Why do men lie most of the time?

[Zeliş]

Why do men lie most of the time? And some women prefer to hear it even though they know it's a lie

[serious]

That is a very good question. Unfortunately that is true. You are a woman and yes women totally dislike lies and dishonesty in a man. They always men to be honest and truthful with them, doesn't matter if they are just acquaintances only.

Well, that being almost all woman are like the one I mentioned above, but some women just don't have the courage or strength to hear the truth and may prefer sweet lies instead but I think that percentage of women are very small.

Small percentage of women who prefer such sweet lies from a man is because it is indeed easier for men to lie to a woman to make her smile, lie to a woman to make her feel good or to assure her in some way. Logically and conceptually speaking LYING and achieving a task is much easier and can be done faster rather than doing the same task by telling the TRUTH.

Being honest, speaking the truth and achieving things the right way is much tougher. Of course being truthful and honest is always morally right and is the right way to live life as well.

At least I believe if good things are to be done they can be achieved by being honest and truthful also, the task may be tough but it certainly doable.

I think this answers your question.

[Zeliş]

I totally agree with you

[serious]

@Zeliş

Thanks

[HawkPerception]

You talk to the wrong guys. I'm honest and blunt to a fault. I always say exactly what's on my mind.

[Zeliş]

I respect you for being honest but I think people who say they are honest are mostly lying sorry:/

[HawkPerception]

That's your own emotional wall you've built up from your own experiences in life. If you live your life that way, you'll never be trusting and it will always affect your relationships negatively. You shouldn't assume everyone is the same. You should give every new person you meet their own chances. Just life advice. Take it or leave it.

[Zeliş]

Thanks

[Ninjazzed]

Men will lie because they have been conditioned to think they can get away with it. As any liar.

Ones that don’t think they owe their spouse an explanation. Whether he’s cheating on her or not.

Men tell women what they want to hear, doesn’t necessarily make it true.

I’ve known men that look their wives dead in the eyes and blatantly lie through their teeth.

We already know the truth. We just wanna see if you’re trustworthy enough to uphold it.

The more they lie, the more they will think they can get away with.

[Zeliş]

Woovv ıt's true thanks for comment

[kyleelyn199723]

I wouldn’t say they lie most of the time, but when you love someone you become blind to their BS. It happens to the best of us.

[Zeliş]

Right, i hate this

[kyleelyn199723]

It happened to me. The only thing you can do is realize that you can 100% do better.

[ChrisMaster69]

Both do it, but for the question,

I think a lot of girls know guys are lying to them, however they want to live the sort of fantasy relationship they have in their heads, the put up with or ignore the bullshit that the lie is hiding.

also the need for a relationship, some will accept an element of lying rather than being single.

unfortunately it’s a slippery slope as those lies can get complex and cover up things like cheating,

also this desire for both to keep a relationship going often leads to lying from both sides, however that is usually a precursor of its ending,

[Zeliş]

awful situation

[ChrisMaster69]

@Zeliş yeah it’s almost like two people digging their own holes as quickly as possible. But then being positive to each other and hiding what is going on,

[Zeliş]

It's been like this from the past. We never get wise

[ChrisMaster69]

@Zeliş I can imagine miss cavewoman and mr caveman doing the same old shit and blaming each other etc

[Zeliş]

i can't think of that 😂😂

[ChrisMaster69]

@Zeliş it’s my barking mad British sense of humour 😂😂

Seriously though I honestly. Do not know why people people lie as much as they do.

With guys a lot is down to getting into a girls pants and keeping there.

Fear of losing this means the temptation to say and do almost anything is on the cards.

[Zeliş]

It's true 🤦

[hahahmm]

This is hilarious. Women are the world's #1 liars. You're saying men are second place? okay. What I've found in life is that the person we're with reflects our own character eventually. If a man has principles, his woman will demonstrate some of those too. If a woman is the best CIA level liar in town, her man will be the same.

If guys keep lying to you then you're part of the problem. Modify your behavior (s). See my MyTakes for some ideas on how to be a woman that attracts guys who don't lie.

[Ninjazzed]

Equivocally untrue.

Most of the time, the person will only reveal their true colors until the crux of the relationship. You don’t always get true intentions up front. This is fairly unanimous knowledge. Someone can ask you out without even reciprocating your same beliefs. That’s the point of dating. Finding out what those beliefs are. But even then, you’re not always going to get the benefit of the doubt.

[hahahmm]

@Ninjazzed I agree that at the start of a relationship doesn't indicate as much as when people have been together a long time and sure there's exceptions where a naieve person is with a manipulator. But if someone is constantly in the same kind of relationship over & over again the need to look in the mirror. Same if they're in it for many, many years.

Far as the point of dating is to find out your beliefs. Oh, I disagree with that. This may be the excuse people use to be in and out of relationships every 3-8 months. You shouldn't actually need to date other people to know what you want BUT most people don't really know who they themselves are. And when you don't know who you are you'll be confused/wandering a lot. The more you know about who you are the less you need to experiment. So maybe people use dating to find out but it's misguided and a long round about way to trying to figure out something about themselves I'd say.

[Lionman95]

Because lying prevents you from showing the truth which can be embarrassing sometimes. Another reason is that is it´s easier to lie and to come out with the truth.

