Would you consider dating somebody who is bisexual?

[Anonymous]

[MCheetah]

FUGGGGGGG NO! That is some ultra-level cuck-shit right there! Dating someone who doesn't even like your gender (but likes the perks of having you around, like free dinners and free bodyguard protection) is some real beta-level shit, and I don't even like using the term "beta", but it is.

"Oh, I like to date and fuck women because I'm a lesbian who 'hates labels,' but lemme hang around you and use your strength and wallet for my benefit. You're fine with that, right?"

There's legit only one bigger turn-off I have than that, and that'd be dating a man (aka, "transwoman"). I seriously don't get why so many men are willing to be uber-cucks just to placate some pitiful, porn-inspired lesbian fetish. It's pathetic as fuck and it legit grosses me out.

I'm not even trying to be mean and malicious here; I'm dead serious. I can't think of much more self-degrading than dating a pretentious half-assed lesbian who isn't even into men (but will pretend to be). I've had experiences of women trying to con me into dating them, only to find out they were queer, so I don't have positive words to say on the matter. These people mentally abuse and gaslight men, as well as actual out-the-closest lesbian women.

I'm not going to ramble any longer. I'd never date a half-assed, part-time, pseudo-lesbian and I can't understand men who are big enough cuckolds to do so. Although I suspect its sheer arrogance that they think they'll be able to turn a lesbian straight. Or maybe they're just that simpish.

[strawberryjammer]

The labels just make me cringe. I know we need them but the lines are often blurry.

Long ago, I met a girl at work, we fell in love or lust or something... We were at her house having fantastic sex and a girl came bursting into the bedroom yelling !! They left the room and had what sounded like a breakup fight. I quickly learned they had been living together as lesbians. This girl clearly liked the D, and lots of it so maybe she was Bi? But she never dated a girl before or after me so... maybe she was not even Bi, but it was just situational?

My current girlfriend, told me she had a female friend that kept making her think, she was trying to date my girlfriend. girlfriend always laughed it off. I even joked about it. Then recently girlfriend came over and began to tell me how... it just happened. She had never hooked up with a girl before, but had been curious. Over wine, other girl starts kissing my girlfriend and once kissed back, drops my girlfriend's pants and just eats her puss for hours. girlfriend said it was SO GOOD they did it again the next night and girlfriend ate her puss.
I was SO SHOCKED and so turned on, I didn't know if... she was a lesbian, Bi-sexual, a cheater, or the hottest thing I could imagine. Now we are discussing a FFM threesome and I am happy to be dating a bi-sexual ( or just very sexual ) girl.

[Paul09]

Um.. If she was a lesbian she would never touch the D..

[Melamore]

Uhh, heck yeah, if I weren't already taken. 😂😂😂 I feel like, with a bi guy he'd be down to try a lot more things in bed.

[JeggingsMan]

Like pegging?

[molonski2]

Sure sticking that thing in places that it was not meant to be stuck
a mans.. A hole , thats utterly disgusting :(

[JosyJosy]

Sure. Ego boost to have been chosen over both other women and men

[Juxtapose]

Somebody gets it!

[Finchie40]

Yes, and I have , but to me it wasn’t a real relationship , it was just fun in the beginning but then turns into a lot of drama, when someone can’t commit to just you it isn’t a real relationship, it’s still Considered cheating even if your bisexual partner is only hooking up with the same sax partners , it’s a selfish act , usually when bringing a 3rd wheel into a relationship adds fire into your relationship , cuz the 3rd wheel pretty much gets in between you and your partner and causes a lot of dram a , So finding someone that is bisexual isn’t on the top of my list but I wouldn’t turn it down I just know it won’t last long if they can’t just commit to you

[Qdbrown]

Bi girls are great for target practice.

You would be dumb and a cuck to get serious with one. Most guys who think of bi girls tend to have threesome fantasies.

Never get serious with a woman who does not have her head on straight. This is damaged goods. She's a mental.

Same for bi guys. All freaks. If you think freaks make good partners says a lot about if you accept this kind of perversion that's never going to be satisfied with one person. Three months tops. It's a fast food, self gratifying, sex-filled booty call at best.

[Juxtapose]

So as a bi guy myself I'm a freak to you?

[Qdbrown]

@Juxtapose yes. Somewhere above carney.

[Juxtapose]

Hey man, don't knock the femboys till ya try 'em.

[LlynR]

I'm bi, still a virgin. Still single, never dated. I hope you get spit on and left to starve to death.

[Qdbrown]

@LlynR you first!

[LlynR]

Also enjoy the fact people are talking ill at you. I posted this in a group. I enjoy the face you have downvotes. Trash..

[Qdbrown]

@LlynR I fail to see how I am the trash here sweet pea. You're definably damaged goods.

[JeggingsMan]

Yes I would date a bi female, if I wasn't already married to one. 😝 My wife is bi.
which is a good thing, seeing I love skin tight clothing. Tights, Leggings, leotards and women's one piece swimsuits. I am lucky to have a wonderful wife that gets extremely turned on every time I have anything skin tight on. She even gets turned on when I have any of my skirts on. Most of which are gifts from my wife.

