What advice would you give someone that's falling in love with you?

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Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Accepted Answer

I'll tell her love God and Jesus Christ more and more. Always love God 1st, 2nd and 3rd. I'll be happy and content with whatever love you give me afterwards.

TonyMetal___86 · Accepted Answer

Just be yourself and be honest and one more thing i'm traditional 😌

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

Run away while you still can. I'm definitely not for everyone.

I'm a handful, stubborn, and not one to sugarcoat my words or feelings. In addition, I'm a gymrat- so I'm very insecure about my weight and figure, yet I'm constantly exercising and eating a lot.

Most importantly, I've been single so long I'm used to being single, so it's going to take the right person to convince me why I should give up that luxury.

That sounds awful and like I'm trying to scare people off, buy actually I'm doing them a favor. No point in wasting either of our time if I'm not right for him.

coachTanthony · Answer

Well it's bound to happen sooner or later if you are dating someone. I wouldn't have advice but to just let them know whether or not I am feeling the same way.

Account · Answer

Please, find someone else and stay away from me. It is not a good idea.

TheorionMage · Answer

There's this wonderful FB meme that offers this pragmatic advice.
You as a female, were born into possession of the Goddess' Avatar 'franchise'
NOT a 'monopoly'...
hoards of envious trans female impersonators (ex: Asian Lady Boys)
can impersonate your external manifestation; not unlike a fishing lure
they can only offer Oral, Manual and Sodomy~

"BE the good girl that he loves...
BE the bad girl that he desires.
BE the naughty girl he lusts.
BE the Lady that he worships"

WHOM are you 'saving yourself' for?
'Fidelity' is EARNED daily...
a WISE man will not leave what he KNOWS
he will NOT find elsewhere~

Addict him to YOUR 'brand' ! ;)

Pasiton5 · Answer

How do they look and how stable are they, and are you ready to be in s relationship?, But for sake of everything being positive, i would check them out, talk to their friends family, them too, and search my feelings, see if my heart is skipping any beats even they're around, an i getting that butterflies feelings, how often an i thinking of them and what thoughts an i having, can i see myself with this person long term short term, how ambitions driven are they hire caring generous towards others, i know it's long will be senior citizens by the time i decide if they are cool for me but hey better safe that sorry

Leavesbound · Answer

Pay close attention to everything I tell you about myself and make sure that you are sure because I don't like hearing "well I'd never have started dating you if I knew THAT about you!" That has happened more than once and I'm always thoroughly honest but some people just don't pay attention to what the other person says. Likewise be honest with me from the start. There are very few things that would count as a deal breaker for me and I am up front about those things. Learning about something like that after a few weeks of dating is going to make me want to break up. The list is very short but I am brutally strict about it. I have only once had to break up with a girl over such a thing but it was an internet initiated romance and my profile clearly stated my preference in big bold letters and I know the person could read and understand English. She simply thought that she could change my mind about the hardest of my hard limits.

Siren777 · Answer

Banter - get ready for humour of all kinds. All the time. Dark humour too! I know I can be pretty blunt & sarcastic (eye rolls) but you get me. I get you. We're compatible, that says a lot as I am picky - I must have made a good decision when it comes to you. Adventure - all types of adventure baby 😜 Get ready the we're about to start...

MotorcycleMan · Answer

Look away, look away
I will wreck your evening , your whole life, and your day
Every single minute is nothing but dismay,
So look away
Look away, look away
There's nothing but horror and inconvenience on the way
Ask any stable person, "Should I stay?" and they will say:
Look away.

Azura_88 · Answer

NOT YOU AGAIN!
Just fuck off!! You've played with me enough and gave me dozens of mixed signals.
Now you decided that I'm the best option so you're coming to ME!!! 😡
Please go away.
If it's a normal person then I'll tell them to find someone else.

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

That's tough to say. If they are falling in love with me then presumably they already know about all my potential deal breakers and have decided they don't mind those things. I guess the only broad spectrum advice I would have is if they want to date me, they should know it will require a lot of patience and reassurance on their part

BlueBex · Answer

Probably, don’t. I’ve never been in love and I refuse to lie about it so the “I love you” phase is usually the point where my relationships go south. Think about it, there is no good way to respond to “I love you” other than “I love you too” and if you can’t say that honestly… well there’s not much you can do from there.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

That our relationship isn't a competition! I'm going to basically be cool with you doing whatever you want to do, as long as you communicate clearly and tell me what you're thinking.

I am a super low maintenance boyfriend. Just make me feel appreciated, desired, and make time for proper one-on-one time once or twice a week-ish. I want to feel like I'm dating you.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Give it a couple weeks to three months... You’ll change your mind. I told my last girlfriend this when she admitted being in love with me. Her response was, “You are stuck with me forever!” Well, she changed her mind as we barely lasted three months. She proved herself wrong. :p

JSmuve · Answer

I'd say "good choice. You definitely have good taste in men. But I ain't messing around with just any woman. I have a specific type. And I know, with a little bit of effort, you can be that type of woman. The only question you have to ask yourself is, do you love me enough to put in that effort on a day-to-day basis?"

