What makes a guy only want to hook up with a girl but not date her?

[Anonymous]

[UnknownReflection]

There are so many factors involved, the question is too general and requires more details in order to narrow it down.

-Some men are not into settling down, specially in the modern era hooking up with no emotions attached and no responsibility taken is a culture on it's own.

-Some people just want to have fun sometimes without any intention of establishing a proper and long-term relation.

-Some people [Like myself] wouldn't hate the idea of taking my chances without too much attachment due coming from a long-term commitment to one relationship which is over and wouldn't feel ready for another commitment immediately and rather would have fun and be free off of the commitment for a while to see what happens.

[Anonymous]

Isn't that what Tinder is for? To quickly find a girl to have fun with during your lunch hour and hopefully never see each other again? This is actually a lot more common than most may think and the thought of ever making it into any kind of relationship is never even considered. You just have to make sure to protect yourself by using a condom. Just saying, it happens all the time.

[Anonymous]

Because he just wants to use her for sex that's it duh

[Asker]

I mean if it’s consensual casual hook up, then it’s bot using.
What I mean is what makes a man date a girl but hook up with others?

[Opinion Owner]

The same rules apply he is just using that girl and she should not be with such a guy

[TheBigGuy9]

He will usually only want to hang out. Won’t text or call everyday. Won’t ask you to meet his parents. Won’t take you out for dinner. That’s the main one. Even with my fwbs I took them out for ice cream, lunch and dinner, but men these days don’t do that.

[boggboss]

Most guys that want to hookup intend to do so from the start they don't decide depending on the women they just never intended to date her

[Asker]

So you mean
It has nothing to do with the girl?

[boggboss]

For the most part no guys don't decide on the sot they tend to know what they want before looking sure if they go for a date then the girl dont match up with what they want they may say they are willing for it to be a friends with benefits but not how most are

[all_hayl]

Hormones and selfishness.
I know, not a popular thing to say. Don’t care.

[all_hayl]

In other words, a vagina - which happens to be a part of your body, so he "wants" you only by default.

[DaveJord]

Sex is what what makes him... sex and testosterone.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Sadly, he is doing it for sex and I'm sorry if your running into these types of guys

[Wise4myage]

A guy whose just out to get laid and doesn't want any sort of commitment.

[Hulk30]

basically if she's just fuckable and not datable maa'm

[Asker]

Yes. What makes her not datable?

[Hulk30]

basic traits not peaceful respectful or submissive

[OddBeMe]

Shallow assholes. Try broadening your dating horizons.

[Anonymous]

He's a guy and she is willing to have sex with him.

[ItsMeElliana]

probably because of her body, to use it for sex.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Only wants her for sex

[Fireguy17]

he is just looking for sex, no commitment.

[In_Trance]

maybe she's not datable in his eyes

[Asker]

Why?

[In_Trance]

no idea; ask him why

[Dchrls78104]

He cares about her body, not her opinion.

[bamesjond0069]

Hot body shitty personality.

[Cowboy6666]

Because he is a player

[Redstang88]

No interest

[Full-time-Chef]

No similarities

[Asker]

What do you mean

[Full-time-Chef]

Yeah, I don’t vibe with her and such

[Asker]

But you would hook up w her cause she is hot

[Full-time-Chef]

She doesn’t have to be hot. I could be drunk or horny

[Dinosaursandanime65]

The horny

[TheAfrikan]

It is lust.

[lycanthrope3]

No commitment

[Anonymous]

Her letting him