[Zeliş]

Exactly

[crazy8000]

Why do female's lie most of the time?

It's the same both ways and female's are more prone to lie and twist thing's.
When you learn why female's you get one of many reasons.

When it comes to it it's not even gender based. only personality based.

[DWornock]

Because women punish men for lying and reward them for telling the truth. If a guy lies and says, "You are wife material" he is rewarded with sex. However, if he tells the truth and says, "You are okay for a one-night-stand, but you are too old for a relationship," she will punish him by denying sex.

[Anonymous]

Honestly? I think it's your underdeveloped brains. Think about it women are like little children in a lot of ways. You like fantasies, shiny things, you have a hard time distinguishing between what's real and fake. Just like a child.
I think this why women are generally attracted to the biggest liars ( now don't get me wrong he's still got to be a convincing liar) but he completes your fantasy.

[Ninjazzed]

Men invented lying. We both know men lie all the time to get with women far out of their league.

This isn’t far-fetched at all.. in fact, it’s very common.

Men are the infantile leeches nowadays that are the gullible 30-something-year-old incels who live in their moms’ basement.. freeloading and living on Discord servers.. or whatever it is you losers do.

Afraid of having your precious privilege taken away, you shit in a fit of hysterics when you don’t get your way.

Like the former US president Trump, he wanted to impose martial law because he couldn’t get his way because he’s a massive pissbaby.

Yet women are the childish ones?

Yeah, troll elsewhere.

Sounds like you’re projecting a lot of personal insecurities.

[Opinion Owner]

@Ninjazzed OK I can see you're upset. But really. Just because some guy feeds you a line doesn't mean you have to buy it. Who are you really mad at here? Me? Or yourself because you know I'm telling the truth?

[Silas_153]

What an insulting question to ask. I hope you're not under the illusion that women are somehow above all of that, above being deceitful and dishonest.

[Zeliş]

I don't think like that.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

You ever hear the phrase “pot calling the kettle black”? Yeah, no. Yeah.

[Zeliş]

No. What?

[Zeliş]

Okay understand 👍

[zagor]

So you really want the truth when you ask "Do these pants make my butt look big?".

[Zeliş]

yes, it would be more appropriate to tell the truth about it ahaha

[hahahmm]

I actually do tell women the truth. Or just refuse to answer. No in between. They learn NOT TO ASK if they don't want to hear the answer. I'll also tell them straight up to exercise and if they get lazy I'll find somebody who does. Ha ha.

[Ninjazzed]

Better to tell the hard truth than to comfort someone with a lie that will be brought to light later.

[Zeliş]

You're too right

[dolemite89]

because if we told the truth all the time women would wanna kill themselves 🤣

[Zeliş]

Really 😆?

[kkirk4442]

If a person lies frequently, they lack integrity, which is important in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

You are getting men confused with women.

Women are the living embodiment of lie.
Fake hair, fake lashes, fake eye color, fake lips, fake makeup face, fake tits, contouring bodysuits, fake nails, ass injections, labiaplasty,

fake personalities to suit the male they are interested in, fake friends to other women, etc

[Ninjazzed]

You misspelled men.

So? What does one’s physical appearance have to do with having a superficial, fabricated personality?

Physical improvements really have no correlation to the person’s moral values. This means nothing, as it is baseless and unfounded. Is this your logic? Artificial beauty is external, not internal.

And it’s fairly unanimous knowledge that makeup is just makeup.

The question was.. why do men lie? Because they have no self-preservation and don’t think they have to be held accountable for their actions.

Men are the ones that lie to get with women. Manipulators that use fake love to prioritize their needs for sex. Pretending to be a soccer enthusiast to get with a soccer player.

Women are out to seek relationships with men. Some men pretend to care about women more than they do, then get mad when they’re expected to keep up the act. They’re disingenuous for lying. I don’t like soccer and I wouldn’t pretend to like it to get with a soccer enthusiast. I now either have to live a lie, which will build resentment on my part, or admit I lied, which will cause him to resent me.

Get the picture?

So judging by your logic, men who use steroids and dick enhancements/dick enlargement surgery are the very definition of a lie? As this would also apply? Or are you just a hypocrite? How far does your insanity border on this?

[joeblow123]

@Ninjazzed

Where did he misspell the word "men"?

Yeah, I get the picture. You are a man-hating feminazi.

[WhiteWolf69]

I'm an honest person. I will be honest with whoever it is no matter man or woman. I will make it so the honesty isn't attacking and I use I statements.

[Anonymous]

depends on what type of men and what they're going through, it can be negative or positive you'll never know till find out

[Zeliş]

Unfortunately

[blank_expression]

I learned how to lie from women.

[Zeliş]

How do you feel

[Browneye57]

First, tell us why WOMEN lie most of the time. Maybe that's your answer.

[Zeliş]

I wonder why men lie, not women

[Ripper_E]

why do women lie most of the time?

[Zeliş]

To gain acceptance, I think men also lie to please women.

[Ripper_E]

disagree with both.

[Zeliş]

Whyy?

[joeblow123]

Women lie as well. To say otherwise is a lie.

[Sonorous]

Oh dear lord

[JesseJayNeak]

Women do that too, y'know