Would you consider dating somebody who is bisexual?

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MCheetah · Accepted Answer

FUGGGGGGG NO! That is some ultra-level cuck-shit right there! Dating someone who doesn't even like your gender (but likes the perks of having you around, like free dinners and free bodyguard protection) is some real beta-level shit, and I don't even like using the term "beta", but it is.

"Oh, I like to date and fuck women because I'm a lesbian who 'hates labels,' but lemme hang around you and use your strength and wallet for my benefit. You're fine with that, right?"

There's legit only one bigger turn-off I have than that, and that'd be dating a man (aka, "transwoman"). I seriously don't get why so many men are willing to be uber-cucks just to placate some pitiful, porn-inspired lesbian fetish. It's pathetic as fuck and it legit grosses me out.

I'm not even trying to be mean and malicious here; I'm dead serious. I can't think of much more self-degrading than dating a pretentious half-assed lesbian who isn't even into men (but will pretend to be). I've had experiences of women trying to con me into dating them, only to find out they were queer, so I don't have positive words to say on the matter. These people mentally abuse and gaslight men, as well as actual out-the-closest lesbian women.

I'm not going to ramble any longer. I'd never date a half-assed, part-time, pseudo-lesbian and I can't understand men who are big enough cuckolds to do so. Although I suspect its sheer arrogance that they think they'll be able to turn a lesbian straight. Or maybe they're just that simpish.

strawberryjammer · Accepted Answer

The labels just make me cringe. I know we need them but the lines are often blurry.

Long ago, I met a girl at work, we fell in love or lust or something... We were at her house having fantastic sex and a girl came bursting into the bedroom yelling !! They left the room and had what sounded like a breakup fight. I quickly learned they had been living together as lesbians. This girl clearly liked the D, and lots of it so maybe she was Bi? But she never dated a girl before or after me so... maybe she was not even Bi, but it was just situational?

My current girlfriend, told me she had a female friend that kept making her think, she was trying to date my girlfriend. girlfriend always laughed it off. I even joked about it. Then recently girlfriend came over and began to tell me how... it just happened. She had never hooked up with a girl before, but had been curious. Over wine, other girl starts kissing my girlfriend and once kissed back, drops my girlfriend's pants and just eats her puss for hours. girlfriend said it was SO GOOD they did it again the next night and girlfriend ate her puss.
I was SO SHOCKED and so turned on, I didn't know if... she was a lesbian, Bi-sexual, a cheater, or the hottest thing I could imagine. Now we are discussing a FFM threesome and I am happy to be dating a bi-sexual ( or just very sexual ) girl.

Melamore · Accepted Answer

Uhh, heck yeah, if I weren't already taken. 😂😂😂 I feel like, with a bi guy he'd be down to try a lot more things in bed.

JosyJosy · Accepted Answer

Sure. Ego boost to have been chosen over both other women and men

Finchie40 · Answer

Yes, and I have , but to me it wasn’t a real relationship , it was just fun in the beginning but then turns into a lot of drama, when someone can’t commit to just you it isn’t a real relationship, it’s still Considered cheating even if your bisexual partner is only hooking up with the same sax partners , it’s a selfish act , usually when bringing a 3rd wheel into a relationship adds fire into your relationship , cuz the 3rd wheel pretty much gets in between you and your partner and causes a lot of dram a , So finding someone that is bisexual isn’t on the top of my list but I wouldn’t turn it down I just know it won’t last long if they can’t just commit to you

Qdbrown · Answer

Bi girls are great for target practice.

You would be dumb and a cuck to get serious with one. Most guys who think of bi girls tend to have threesome fantasies.

Never get serious with a woman who does not have her head on straight. This is damaged goods. She's a mental.

Same for bi guys. All freaks. If you think freaks make good partners says a lot about if you accept this kind of perversion that's never going to be satisfied with one person. Three months tops. It's a fast food, self gratifying, sex-filled booty call at best.

