Why is my boyfriend so clingy in bed?

[WinCx3d]

My boyfriend sleeps under me when he stays over. Sometimes I’m near the edge of the bed that’s how close he is to me at night.

He will hold me tight so I’m unable to move. If i try to scoot over he will scoot near me. If i try to get up he will grab me so i can’t move to even try and use the bathroom.

When i wake up he’s nearly on top of me. His head will be on my shoulder while he’s cuddling me from behind..

He is clingy in bed

[Xitomyth]

Is he consciously doing this? If not, odds are he migrates towards heat... My siblings and I did when were kids, sometimes sharing beds at hotels when traveling so we'd end up beating each other in our sleep. My older brother hogs sheets, basically cocooning himself and leaving me in the cold, so I would have to cling to the edge of the sheet for dear life... I would end up kicking him in the middle of the night when I was asleep due to the heat migration thing... If you need to use the bathroom, either wake him up or hit him lightly somewhere to make his and go investigate the irritation, thus freeing yourself. You could shake things up and cuddle him from behind, see how that works. Otherwise, find a way to hold or you'll have to wet the bed... You could possibly turn enough and pee on him, that'll either make him stop or reveal a fetish ;)...

[Anon621]

He probably really likes holding you. If you have a problem with it you can always convince him to buy a new mattress for himself but that's probably not ideal. You can also set physical boundaries when you sleep so you don't feel squished when you wake up. If that doesn't work just tell him to get his touchiness done when you are both awake and then say touching is off limits when you sleep together and then you can set up your phone to record a video every time you sleep and see if he stays true to that if you have enough space and if not you can buy a video camera or make him hold a plushie or your jacket or something that resembles you and your smell but isn't actually you

[SphynxUK]

My partner is like this sometimes. He gets a lot of comfort and security from it, and sleeps better with me than when he’s home alone.
I don’t mind it, but don’t sleep all night like that. It’s uncomfortable for me. It is annoying however, when he grabs me when I leave the bed!
My partner does have issues, and I think this may be the case with your partner too. There’s being close and cuddling, and I feel this is more about the need to feel safe and secure…?

[CrazyGirl2]

Oh-no-you-poor-woman-you-have-every-girls-dream-and-you-hate-it, I-feel-so-sorry-for-you-having-to-put-up-with-a-boyfriend-who-clearly-adores-you! (She says hyper-enunciating every word)
Plus, you literally just broke up with one boyfriend, yet you are living with another one already, like two, maybe three weeks later? Way to un-healthy your life!

[OlderAndWiser]

"My boyfriend sleeps under me. . . When i wake up he’s nearly on top of me." He is on top of you underneath you, or just too close to you?

[MsTaniaUncensored]

Cuddle monster alert. Okay like any problems in a relationship you need to talk things over with him and tell him what you need. Maybe conpromise and tell him you will cuddle him until he goes to sleep but after that give you space so you can sleep and use the bathroom.

[Nik1hil]

Haha... Congratulations you are in relationship with a baby!..

Just tell him.. That you like sleeping alone...
And cannot share bed.. Make him sleep on other bed..

You can cuddle with him in the bed.. But when sleeping he is going to other bed..

[rosemilk]

Honestly I'd just say enjoy it while it lasts. Because it's likely he won't always be like this 🌸

[JackofSpades]

Is it just because it's uncomfortable and/or difficult to sleep.
If so just tell him you need your space when you sleep at night and it has nothing to do with the amount of affection he's showing.

If it is that he's showing too much affection or you think there's something wrong with him wanting to cuddle and hold you a lot, that kinda makes me feel a bit sad and concerned.

Because I feel like I may be that way and now I think there may be something wrong with me.

[Waldoe]

maybe the bedroom is too cold for him, some people prefer to be warmer than others. Or... he is so in Love and amazed to have you that he is afraid you will disappear into the night... so he clings to you. either way, Dump Him... I will gladly service that pussy and leave immediatly

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Maybe you need to have a talk with him and tell him you would like to have some room in bed with him and tell him you appreciate all the love he has for you but his clinginess is causing sleep issues for you

[Neyila]

Tell him that you need space and would like him to be less affectionate during the night. Communication is key!

[Mofunfour20]

Sounds like you may have skipped the boundaries part. Just tell him if his feelings are hurt it may be the shit test you need

[Nazgol]

Aw I wish mine were like that! It's kinda cute lol I wouldn't mind if a guy did that to me

[CentralPerk77]

He’s … warm for your form? Haha - if you don’t like it tell him to stop … that’s the general rule of successful relationships… communicating your feelings to each other

[NibirX]

Is that feels bad? if I have a girlfriend , I will act almost in same way... Perhaps he really loves you.
I will say... all men are vulnerable or weak in some ways... you will be noticed with that while he will want you.. though you don't want him in that way...

[dreamstar72]

Maybe he is confused with the positive and negative emotions. Whereas he is thinking of only the positive side and forgetting the negative side. So when he thinks of you he naturally thinks togetherness by sticking

[ohshee]

Maybe he's scared of the dark or maybe you think you're hot and sexy and he just wants to be all clingy on you

[kellytheman]

I might just really like to cuddle with you but I do agree he sounds a little clinging especially if he won't let you use the bathroom. There is a limit to cuddling to clinging. He might have to have a talk with him about it.

[BruceJender]

Women don't like clinginess/neediness... what a shock.

I always wait for her to initiate touch through laughing on just wanting to get close, let her rest her head on my chest/shoulder... where she *really* wants to be.

[exitseven]

Don;t take a shower for a few days and see if that helps.

[PaynefulPleasures]

ROFLMAO 🤣 love it 💞

[virtue2332]

Because he want those goodies. Stop rocking his world and maybe he will come to his senses

[Savage_Wisdom]

So he's a cuddle. If it's really a problem, just talk to him about it.

[Anonymous]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/pxvzEfI0BFU

I dont understand why you dont like cuddling.

[Nazgol]

Was so cute 😂