[Miristheiss]

No, not for me.
I go for those who are 100% straight.
If having sex with your own sex is something that appeals to you than we are just too different sexually. I could never have sex with a man. It is just too gross.
I need to be sexually compatible.

[Paul09]

Um they are humans not aliens, wtf is wrong with You uneducated people? Instead of getting wiser, Yoh seem to do the opposite.

[molonski2]

I can answer for any female..

NO NO NO NO , either he has had a hum inside him , or he has placed it in a mans a hole , thats not good.

I think some of the male answers , well they watch too many movies , and vast majority of these cases are simply not like that , it pretty much has to be a big No for me , might seem fun if it was casual dating and she was really hot , just like those movies.

But dating looking to an end game? Dont think so.

[ConfusedMarried]

As a woman, totally agree with you and LlynR should read your answer. This has nothing with homophobic to do it's just as you put it, not good and a total turn off.

[molonski2]

@ConfusedMarried
Nothing to do with that , his Cck has been in a mans arse , or someone elses in HIS ! Obvious..
free to do as he wishes BUT :{

[ConfusedMarried]

Exactly! So as a heterosexual woman I prefer a heterosexual man.

[ChrisMaster69]

Question is a bit last as I’ve dated quite a few Bi girls.

I never understand negativity over a persons sexuality.

a straight person is just as likely to cheat.

sexuality has nothing to do with predisposition towards cheating.

[hahahmm]

No. The fact they even have to say that they are means they're not sure they can commit to one person. It's also way more complicated to know when they're cheating since now if they spend alone time with a same sex 'friend' it might not be platonic.

[Paul09]

You are basically "racist " against bi people. Nice to see you generalize.

[hahahmm]

@Paul09 Just because you're confused about who you want doesn't mean a heterosexual has to give you what you want. it's called choice. Funny how you're all about freedom till it comes to somebody rejecting you.

[Paul09]

First I'm not Bi. Second bi is just how they were born. They are still people... There's no difference if you dated a straight girl or a bi girl. That comes down to personality. They can be loyal to you and only you. Doesn't mean they are constantly fucking over everyone. Maybe some do, but so do straight people. They just have better chances at finding someone more than straight people. You probably had 1 bad experience and generalize that they are all the same. I could say the same with whatever you are and hate all people that are like you.

[MCheetah]

@Paul09
Shut the fuck up. No one is entitled to fuck anyone they want to, especially if they're not into fucking lesbians. I bet you all the money I have you're a Liberal and would think if a woman didn't want to fuck a man, but was pressured into anyway, it'd be "rape." But it's not when it comes to straight men and lesbians. Take your ass back to Reddit with that shit.

[Paul09]

@MCheetah Wow information just goes through one ear out the other? That's your problem if you do not want to learn how people work. You seem to hard headed and hateful that your hate makes you sound like a dumbass. It's like saying you can change the color of your skin.. You can't, you were born the way you were born. And you were born very stubborn and negative. And I do not give a sh*t about politics. And yes rape is rape? Wtf you taking about?

[Bright_blue_eyes]

Yes, but not seriously. Long term most guys who are "serious" would be looking for a life partner. Someone bisexual would be fun, and of course we would love you, respect and have fun with you, but... the idea of her always looking at women as an alternative to me would be a problem long term. I'm not insecure, but a lot of men are, and it would cause a problem. Fun dating, YES. Serious dating with the intent of finding a wife... No.

[Gespenster_division]

Absolutely. I men most women have lesbian tendencies. There's a whole spectrum between straight and Bisexual to full blown lesbian.
It's like one time an ex and I were watching black Swan and Mila kulnis goes down on Natalie Portman and all of a sudden my girl gets wet n horny, next thing you know we f*cking like two Jack rabbits. Never saw the end of that movie.

[Iron_Man]

If my girlfriend got wet watching them on TV I would be thinking there somethings that she’s not telling me. And for her to be that sexually pounding you hard after seeing that makes me think that she was fantasizing

[Gespenster_division]

@Iron_Man it was a rare occasion. Tried lesbian porn with her. She didn't dig it. But I think she might have been Bisexual or close to it on the spectrum.

[Iron_Man]

Or maybe she has a crush on those two actresses Natalie Portman and Mila Kulnis

[hahahmm]

If someone says, "i'm bi" they're at the end of the spectrum where they actively flirt/have sex with both sexes. Not in the "I'm ready to settle down for one gender and forget about the other one." Beware.

[Gespenster_division]

@hahahmm agreed. There is a thing where gay folks pretend to be straight or bi for a few years so they can have the traditional marriage and kids while living a double life then decide to come out as gay and of course soceity embraces them as "brave" while theif partner and kids are all WTF?

[OlderAndWiser]

Not in a million years.