Anonymous · Answer

I‘m a mess and not good enough for you. I’m not as confident and happy as you see me, I don’t love myself and developped an eating disorder I never told anyone about. I’m not so intelligent and my knowledge is average than those of other women. You surely want me because I‘m young and beautiful but as soon as you get to know me better, you‘ll get bored and annoyed of me exactly like my friends and leave me. So pls stay away and pick someone else.

blackassasin123 · Answer

Turn your a$$ back around if you're not working or usually just bored In life lol,. It doesn't matter what kind of job you have you just gotta have money coming in the bank and have at least a small bit of information to share with me about day your day . Try not to be boring, nothing worse than coming home from work to ask you how was your day and you reply with something boring or shallow: talk about what game you are playing on your phone, what show on Netflix did you watch, whats something strange you like to think about.. Just stop saying: nothing much or " had a boring day today" at least entertain me About how boring your day was so I can play along or SOMETHING. Even if you're bored the little things matter too

Rennitenn · Answer

Tell them my biggest drawback. Consider it with a lot of thought. I am 40 plus with no real trade skill or suitable means to put food on the table. Doesn't mean that can't change but Im just not losing my dignity to another asshole boss with half my IQ and a big fat chip on their shoulder that is literally ME. 😥

Agape93 · Answer

Be honest, interesting, have a sense of humor and don’t expect to be the sole object of affection

kevyhanma · Answer

If I have the slightest doubt that you aren’t sincere about our relationship I’m calling it quits I give everybody a chance like if I’m putting my all into us and making myself vulnerable in an attempt to know you better and build trust and strengthen our bond and your just half assing or playing games gtfo because if your serious I’m gonna give you my best honest , respectful , loyal kind self and I expect the same if I feel I’m getting anything less your gonna get ghosted

HopelessRomantic273 · Answer

I have ADHD, a touch of autism, I hate tags, I'm short 5'3, I have anger problems , I want kids one day. I want to create a beautiful empire with that one Godly woman that will last forever . if you can't be faithful I dont want you. but I'll love you and would never cheat

lilyanony1 · Answer

It will be a bumpy road unless it's mutual. I don't fall for just anyone not anymore I've had my Geary messed with for far too long

SupremeWarlord · Answer

God I hope I would love her back, every girl that was into me until now I wasn't into her, and every girl I was into was not into me :( The universe is playing pranks on me.

Finchie40 · Answer

Be prepared to climb a lot of walls and prove to me you aren’t a cheater and can stay faithful to me

PaynefulPleasures · Answer

I think this takes care of it ✌️😜

CupofToffee · Answer

If ask them what are their boundaries, beliefs and morals. I need someone who knows who they are and what they want in a relationship.

HiveBee · Answer

Dont cuz I dont stay attached long. I get bored easily and move on quickly. But my initial passion is fiery and burns up quick.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

That trust and respect are important. that honesty and openness is critical, as is having a sense of humour.

CrotchRot · Answer

"I'm too selfish, so please don't let yourself feel that way."

thimmslicc · Answer

Be patient. Communication is key.  Im loyal and very respectful. Please be the same. If not, keep it pushing.

Lyssiar · Answer

I know it sounds basic, but the only advice I have to give to someone in love with me is to stay natural and true to themselves.

Kha0tiic_xo · Answer

Don't your making a mistake, I'm not an easy person to be with!

WowwGirl · Answer

Im not the one you should fall for.  #wowgirlRocks

lanadelrey25 · Answer

Damn did someone steal your question? I swear I just saw this asked by some 17 year old

Sheyhoney · Answer

Awww thats so cute 🥺 I don’t really know what I would say tbh

averageguy4 · Answer

Me: "oh no what have i done! Your life is over! Your ruined! Ruined!"

Overmind · Answer

I would of subconsciously nuked that relationship long before that. When she gets too close I turn to ice & kill it.

Selliebeanz · Answer

You're a crazy person and I can't love a crazy person

blank_expression · Answer

It won’t work because all my exs were with me because they hate me.

NotARobberYet · Answer

Don't hear what other girls say, I'm actually a great person, trust me!  😆

Miah02 · Answer

Best be ready cuz ima bout to test the limits of ya love.

W3SSY · Answer

Honestly just approach me, not necessarily telling me that you like me. Chances are I'm too big of a puss to ask you unless I feel like I have a chance. So when I catch up on some signals I'd probably ask you out if I like you as well.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Please inform me of your love for me so that I can treat you more exclusively as opposed to treating you as just another random girl.

Minahh · Answer

I may look tough at times but I'm really sensitive actually. My heart needs to be in the right hands so if you just wanna use me and hurt then fuck off.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

If I'm not the one you just CAN'T live without, just leave, now! Don't EVEN waste my time!!

Angelo75 · Answer

Just be your honest self, don't try to manipulate me and don't see me as a walking ATM.

Sam_The_Savage · Answer

Don't fall in love with me  Fall in love with yourself.

DaveToo · Answer

Be careful. Unless you want to spend the rest of your life having climaxes.

jerdanro · Answer

There are so many hurt, cynical, and broke people here. I hope you all learn to love yourselves, let someone love you, and let yourself love them.

dray995 · Answer

Once I know you like me and we’re a couple, take it slow and ask lots of question because I’m shy/nervous and don’t always say what’s on my mind.

Still-alive · Answer

I hope you love video games *shows off my collection*

Aquariusmystery · Answer

Be patient with me. Sometimes I can be hard work but I’ll make it worth it

vtownguy · Answer

Tomorrow I a new day, yesterday is gone.
Always swallow
Arch your back like a pornstar
Never lie
1 dick in the room is enough
Never sleep with anyone you are offering me too
Be the family compass and angel
Be my certified freak 8 days a week

Iron_Man · Answer

To be loyal and faithful loving and caring and not selfish and then you’ll be alright

REALSTEEL · Answer

Take your time there's no rush really getbto know another everyone is in a big hurry to go no where

Anonymous · Answer

Ask for his credit card before he has a change of heart.

Born-for-sex · Answer

I would tell her to get on her hands and knees in front of me.

JackofSpades · Answer

Be patient, because I have no idea what the hek I'm doing.

WhiteWolf69 · Answer

Be honest and open with your partner and make sure they know where your boundaries lie and have that open discussion with them.

Anonymous · Answer

welllllll you're waisting you existence if you are and you're gonna regret it

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