Why do so many girls hate it when a single guy tries to find a girl to be with?

[Anonymous]

Why do so many girls hate it when single guys, especially ones they find unattractive and would never date, try to find someone else to date? Not just high school girls; but I'm talking about adult women.

It's like, why do they get pleasure out of seeing single men alone and suffering?

If a guy tries to find someone to date, they will go out of their way to prevent him from succeeding, including making up lies and rumors about him, and calling him an incel and spreading rumors around, to make sure he fails.

And why do they get angry or feel like they "lost" if that single guy finds a woman who is interested in him or wants to date him? They take it personally and get furious or extremely upset if he manages to find someone.

Why do so many women (probably the majority) actively enjoy seeing men single, lonely, and suffering?

And no, I am NOT talking about myself, here. This is just something I notice with many of the female population in general. They like to see single men alone and unhappy.

[ManOnFire]

I think a lot of this is true. I kind of asked the same thing once, but over time I think I found the answer: it seems to be that women enjoy that a guy is single and unhappy - like you said, but largely because there is a power dynamic in it. Women know that they are desired and have men pursuing them, and they love attention, so they want it to remain that way, and would absolutely hate it if it were the other way around.

I also think women try to deride men who are single and looking for women because singleness in women hurts them more than it does men, so they enjoy seeing men who are dealing with the same situation.

You are absolutely right though. How does a man find a woman if he doesn't ever try to make moves, ask them on dates, or talk to them period? Today's women basically want to criminalize or humiliate male assertiveness or the desire to have a partner. It is both stupid and evil to try to turn something a guy does into something bad.

[Guy13]

I beginning to think that they don't want each other nor the guy happy... They are crazy they stab the back of one girl in their group while laughing at the guy who is trying to chat their friend up...

[Aerissa_Jade]

I've never seen anyone do that, unless he is a cheating ex. I've helped lots of my single guy friends get dates and we go on group dates together.

[Summeroflove]

They’re jealous