[Iron_Man]

I hope you read all my words and post before you liked my comment so you have a better understanding that I don’t like that

[OlderAndWiser]

@Iron_Man Yes. . . "just for entertainment value" etc.

[Iron_Man]

I would like to see two straight girls mud wrestling And then go home after the event is over

[Iron_Man]

I’ve heard about it but never seen it

[Iron_Man]

Before I never would but maybe I will now maybe as long as she brings her female friends over and they can mud Wrestle each Other in bikinis. And even grind each other in panties but I will not tolerate lesbian sex or scissoring.

[Iron_Man]

But I could never marry a bisexual girl

[Iron_Man]

No I don’t think I would date a bisexual girl I would just be using her for entertainment to watch her wrestle her friend. Heck a straight girl can do that and still be straight

[ConfusedMarried]

I'm very heterosexual so my answer is no. Wouldn't want a man that is in to other men (or woman) for that matter.

[LlynR]

Homophobic then sweety

[ConfusedMarried]

@LlynR Really? How is that homophobic? Read molonskis2 answer. I have homosexual friends so I can't be homophobic but I wouldn't want my partner to be bisexual and it has nothing to do with being homophobic sweety

[LlynR]

Oh the typical "I have gay friends! I'm not homphobic!"

There's is nothing wrong with dating some one who is bi. We are a person too regardless of our orientation! We are NOT CHEATERS. I AM LOYALE and HATE cheating!

[ConfusedMarried]

@LlynR Yes, the very typical I have gay friends and all are persons too regardless but I don't want a man who has had a hum inside him , or he has placed it in a mans a hole and that's it, my preference which i have the right to have as a heterosexual. You seem very heterophobic.

[LlynR]

So weak lmao...

[ConfusedMarried]

@LlynR I feel truly sorry for you and you are welcome to laugh your as of but I don't think you understand the question so I'm also lmao. It's not about cheating it's about dating a bisexual. If I don't want my mans dick being inside the as of another man that's not weak, that's my choice and as a heterosexual I have the right to feel that way and the weakness is for you not being open and understanding about that. I don't think most heterosexual woman would wan't a dick in their pussy that has been in another mans asshole, it shouldn't really be so hard to understand but obviously it is.

[sabon]

That would be my preference! Isn't everyone looking for compatibility from there mate? So why not there? We look and expect compatibility on all levels except that! And this is really high reason for divorce separation etc! I would rather watch sappy lovey dovey movies that I hate!! Lose that capability in trade of a mate that's compatible with in the bedroom. No brainer or what?

[Kas19]

I'm bisexual and my boyfriend is bisexual. All good over here.

[CrotchRot]

Yeah, for sure. I like to suck dick so why would I care if my man likes it too?

[JeggingsMan]

Would you ever use a strap-on on a guy? I would recommend using a feeldoe If you ever get the chance.

[CrotchRot]

@JeggingsMan If I was in a relationship, yeah, but if it's just a friends with benefits (which is all I have atm), then no.

[kidvid80]

no- cause in the end i could never compete with a penis if a dude likes both. at least im honest, lol

[JeggingsMan]

That's what strap-ons are for. If you would ever end up dating a bi guy I would recommend a feeldoe.

[kidvid80]

@JeggingsMan

its not a real feeling that comes with owning the penis you know? and nah im good lol

[Abcdef2001]

All these comments just make no sense. The logic is "no bc they would cheat on me"? The potential for cheating is always there, bi or not. I personally wouldn't because I'm christian, but a lot of these people have very flawed logic

[HawkPerception]

Did it once not by choice, but because I didn't know until they told me. I think bi people tend to have bipolar personalities from my experience.

[MCheetah]

That's so fucked up a girl did that to you! Nowadays, in today's hyper-PC society, that could be considered sexual assault, like finding out you've been dating a biological male who thinks he's a female. Of course, the far-left would never admit to that, because if they're good for anything, it's being hypocritical and having double standards.

Regardless of what you call it, I myself was furious when I found out a girl who was supposedly "into me" was actually "bisexual" (a lesbian). It's infuriating on multiple levels; just one of them being that she sees you as a twink/femboy, or effeminate enough to consider screwing around with instead of going after an actual woman. It's very insulting. Another could be that she does consider you masculine, but just wants to use you for money and physical protection, which is often the case with these half-assed lesbians. They really just like to go down on women, and won't do anything sexually with men, because they're just gay, so they're not really attracted to men in the first place.

Either way, I'm so sorry you got gaslighted like that.

[HawkPerception]

It is what it is. Appreciate the words though man.

[NoLookingAtSoleil]

Certainly a bisexual girl, yes. But not forcing herself to be such.
I... much prefer that to an abortionist-on-the-pill (or any type of abortionist)
Only cis gender though and, finally - for marriage and children and full fidelity.

[dudeinohio]

Been there... done that. She cheated on me with a woman. Never again

[OlderAndWiser]

I had the very same experience, except that I married her first.

[dudeinohio]

@OlderAndWiser oh... sorry :(

[OlderAndWiser]

Lesson very well learned from that experience!