Do I notice other cute guys when I'm alone? Sure. But I don't linger on it.

[MindYourEyes]

Absolutely not. I respect my boyfriend not to do that. I want him to feel he's the only man I desire.

[thankyoumwa]

I do it’s not cheating if it’s looking I really don’t consider a little flirtation being a cheating status

[kaylaS91]

yes, we both do. Often being more blatantly obvious than usual if we're with each other at the time. 💃

[Cosytoasty]

Absolutely! Hot girls suddenly don’t become unattractive because you’re holding hands with one.

[LoneWoofette87]

Absolutely and there's nothing wrong with that. No physical contact involved, no harm done.

[qupid911]

Not when I'm with him but I do it when he's not around. He does it when I'm around

[syntheticnerd]

You shouldn't have to be afraid when with your significant other looking at a beautiful person is much like looking at a beautiful work of art. Don't be secretive about it that is worse then doing it in the first place and if the guy doesn't like it then either you have to like and respect the jelouse type or find someone better... Well different jellouse types have there benifits.

[bilco]

why not, if someone is attractive whats wrong with looking, its not as if you are going home with them

[Anonymous]

Yes, when they're hot and I usually tell him. Unfortunately, there are way more hot girls than hot guys where I live.

[batwriter1979]

No you wouldn't. It would screw up the relationship. Gf/Bf would get mad or jealous.

[AnanoM]

yes if checking them with my boyfriend counts (when i had one).

[Little-ButterflyGirl]

Nah I dont think I ever had

[Kitten967]

I check out other girls

[bbb10]

That's because you are far closer to being lesbian than straight.

[Kitten967]

Well I am bisexual so I'm half way there.

[bbb10]

More on the lesbian side as you don't check out the guys in public.

[Kitten967]

Well I don't find other guys attractive. I check out my fiance quite often.

[bbb10]

Yeah then you are much closer to being lesbian, you check out your fiance because of emotional connection, if you didn't know him you wouldn't be checking them out. You check out those women because of their body.

[Kitten967]

I checked him out before we got together. If I'm single I check out both guys and girls the same amount. If I was closer to being a lesbian I would be with a women and I wouldn't enjoy dick.

[jacquesvol]

Yes, we point them out to each other. :D

[bondobilly]

Yes. Helps my woman is bi.

[Groisu]

Not intentionally

[LeeKenz]

I've never done it

[biggdrew92]

I do

[Anonymous]

No l don't