JeggingsMan · Answer

Yes I would date a bi female, if I wasn't already married to one. 😝 My wife is bi.
which is a good thing, seeing I love skin tight clothing. Tights, Leggings, leotards and women's one piece swimsuits. I am lucky to have a wonderful wife that gets extremely turned on every time I have anything skin tight on. She even gets turned on when I have any of my skirts on. Most of which are gifts from my wife.

Would you consider dating somebody who is bisexual?

Miristheiss · Answer

No, not for me.
I go for those who are 100% straight.
If having sex with your own sex is something that appeals to you than we are just too different sexually. I could never have sex with a man. It is just too gross.
I need to be sexually compatible.

molonski2 · Answer

I can answer for any female..

NO NO NO NO , either he has had a hum inside him , or he has placed it in a mans a hole , thats not good.

I think some of the male answers , well they watch too many movies , and vast majority of these cases are simply not like that , it pretty much has to be a big No for me , might seem fun if it was casual dating and she was really hot , just like those movies.

But dating looking to an end game? Dont think so.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Question is a bit last as I’ve dated quite a few Bi girls.

I never understand negativity over a persons sexuality.

a straight person is just as likely to cheat.

sexuality has nothing to do with predisposition towards cheating.

hahahmm · Answer

No. The fact they even have to say that they are means they're not sure they can commit to one person. It's also way more complicated to know when they're cheating since now if they spend alone time with a same sex 'friend' it might not be platonic.

Bright_blue_eyes · Answer

Yes, but not seriously. Long term most guys who are "serious" would be looking for a life partner. Someone bisexual would be fun, and of course we would love you, respect and have fun with you, but... the idea of her always looking at women as an alternative to me would be a problem long term. I'm not insecure, but a lot of men are, and it would cause a problem. Fun dating, YES. Serious dating with the intent of finding a wife... No.

Gespenster_division · Answer

Absolutely. I men most women have lesbian tendencies. There's a whole spectrum between straight and Bisexual to full blown lesbian.
It's like one time an ex and I were watching black Swan and Mila kulnis goes down on Natalie Portman and all of a sudden my girl gets wet n horny, next thing you know we f*cking like two Jack rabbits. Never saw the end of that movie.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Not in a million years.

Iron_Man · Answer

Before I never would but maybe I will now maybe as long as she brings her female friends over and they can mud Wrestle each Other in bikinis. And even grind each other in panties but I will not tolerate lesbian sex or scissoring.

ConfusedMarried · Answer

I'm very heterosexual so my answer is no. Wouldn't want a man that is in to other men (or woman) for that matter.

HawkPerception · Answer

Did it once not by choice, but because I didn't know until they told me. I think bi people tend to have bipolar personalities from my experience.

sabon · Answer

That would be my preference! Isn't everyone looking for compatibility from there mate? So why not there? We look and expect compatibility on all levels except that! And this is really high reason for divorce separation etc! I would rather watch sappy lovey dovey movies that I hate!! Lose that capability in trade of a mate that's compatible with in the bedroom. No brainer or what?

Kas19 · Answer

I'm bisexual and my boyfriend is bisexual. All good over here.

CrotchRot · Answer

Yeah, for sure. I like to suck dick so why would I care if my man likes it too?

kidvid80 · Answer

no- cause in the end i could never compete with a penis if a dude likes both. at least im honest, lol

Abcdef2001 · Answer

All these comments just make no sense. The logic is "no bc they would cheat on me"? The potential for cheating is always there, bi or not. I personally wouldn't because I'm christian, but a lot of these people have very flawed logic

NoLookingAtSoleil · Answer

Certainly a bisexual girl, yes. But not forcing herself to be such.
I... much prefer that to an abortionist-on-the-pill (or any type of abortionist)
Only cis gender though and, finally - for marriage and children and full fidelity.

dudeinohio · Answer

Been there... done that. She cheated on me with a woman. Never again

ThePolishKnight37 · Answer

Dating yes, There is no commitment on either persons part. Marrying I would really have to think on that one. Does not mean I would rule them out, We just would need to set some boundaries.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I have, as long as I got to watch. Yeah, I'm weird.

thimmslicc · Answer

I would date a bi girl yes but I feel like I'm too jealous to share her.

