If every other guy and every other girl nowadays complains about being hopelessly single, then why don't the girls ever hook up with the guys?

[MCheetah]

It's 3am right now, so I'm asking this. F*ck it! Don't care if it comes off rude.

If every girl over 25 nowadays are complaining about "not being able to find a guy," why the hell aren't they connecting with all these good, serious-to-commit single men out here, that are also hopelessly single?

I mean, we know why us men nowadays can't find a partner; women's standards are too high and they're too entitled, any man less than an 8.5 is considered "undateable" nowadays, and simps and soy boys are devaluing men with each passing day on OnlyFans and Twitch.

But what's women's excuse? Seriously. Seems like EVERYONE is single, pretty much. So how is no one able to date each other? Sh*t don't make any godamn sense!

Single-for-life, married, married, freshly single.

[TheUniqueOne96]

I think it's because if you're a woman, you're expected to get approached, as opposed to do the approaching and when you have that many 'options', it's they're going to be extra petty and want the best of the best, I mean I think us men would do the same if we were approached, as opposed to doing the approaching.

It's kind of like complaining about being hungry and then when you get offered food, you reject it, because you want something else, only to reject that too.

The idea of getting approached just makes people want the best of the best and I honestly think social media may be to blame, because everyone looks 'perfect' on there and some people start to think it's reality.

All in all, people can have whatever standards they wish, even if they're hypocritical, they just shouldn't complain about men having standards too, because some women can't accept that.

None of this is an attempt to generalize.

[Gray-Wisp]

Women only want the top 20% of men and and 9/10 women are degenerate, which a lot of the time isn't sufficient for the "serious to commit" type of guy you speak of. So, most men are undesirable to women and 9/10 women aren't sufficient if you don't want a woman who lies constantly, has fucked every other guy, or one that just monkey branches. Neither side offers what the other wants so very few real relationships form and most people end up dying alone. I don't know if we're at the most people dying alone part yet, but we're heading there and I predict that to be the case before I die, alone might I add.

[natured]

Because you already expect a girl to hook up with you... that's why... maybe you are being too straight forward or you are frustrated... you stated that everyone is complaining but i think it's only you at this moment... because it looks like you are desperate to "hook up" or commit to the first thing that moves and has tits... at least that's how i see it reading your question, i'm sorry if it comes off rude ( i care though unlike you so i'm already saying sorry see the difference here ;) )
I think you should relax your muscles, think about something else, set your priorities high, focus on something more important rather than these questions at 3 am...
Just try to sleep, have sweet dreams not wet ones because you don't really deserve a wet dream

[MCheetah]

Wow, this was a massive wall of assumptions and projection. Let's go through each one of them...

1. I'm short and ugly, and i admit that. I don't expect a girl to "hook up" with me.
2. I don't do "hook ups." I'll double-down and assume that's your thing though, since you brought it up out of thin air, when no one once brought it up.
3. I'm not desperate. Maybe 20 year old me was desperate to find love (not "sex;" actual romance), but he's dead, at this point.
4. You are really GOING HARD on the "Chad mentality," aren't you? "The first thing that moves and has tits." I know what kind of men your exes are now, at least.
5. This post isn't about me, anyway.
6. Insulting someone and then giving a half-assed "I'm sorry" doesn't make you look like the good guy "who cares." Not that *I* care. You're just a stranger on the internet; why would I need you to fake being concerned about me?
7. I've already moved on beyond women, because it's a losing battle, so my priorities are set to f*cking Jupiter, thank you very much.
8. That last comment had "condescending cunt" written all over it. I'll counter you with a popular feminist comment: "Who hurt you, @natured?"
9. You literally didn't answer jack sh*t about this question, but just rambled a bit about nothing. That's kind of impressive.

[natured]

1. Define UGLY? There should not be a standard to beauty, all of us women have different tastes just like you men, what is ugly to me might be beautiful for others or vice versa. My fiance is the best looking guy ever FOR ME, but for somebody else he might be ugly.
2. it's on your title "then why don't the girls ever hook up with the guys?" so what do you think? How cannot I assume something else in this case?
3. Then why are you bothered this much?
4. Let's not talk about EXES because it's kind of rude, also because i only had one ex and he truly respected me. Sorry i might have added too much spice on that phrase i didn't mean to.
5. It actually looked like it was about you but even if it is i won't judge you it's normal to have doubts or issues in this topic
6. It might be half-assed for you but when i say sorry i mean it, yes you don't know me just like I don't know you,
7. I'm happy for you, yet, i'm sure the right woman will come to you in no time
8. Aww well my bad
9. I think you should read you question again and come back to me...
Take care

[MCheetah]

"Hook up" doesn't literally mean one night stands. It means "connect with someone," whether that be a relationship or cheap empty sex.

I'm 'bothered" because your comment came off rude as hell, but more so, almost everything you said was wrong, and I gave no impressions for you or anyone else to think that.

[natured]

Well then you are too delicate or too young to understand this. But i'm sure you will figure it out someday.
I already appologized 2 times *shrugs*

[TheVoid777]

You answered your own question. The girls don't want the guys who are single.

[Anonymous]

The women perceive the men as weak or unworthy, and the men don’t like that attitude, nor the women being too old and sexually... “seasoned” let’s say.


Both consider the other to be unfit as partners.

[Anonymous]

Cause they have more fucking brains than you, oaf

[Opinion Owner]

Jesus christ, my boyfriend said this, apologies.

[MCheetah]

Your boyfriend sounds triggered AF.

[Opinion Owner]

He seriously is, definitely has some unresolved anger issues lmao

[JesseJayNeak]

I know, right?