I don't know if I am extremely desperate or trying too hard, my problem is that I really do want a girlfriend because I've never had one, I do get lonely, and it gets frustrating seeing other couples out there in the world that are younger than me. I think about having and wanting a girlfriend everyday of my life, it depresses and frustrates me so much that I have a hard time getting to sleep at night, that it makes me procrastinate and not do well in school academically. I'm sorry, well it is very hard to have this attitude if you have been single your whole life. C'mon, 21 years old is a bit too old and a bit too late for still being single, most people have their first boyfriend/girlfriend in the teenage years, in high school, like at ages 15 or 16. I don't like being different, I hate being a late bloomer.
It's not that I have not tried taking the initiative into getting a girl to date me or be my girlfriend, I have tried many times, but every girl I end up being interested in and asking out always has a boyfriend already, that is how it is most of the time. The other times girls have rejected me for letting me have their real phone number but they never answered their phone or called me back, never texted me back, so I obviously took the hint that they were not interested in me.
I never try to be like someone else just to get a girl's approval, I am always just being myself, when I get a girls number, I do not call or text her more than once a day, I call her text like once every 3 to 4 days, just to show her I have a life.
Most Helpful Opinions