Leavesbound · Answer

Yes, I have dated both bisexual women and bisexual men.

MotorcycleMan · Answer

I love the idea. I always wanted a girlfriend that I could go out with to pick up women. lol

Guanfei · Answer

I would, but it's dangerous for me. I could barely keep a straight woman, so imagine keeping someone who could not only find a better guy, but also a better girl.

Anonymous · Answer

I would have no interest in dating someone who is bisexual.

007kingifrit · Answer

short answer yes; long answer: i don't approve of labels and i think they cause behavior, not define it. i don't think anyone should "identify themselves" per say

Anonymous · Answer

I would date a girl who is bi-sexual... I'd even be willing to have a relationship with all three of us. Assuming my girlfriends girlfriend is also bi-sexual.

humanearth · Answer

Dont care, as long they are loyal. That what matters.

RingOfFire · Answer

No because I don't think she can feel fulfilled without relationships with someone from both sexes. And I don't want a three way relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

My first pop that pussy was a bisexual. a

johnsmithjs · Answer

NO, I would fuck them but would never consider having a relationship with one.

genericname85 · Answer

sure. just cause they're bisexual, doesn't mean they're a cheating whore that doesn't know loyalty.

Furuok · Answer

I can't compete with two women. No way not an option.

SlightlyEccentric · Answer

I'm bi so yeah I would as long as they are monogamous

Vice_Slayte_666 · Answer

I don't see the problem, if I'm straight and she's bi, then I'm still dating a girl and she's still happy! The only thing that matters to me is that she laughs at my jokes tbh!

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Date them for short term, but not for the long run.

Equi2ube · Answer

Well considering that I am bisexual, probably yes then

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Never. No one is dateable for me, except a natural born and fully heterosexual adult female.

moejoeloli · Answer

I couldn even let her love An other woman… as long As i can participate to here and now

AD240pCharlie · Answer

Why not? She's not less likely to stay loyal just because she swings both ways.

Unbeatable · Answer

What's the purpose. Not unless Im manipulating them for something.

Anoni-mouse · Answer

I found out midway through a relationship my boyfriend was bi. It didn't bother me though. If you honestly care about someone it shouldn't matter.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Sure as long as we have threesomes together. in my opinion 99% of girls are bisexual anyways they just dont label themselves that way.

Anonymous · Answer

I would be able to date a bisexual woman. But not a bisexual man. Strange isn’t it...

Anonymous · Answer

Straight people can rot in hell. Cheaters are cheaters regardless of sexual orientation. Straight people cheat way more.

Honestly I hope you get locked in a caged left to die

I'M DONE with straight people. You guys do suck ass.

Shyguy206 · Answer

I'll be very honest, but it would make me uncomfortable. From what I've heard and experienced, I dont think i want to go through that again.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably not, dknt want to date someone crazy and most are crazy so yeah. If she was a good person though yeah I would but that's not likely

Nazgol · Answer

No, I wouldn't. I would want him to have an interest only in me, noone else

bigslab · Answer

I used to have a friend that is Bisexual, and I'd date a women that is

ALewis30 · Answer

Maybe. As long as they don't cheat on me and be honest.

Al-Pacino · Answer

I like the idea if my girl liked other girls too, it would be a turn on if she invited a girl to have sex with us.

Pulseofsulfur · Answer

I would date a bi woman. I'd let her have a very close trusted female friend that she can have fun with.

SamA_nold · Answer

Yes, as long as I could trust the person

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, but I would only let her date girls, and she'd have to share them with me every now and then, assuming that they would also like me.

michael1469 · Answer

Is she is a woman and we share another woman... yes.

kevyhanma · Answer

what’s with all these labels bi, lesbian, gay, straight let’s just all get together and party

Paige90 · Answer

Yes I would... male or female.

Zelda_5 · Answer

Yes. I have literally no reason not to.

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